Marriage between Hindu and Muslim..

This has been happening a lot now in today's world. I mean, look at the latest example, Iqbal khan to marry Sneha in January?

What do you think? Is it wrong of marrying people from other relegion?

Personally, I think it depends what kind of nature you have? If you are open minded and respect other people's relegion and behaviour and understand each other it's O.K But the problem does occur? What about the children?

What relegion would you give your children, saying as half muslim and half hindu? There's a big relegion difference, Somethings that aren't allowed in islam is allowed in Hindiusim.

But then again, other than that, there is society that involve around you? Some think of it as a good but most of it think it as bad or rather saying, giving bad respect to your relegion. These does cause problems in your maritial life ending up in divorce? what about the child? who does he have to follow?

What are your views? Is it right or wrong to have Hindu and Muslim marriage. People think this as such a big issue but when it comes to muslim marrying christian or Hindu and christian, it isn't a big issue.

sanya 😃

Hi Izzy!
Instead of commenting on a Hindu-Muslim wedding, I'll call it a heterogenous wedding and comment. India is a multicultural, multi-lingual potpourri! Many of us live in an intercaste, inter-region, inter-religion marriage.

1) some of us belong to such diverse cultures and traditions, food & clothing- habits that other than an "Indian passport", nothing else seems to be similar (definitely my case). I am assuming that love brings such people together and is the sole thing to fall back on in case of crisis and hence could take a huge toll when unco-operative yet intruding families are involved. It requires maturity, true committment and true passion to save an inter-religious marriage in crisis due to other elements.

2) it is a big respeonsibility one takes to continue to respect the other person's culture / religion and many a times, due to severe disparities, it is a bit hard to do so. Once the fabric of trust and respect is torn, marriage can become challenging.

3) children could either soften feelings on both sides / they may make the rules more stringent. Even parents may suddenly feel strongly about their religion / language / culture. This can once again cause tension. In a patriarchial soceity, chances of the man WINNING hands down are high. That is a risk the girl takes.

4) Seasons change and so do people. The person you marry will change eventually and so will you. Little things begin to matter a whole lot more after years of living together. One has to be very wise and figure how compatible one can be in the LONG RUN before leaping into a heterogeous marriage.

5) Marriage itself is a hard task (whether same cuture / different). It brings joys and sorrows in bountiful! The decision is one of the hardest, for everyone (inter-religious or not) as it influences one's entire life. In case on inter-religious marriages, one has to take into consideration several negative factors (social, cultural) and fathom the intensity that brought 2 different individuals together. Honestly, i believe that marriage can be harder for them.

Ofcourse, it is not all dark and grey. There are the fortunate ones that survive al this and become closer than ever before 😃

mQT

I jus wanna say dat how many times u ppl'll post same issue wid diff names?

as far as hindu muslim weddin is concerned let me tell u dis again dat according to Islam n QURAN a muslim man or woman CANNOT marry a hindu gal or guy untill dat person converts into Islam.period.

aur ju kertay hain widout conversion tu wo jane aur un ka ALLAH.

Yea , a Muslim person cant marry with Muslim lady bcoz our Quran dont gave us permission to do such,till she or he bcom Muslim too, in other case, MS.ATTITUDE describe it.