Self Fulfilling Prophecy

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Where do I even start today? That episode was a roller coaster of emotions. I don't who I want to cry for more, Zoya or Asad.

Asad's fear of turning into his dad and hurting the woman he loves is only being made true by him. He is fulfilling his prediction himself. And Zoya, dear lord. This girl is so broken, she needs to be accepted, to be loved. She needs him to say that he loves her. I admire her character so much, she is so strong on the outside, she laughs for the world to see. But she is afraid of rejection, knowing that her own father left her, growing up without no parents. She knows Asad loves her but won't admit that she does until she knows that he'll be by her side no matter what.

The emotions on AsYa faces spoke so loud. As soon as Zoya entered the room Asad was hyperaware of her presence, he wouldn't look at her or Dilshad. I feel like he was dying to say yes, but the man does not work well under all that pressure. He needs to be poked and prodded out of his shell slowly...not pushed to admitting his feelings head first. But we know that Dilshad truly understands her son, his silence did say it all, but it stated the exact opposite of what Tanveer said. He is so in love with her that he'd rather give her up than hurt her. If only he'd realize that giving her up would hurt her more than anything.

AsYa's monologues were amazing. I just wish they'd be able to say that to each other some day soon. I was crying right along with them today. The two lines that really spoke to me today were:

Asad: Tumse dur bhi nahi reh sakta, aur tumhe apne kareeb bhi aane nahi deh sakta.
Zoya: Aap mujhe khood se dur bhi nahi jaane dete, aur pas bhi nahi aane dete.

We have a long way to go until an actual wedding happens. Hopefully, these 10 days can bring about that change. K. Who am I kidding, its gonna take a lot more heartbreak and time than that! But as long as they end up together, these heartbreaks will only make their relationship stronger.

And on the bright side.

My reaction to Asad's sexiness in a sherwani:



My Reaction to the most horrendous Billo Rani:


I kind of feel sorry for Tanveer, NOT. the way that everyone was looking at her when she said that Asad deosn't love Zoya, they were all like "Shut the f up!" And I feel like Dilshad is on to her the way she was looking at her. And the line where she claimed that Asad only feels "hamdardi" for Zoya, I don't think she could have hurt Zoya more with any other word, that is exactly what she doesn't want. And her smile in the precap, HAHAHAAHA. No one was going to pick you, go home. Please.

Any guy who looks at a girl like this is clearly in love with her. WE SHOULD EMAIL THESE PICS TO DILSHAD AND TANU. ahahahahahahahahah.





AsYa for the winnn! The rest of the week is going to be amazing! I think they just had to depress us on Monday, as if Monday isn't already depressing enoughhh!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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you read my mind, they are both so screwed up and need to work together!! the gifs you use though >>

the ovaries one made me laugh so much
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Posted: 12 years ago
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THANK YOU! This is exactly what was bothering me. Asad needs to realize that only he and his own actions can stop him from being like his father. It's not a destiny thing or a gene thing. It's the person's own will power. When he lets his heart take over, they have the most beautiful moments (even in dreams) because he's there for her and realizes he can't live without her. But when his mind kicks in again, he goes back to believing that because he's Rashid's son, he'll hurt her. Unaware, that his inner war is what's hurting her more. Because he lashes out at her for making him feel things he wanted to avoid feeling so he never had to worry about hurting her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mochhug

THANK YOU! This is exactly what was bothering me. Asad needs to realize that only he and his own actions can stop him from being like his father. It's not a destiny thing or a gene thing. It's the person's own will power. When he lets his heart take over, they have the most beautiful moments (even in dreams) because he's there for her and realizes he can't live without her. But when his mind kicks in again, he goes back to believing that because he's Rashid's son, he'll hurt her. Unaware, that his inner war is what's hurting her more. Because he lashes out at her for making him feel things he wanted to avoid feeling so he never had to worry about hurting her.


EXACTLY! I think he needs to let go of his past, or maybe find out why Rashid actually left before he learns to love without being scared.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If Asad has a heart to heart session with his mom...I think she will help him to realize what hes doing to himself and Zoya.
Actually if she could have a one on one session with the both of them alone. She will help them see everything clearer. Its always better when you talk to someone who has been through what you're going through. But I know that's not gonna happen anytime soon or at all.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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my feelings exactly. and i love the expressions on the entire khan family to second she started talking...their faces proved she is nothing but an outsiders and they really didnt want to hear her opinion lol. dilshad was gna slap her right there hahahaa

I dont even want a rushed wedding, I just want these 10 days to be meaningful for something. either asya accept their feelings, or something to move the relationship forward. i dont mind heartbreak as long as these two stick by eachother.

i really loved that despite that tanveer said, zoya didnt believe her. she didnt misunderstand asad's silence, she stills trusts her own instincts ans knows asad loves her and just cant say it for some reason.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

If Asad has a heart to heart session with his mom...I think she will help him to realize what hes doing to himself and Zoya.
Actually if she could have a one on one session with the both of them alone. She will help them see everything clearer. Its always better when you talk to someonewho hasbeen through what you're going through. But I knowthat'snot gonna happen anytime soon or at all.



Thats exactly what i was hoping for too. One heart to heart with dilshad and she can knock some sense into this complicated man and confused ladki haha

Jokes aside, i do believe that because zoya sees dilshad as a mother figure, she should be the one to make ger realize she loved asad :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: astonm



EXACTLY! I think he needs to let go of his past, or maybe find out why Rashid actually left before he learns to love without being scared.



Indeed. I think that finding out will help (he wont forgive easily, i mean his father did cheat on dilshad) but i do think it'll allow him to see that he did not hurt his mother to this extent out of coldness or lack of love.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post 😃

After today's heart wrenching performance by both Asad and Zoya it is very clear that these two need to hear those loving words from each other.

When the words of love and acceptance drop from the other's lips then - and only then - will their hearts truly take flight.

All it takes is a nudge in the right direction - maybe Dilshad can even manage to get them 'stuck in the storeroom' while she and Najma go out shopping or something 😉 😆

I would pay good money to see that! 🤣

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