you know some how I can feel the situation..I would like to give an example
sometimes we form a gang of frnz in college and we just forget any other people outside the group. now if someone, may be with some deficiency wants to come in the group (say for example, i had a frnd circle and I also had a frnd who used to stammer. but that frnd circle did not approve him in open heart or you can say they did not welcome him)
here also, a group of superb dancer is nt welcoming a non dancer, not even their friendðŸ˜ðŸ˜ðŸ˜