Amita needs to communicate better

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Posted: 12 years ago
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After watching yesterday's episode, it was a bit frustrating to see Amita's character struggle so much and go round about to clarify a misunderstanding , in the process complicating matters. Like Amit said, she can't talk to the point.

She came to know that Amit has heard her conversation with Suraj and instead of explaining the main point of how someone played a nasty prank on her by sending that SMS to Suraj and trying to break her relationship with Amit, what does she say ? She starts with explaining the ram kahaani of her liking Suraj in the past and how Amit is not like her 6'2'' dreamboy etc. How on earth is it relevant to the current misunderstanding ? Fine let her explain all of that later but is it not common sense to clarify the current issue first and talk about other things once Amit is calmer ? They got a chance to talk and clear the misunderstanding after great difficulty, so shouldn't she be getting her main point across first ? She never mentioned it other than saying "mein sms padh rahi thi" which obviously didn't make sense to Amit. Does anyone communicate so badly in real life ? 😕

I am starting to get disappointed with this serial as they try to introduce twists and turns which are too unrealistic. The characters can't communicate clearly to each other (remember the whole misunderstanding about Snehal telling the whole world that Amit loves Amita without any basis) and in the process of clarifying matters, they complicate things further.

How would you handle this if you were Amita and needed to clarify the misunderstanding with Amit ?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Completely agree. 👍🏼

Regarding clarification :The first obvious move would be to show the sms to Amit and tell him that someone is playing the spoil sport. Then maybe confess about the dairy and that some xyz has read the dairy and creating all this confusion.

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I guess the cvs wanted to make the characters look very real and as per the shows demand keep them very average. So the AKA leads have their flaws too and are not picture perfect like other serial leads. But I guess the circumstances are not very convincing either.

Flaws in Amita:

1.Still very childish and not able to make her decisions or rather takes time to make her decisions.

2. Does not come across as smart or intelligent.

3. While talking she takes lot of time to get to the point. By that time the listener would get frustrated. (Guma phira ke bat kartin hain.)

4. Blindly believes whatever she hears. Doesn't bother to cross verify the facts.(Snehal told her that Amit loves Amita but Amita did not check the accuracy of this information )

Flaws in Amit:

1. Is egoistic, arrogant, blunt, righteous

2. Does not wants to belittle himself in-front of his dream girl so just nods as she keeps on assuming things

3. Doesn't even bother to clear the confusion created by Snehal

4. Is unable to accept the fact that he is getting married to Amita.

Edited by emeraldeye - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I completely agree with you.Whenever Amita answers something she will utter only these words"haa mera matlab hai nahi,haa woo...".Its really irritating.Instead of solving the problem it gets more complicated.She can't take a single decision on her own without the help of her friends.I was also very disappointed with Amita yesterday not trying to concentrate on the main issue but talking something else.On the other hand Amit directly spoke what he wanted to clarify.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree 100%

There is a communication problem in Amita and taht's the reson why Amit got irritated...

She could not convince him properly!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I love Amit's straightforwardness; he is very clear headed and knows what he wants and what he doesn't 😎
Whereas Amita is a completely opposite character...she could easily convince Amit about how what he heard was so wrong and she loves him and that would have been all...only if she had talent and buddhi..😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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she is too immature and pampered and unfortunately in real life, that does not take you far, sad as i see myself 20 years ago...
he is a smart businessman and she is totally lost...totally talking about her dream man instead of clearing misunderstanding...how crazy can she get...

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