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Here is my Analysis and Take on the entire thing. My opinion and my POV, but I am sharing it with you all.
Purvi and Arjun's haste in that hut before the marriage was totally wrong. That being said, I am totally livid and appalled with the CVs for doing this. However, whats done is done and now we have a baby as the result.
What they did was wrong, but what has been done wrong must be made right. Arjun and Purvi have indeed committed a sin, but now have a child together. They should be together, reunite, be married, and raise their child together.
As for the deal- no, no sympathy for Ovi, and nothing about her so-called love for Arjun. Im glad she is gone and good riddance. We can take a trip down memory lane and analyze this from a purely factual perspective.
Savita ill-advised Ovi into staging a scene with another guy at a party to goad Arjun into agreeing to marry her. Arjun did so because at the time he was a businessman who could care less about love- didnt plan on falling in love and it had no place in his life. That was a marriage of compromise---as Arjun said clearly to Aashna it was as a friend for Ovi's happiness and he didnt care one way or another at the time.
When he fell in love with Purvi it changed everything. He neither planned nor anticipated it. It happened. He did, and stepped up to the plate...got slapped around for admitting the truth---that he did not want to marry Ovi, did not love her, and wants to marry the woman he does love- Purvi-instead. This was cleared during the Engagement MU time of Arjun Ovi---that part was done and stands.
He made a serious mistake when he married Ovi, a very big one. I strongly believe it was not so much as to prove his love for Purvi---to this day, I believe strongly that he truly did not think Purvi would be able to stand there and watch. Out of desperation he agreed thinking that she will not be able to bear watching him do it---now, even more so, considering they slept together right before---he honestly did not think she would be able to tolerate seeing him marry someone else in front of her, and especially after sharing an experience like that---with good reason. She did and he got stuck. He tried to manfully face the consequences of his own actions, but did step up to the place and admitted publicly that he did not love Ovi, he loved Purvi, and his marriage was a mistake. As to not divorcing Ovi- he had no idea where Purvi was, that she was pregnant with his child, or what she was up to. She left, remember? He had no reason to believe or anticipate that she was ever going to return or come back into his life. For all he knew, that was the last time he would see her. He cannot be blamed for the 2 main things he had no way of anticipating: 1) she was indeed pregnant with his child, and 2) she did come back into his life. This changed everything.
Ovi made that deal, and knew exactly what she was getting herself into. She wanted Arjun at any cost----her obsessiveness, and her need to possess what she wants is not right. There is a reason the clips showed this at the party today. That is not love and it should in no way be justified or called that. Ovi is facing the consequences. I always said you can take a person's body, possessions, freedom, even their life---you cannot take their mind, heart, and soul. That belongs to them. You reap what you sow. This is justice and finally facing the consequences. First good thing the CVs have done. I cannot stomach that people are feeling Ovi justified or feeling she has been wronged. She was wronged in being deceived regarding her own child's death--- she was indeed wronged there and on that point I fully agree. The baby swap was just atrocious and sick. However, she is not wronged by Arjun and Purvi, for their love for one another or their child together. Absolutely not. Nor will I agree that she loved Arjun, and that Arjun should want to get her back in his life. No way. I dont care how nicely she has been portrayed in previous weeks: this woman never accepted the fact that you cannot force someone to love you the same way you love them. This was made perfectly clear to her when her engagement to Arjun was broken, and knowing perfectly well that Arjun did not want to marry her---married her because Purvi made him...she knew she was marrying a man that does not love her...and this is the justified result. What is worse is look at the video clips---she has known him since childhood, and grew up with him...if he did not love her or see her in that vein all those years, what on earth made her think she could change that? Again, "GOD grant me to ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, Courage to change the things I can, and the Wisdom to take the difference." She did not take the high road. She took the selfish one. And now is paying the price. So no, no crocodile tears are going to move the facts. You reap what you sow, and we all have to pay the price of our actions, whether it is now, or after some time. We may not know when, only HE knows that, but the fact is sooner or later the time will come to pay it.
The fact that Ovi ended it today with him is the one good thing she has done, and the first time I have any ounce of respect for her for once. For once she has realized the truth, and I hope, this time will move on with her life and make peace with everything. I hope she has learned a good, solid lesson from this, finds someone who will truly love her and that is more suitable for her, and find happiness and peace after this. First sound thing she has done is end it with Arjun and finally release him and set him free. I hope she sends him divorce papers, and moves on with her life---my respect for her will greatly increase if she does so.
Purvi is also facing the consequences of her actions and rightfully so. Her mahanta acts, and her decision to play GOD with everyones lives and emotions has hurt a lot of lives, and she should absolutely reap the consequences. She deserves a slap, and then some if you ask me. I will not back down on this. She should never have given Arjun up- should have instead pointed out the obvious to Ovi- she showed that backbone when she tore up the check the first time Ovi tried to buy him from her. So what made her decide he was for sale at the time of the deal? Especially after sleeping with him? And yes, he had not moved on with Ovi in their married life, and when he declared again his love for Purvi and that the marriage to Ovi was a mistake, who did she think she was to again tell him how to feel and what to do with his marriage? I understand the deal was for her mother---understood that her intentions were for someone else---at no personal benefit to her. Agreed, but again, she is certainly not God, has no right to make a judgment over other people's lives. That right belongs to the Lord alone. Anyone who tries to play God or take over HIS right of judgment will be singed by fire, and that is what is happening here. And rightfully so. I am not arguing that at all. However, for this ridiculous family to be automatically assuming she cheated, and slapping her around for that is heights. Slap her for her mahanta stupidity---for sleeping with him and giving him up. Once she slept with him, she should have gone through with the marriage and told Ovi to take a hike--the man she loves is a human being and not for sale. She should have refused to let Ovi buy him, but forced him to marry Ovi instead-----so yes, D Clan should slap her for that. She deserves many slaps for that. But not for "cheating Ovi" because she didnt. Not by timing, sentiment, or anything. That part is perfectly clear. And why her fool doctor husband couldnt open his cowardly mouth and say something to clear to that effect beyond my comprehension. Its Arjun who is enraged with Mittal over his ugly words while the good doctor stands there watching the tamasha. And we think this guy is the best thing for her? Really.
Onir now is made to look like a perfect idiot and coward. A fool who is going to pay the price for Purvi's stupidity. Her mahanta acts cost Arjun dearly, and they are about to cost this man too.
ARVI should reunite, but this time with Arjun turning khadoos and finally putting Purvi in her place. Someone has to stop this Mahanta stupidity of hers before she ruins more lives with her "holier than thou" acts---otherwise the show will truly shut down as there will be nobody left sane or alive if her "mahanta" rampage is not stopped.
As for Onir- he may have been good to her to accept her, knowing her story but that is what it is. Now the poor guy is going to jail over the mess these 2 girls have made. Both he and Arjun have suffered at the hands of these two females and I feel sorry that 2 strong, educated good men ended up as cuckolds because of these 2 brats.
Purvi and Arjun's haste in that hut before the marriage was totally wrong. That being said, I am totally livid and appalled with the CVs for doing this. However, whats done is done and now we have a baby as the result.
What they did was wrong, but what has been done wrong must be made right. Arjun and Purvi have indeed committed a sin, but now have a child together. They should be together, reunite, be married, and raise their child together.
As for the deal- no, no sympathy for Ovi, and nothing about her so-called love for Arjun. Im glad she is gone and good riddance. We can take a trip down memory lane and analyze this from a purely factual perspective.
Savita ill-advised Ovi into staging a scene with another guy at a party to goad Arjun into agreeing to marry her. Arjun did so because at the time he was a businessman who could care less about love- didnt plan on falling in love and it had no place in his life. That was a marriage of compromise---as Arjun said clearly to Aashna it was as a friend for Ovi's happiness and he didnt care one way or another at the time.
When he fell in love with Purvi it changed everything. He neither planned nor anticipated it. It happened. He did, and stepped up to the plate...got slapped around for admitting the truth---that he did not want to marry Ovi, did not love her, and wants to marry the woman he does love- Purvi-instead. This was cleared during the Engagement MU time of Arjun Ovi---that part was done and stands.
He made a serious mistake when he married Ovi, a very big one. I strongly believe it was not so much as to prove his love for Purvi---to this day, I believe strongly that he truly did not think Purvi would be able to stand there and watch. Out of desperation he agreed thinking that she will not be able to bear watching him do it---now, even more so, considering they slept together right before---he honestly did not think she would be able to tolerate seeing him marry someone else in front of her, and especially after sharing an experience like that---with good reason. She did and he got stuck. He tried to manfully face the consequences of his own actions, but did step up to the place and admitted publicly that he did not love Ovi, he loved Purvi, and his marriage was a mistake. As to not divorcing Ovi- he had no idea where Purvi was, that she was pregnant with his child, or what she was up to. She left, remember? He had no reason to believe or anticipate that she was ever going to return or come back into his life. For all he knew, that was the last time he would see her. He cannot be blamed for the 2 main things he had no way of anticipating: 1) she was indeed pregnant with his child, and 2) she did come back into his life. This changed everything.
Ovi made that deal, and knew exactly what she was getting herself into. She wanted Arjun at any cost----her obsessiveness, and her need to possess what she wants is not right. There is a reason the clips showed this at the party today. That is not love and it should in no way be justified or called that. Ovi is facing the consequences. I always said you can take a person's body, possessions, freedom, even their life---you cannot take their mind, heart, and soul. That belongs to them. You reap what you sow. This is justice and finally facing the consequences. First good thing the CVs have done. I cannot stomach that people are feeling Ovi justified or feeling she has been wronged. She was wronged in being deceived regarding her own child's death--- she was indeed wronged there and on that point I fully agree. The baby swap was just atrocious and sick. However, she is not wronged by Arjun and Purvi, for their love for one another or their child together. Absolutely not. Nor will I agree that she loved Arjun, and that Arjun should want to get her back in his life. No way. I dont care how nicely she has been portrayed in previous weeks: this woman never accepted the fact that you cannot force someone to love you the same way you love them. This was made perfectly clear to her when her engagement to Arjun was broken, and knowing perfectly well that Arjun did not want to marry her---married her because Purvi made him...she knew she was marrying a man that does not love her...and this is the justified result. What is worse is look at the video clips---she has known him since childhood, and grew up with him...if he did not love her or see her in that vein all those years, what on earth made her think she could change that? Again, "GOD grant me to ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, Courage to change the things I can, and the Wisdom to take the difference." She did not take the high road. She took the selfish one. And now is paying the price. So no, no crocodile tears are going to move the facts. You reap what you sow, and we all have to pay the price of our actions, whether it is now, or after some time. We may not know when, only HE knows that, but the fact is sooner or later the time will come to pay it.
The fact that Ovi ended it today with him is the one good thing she has done, and the first time I have any ounce of respect for her for once. For once she has realized the truth, and I hope, this time will move on with her life and make peace with everything. I hope she has learned a good, solid lesson from this, finds someone who will truly love her and that is more suitable for her, and find happiness and peace after this. First sound thing she has done is end it with Arjun and finally release him and set him free. I hope she sends him divorce papers, and moves on with her life---my respect for her will greatly increase if she does so.
Purvi is also facing the consequences of her actions and rightfully so. Her mahanta acts, and her decision to play GOD with everyones lives and emotions has hurt a lot of lives, and she should absolutely reap the consequences. She deserves a slap, and then some if you ask me. I will not back down on this. She should never have given Arjun up- should have instead pointed out the obvious to Ovi- she showed that backbone when she tore up the check the first time Ovi tried to buy him from her. So what made her decide he was for sale at the time of the deal? Especially after sleeping with him? And yes, he had not moved on with Ovi in their married life, and when he declared again his love for Purvi and that the marriage to Ovi was a mistake, who did she think she was to again tell him how to feel and what to do with his marriage? I understand the deal was for her mother---understood that her intentions were for someone else---at no personal benefit to her. Agreed, but again, she is certainly not God, has no right to make a judgment over other people's lives. That right belongs to the Lord alone. Anyone who tries to play God or take over HIS right of judgment will be singed by fire, and that is what is happening here. And rightfully so. I am not arguing that at all. However, for this ridiculous family to be automatically assuming she cheated, and slapping her around for that is heights. Slap her for her mahanta stupidity---for sleeping with him and giving him up. Once she slept with him, she should have gone through with the marriage and told Ovi to take a hike--the man she loves is a human being and not for sale. She should have refused to let Ovi buy him, but forced him to marry Ovi instead-----so yes, D Clan should slap her for that. She deserves many slaps for that. But not for "cheating Ovi" because she didnt. Not by timing, sentiment, or anything. That part is perfectly clear. And why her fool doctor husband couldnt open his cowardly mouth and say something to clear to that effect beyond my comprehension. Its Arjun who is enraged with Mittal over his ugly words while the good doctor stands there watching the tamasha. And we think this guy is the best thing for her? Really.
Onir now is made to look like a perfect idiot and coward. A fool who is going to pay the price for Purvi's stupidity. Her mahanta acts cost Arjun dearly, and they are about to cost this man too.
ARVI should reunite, but this time with Arjun turning khadoos and finally putting Purvi in her place. Someone has to stop this Mahanta stupidity of hers before she ruins more lives with her "holier than thou" acts---otherwise the show will truly shut down as there will be nobody left sane or alive if her "mahanta" rampage is not stopped.
As for Onir- he may have been good to her to accept her, knowing her story but that is what it is. Now the poor guy is going to jail over the mess these 2 girls have made. Both he and Arjun have suffered at the hands of these two females and I feel sorry that 2 strong, educated good men ended up as cuckolds because of these 2 brats.
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