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AdorableAnusha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#81

Thank you for update but i must say i disliked this episode Can't accept this kind of this insenstive behavior of Singhs towards Jagaya .First they emotionally butchered him off for the thing he was not ready i.e marriage then after knowing his feelings they are rubbing AnSh on his face like salt on wounds that too with hiding from him they are coming for dinner and Anandi coming for night's stay? How they can be so unfair and insensitive to his feelings ? and cvs want us to believe this artificial scenario which has no sense but far away from reality .Don't think any real family will behave like this insensitive to their own child . Shiv and Ganga seem to be more considerate to Jagaya 's feelings rather than Singhs They could have reconsidered this sleep over's decision who is happy with it ? No one so to whom thye pleased? .None so what was point of this torture to all from them including themsleves .😳Cvs where is your story heading

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Missesha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#82

I think Cvs are unnecessarily making J a pendulum by making him think of Anandi. I thought he was over A a long time back . And if he still had some feelings he was handling his inner turmoil well.

I think the problem started when Anandi went to lecture him on why he should re-marry. In my opinion Anandi should have just NOT taken up this issue with J. It is his personal life which she does not have right over.

But now that she went, instead of understanding him, she just started forcing him and lecturing. She didn't for once stop to think why the guy does not want to re-marry. Instead she cited examples of how happy she is with Shiv. Wrong example for wrong situation. J and A's situations were never the same hence they can't have copy paste solutions either.

This eradicated J's mental and emotional turmoil. And yet again when he looks around for support from his family, no one is there to calm him, because every one is hell bent on forcing him. Worse even he is being made to face AnSh. Where is the space that he requires?

If for once, J does not want to re-marry because he thinks he loves A, then is there anything wrong? It's just his personal feeling. For that he is not crossing paths with A then why is A deliberately interfering in his personal matters.

The whole awkwardness in yesterday's episode could have been well handled, but it went OTT. I don't get CVs logic here and the last thing I want to see is J being made a pendu again.

I am too desperately waiting for A to move to Udaipur and give Singhs the space and time to adjust without her mentally, emotionally and Physically.

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rukhsar.crazy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#83

thanks for the update andv

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onlinebuddy75

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Posted: 12 years ago

#84

I agree to few and disagree to few just my few points

1. J should not be pushed for his 3rd marriage, but if u see around in India marriage is big thing
According to maximum people marriage is must to be happy, this is what CV's are trying to show the mental status of family.

2. They did not tell jagya abt Anandi and Shiv coming over, yes they should have so he was well prepared to face situation. but then how will drama be created 😆

3. Anandi did not prepare anything for J, that was to show she has moved on.

3. Romance between Ansh, well i will say life come's along full circle. What you give come's back to you. Agreed J has repented and he know he has done wrong, but nature/life pays you back the way you have behaved "Harsh reality".

4. Ansh did not romance front of J. They were behaving as couple in there space where they were alone, it was j who was overseeing them.

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nolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

#85

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Originally posted by: onlinebuddy75
I agree to few and disagree to few just my few points

1. J should not be pushed for his 3rd marriage, but if u see around in India marriage is big thing
According to maximum people marriage is must to be happy, this is what CV's are trying to show the mental status of family.

2. They did not tell jagya abt Anandi and Shiv coming over, yes they should have so he was well prepared to face situation. but then how will drama be created 😆

3. Anandi did not prepare anything for J, that was to show she has moved on.

3. Romance between Ansh, well i will say life come's along full circle. What you give come's back to you. Agreed J has repented and he know he has done wrong, but nature/life pays you back the way you have behaved "Harsh reality".

4. Ansh did not romance front of J. They were behaving as couple in there space where they were alone, it was j who was overseeing them.

But they could have washed that teady it was really dirty😛

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RainbowKitty

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Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Thanks for update Anita ..Worst episode I am so angry at Singhs i seriously want to blast them and cvs too for this nonsense episode .I did feel sorry for Jagaya Without any fault of his he has being made to suffer so much now that too none other than by his own family ,Heights 😡

I completely disagree with all those who are trying to justify it by giving it name of karmic or nature pays you what you give to others that he has to accept ,This is injustice not karmic Whatever Jagaya has seen before this e.g wedding , he has seen many moments of AnSh closeness that one can say karmic , nature pays you what you give to others He was never allowed any space ,Singhs without any iota of paying attention to what he is going through kept rubbing AnSh on his face they happy he teary eyed never complained e'g sakranti and finally he accepted reality it has to happen this way he started to be happy seeing AnSh infront of him e.g last dinner date but now everyone shattered his emotional state by their non stop lectures to force him for something he is not ready despite knowing he won't be ready

.Anandi i never been pissed off at her ever before as at that time who the hell was she to go lecture him for this, rubbing her love story on his face .? Does she don't have even common sense she was not the right person to do Her double standard lectured , she just started forcing him and lecturing. She didn't for once stop to think why the guy does not want to re-marry. Instead she cited examples of how happy she is with Shiv. Wrong example for wrong situation. Jagaya and Anandi's situations were never the same hence they can't have same solutions in same way either. This eradicated Jagaya 's mental and emotional turmoil. and his hidden feelings that he was keeping to himself trying to move on but this torture forced them out And yet again when he looks around for support from his family, no one is paying any attention to him in proper way , because every one is hell bent on forcing him. Worse even after he is being made to face AnSh. Where is the space that he requires? Where is that caring family who use to be 24/7 around Anandi when he use to be with Gauri They were always finding ways to throw him out and care for Anandi It was usually Anandi who use to keep him in house but here i am not saying throw Anandi out but they could have for once reconsidered their decision and cancel their plan as it will be painful for him and Anandi won' t be happy either

But no family after knowing his feelings is hiding from him that they are inviting Anandi for night 's stay in their house giving him a shock,and instead of handling the situations sensibly are creating more awkward situations for him to be more shattered .They never for once consider their decisions despite knowing how much pain it is causing to their children This is heights of injustice ,and insensitivity from the family to their very own child .No one is saying boycott Anandi for ever but current time was not right for these kind of meetings for anyone neither for Jagaya neither for Anandi so why Singhs did that ?

The episode went too OTT and cvs definitely have no logic in it This is no karmic for Jagaya neither acceptance for him that past is over now so move on because he did move on this is just like forcing him to be in pain . first shatter him emotionally by forcing him in something for which he is not ready , open up the wounds then sprinkle salt on these wounds like this and they all are saying they are wishing for him .WOW great well wishing .This is complete unjustified torture on him after knowing everything . Its his luck Anandi is going to Udaipur and he will get space to move on otherwise all are up to kill him

I am too desperately waiting for Anandi to move to Udaipur and give everyone the space and time to adjust without her mentally, emotionally and she should stop interfering in Jagaya;s personal life as she has no right to do that so next time i hope she don't come up with her lecture on his life

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Surish

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Posted: 12 years ago

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saba113

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Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Thanks for update Anita ... i didn;t like the episode

I agree with all those who are saying Singhs here have been very insensitive to Jagaya First ruining his emotional state then when he is carving for their support they are rubbing salt on his wounds by their this kind of behavior .So unfair to him . I don't understand if they want to give Anandi a final farewell she is leaving Jaitser , Haveli she has left a long ago so why making her night in haveli? Arrange for a grand farewell for her in village where all villagers can come and no such painful situations will be created for their very own child too . This is common sense that Singhs lack and cvs have no logic behind it They have shown Jagaya moving on , he saw many AnSh moments in front of him . whole marriage , he was in pain and finally managed to accept the reality and move on and started to develop a heart felt smile on his face when seeing AnSh , he was the one who has returned Shiv Parvati idol to Anandi and confessed to her , her and Shiv's couple are meant to be with each other like Shiv Parvati so what acceptance he needs now for that cvs are creating these farce scenarios which look too stupid with a family behaving so weird and insenstive to their son knowing his feelings very well still creating such situations which cause him so much pain Its too much

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