Lets Understand Radha's psychology too..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We all hv spoken in defence of Akash , Ishita , Yash , Aarti SP , etc etc but today I want to speak for Radha 😊

Let me start by saying I dont support Radha's idea of suicide here ..But this is where I want to analyse the physchology of this character and why she takes a drastic step like suicide 😊


I feel this is one major problem with Radha as a human being mayb 🤔 ...its part of her nature too after she suffered a major jolt in her early teens .. she is scared to confront people when she is put under the scanner .. Mayb its because of her past experiences 🤔... We al ltried understanding Akash , Ishita , Yash , Aarti etc etc but noone really tried to analyse her character and why she has these flaws .. so here I m just trying to understand her ..


When she came to know SP was already married , did she confront SP about it especially when she was pregnent with his child ? 🤔..She preferred to run away from the whole situation knowing that SP will never accept her or her baby and later on she swapped the babies but dint confront SP at all ... Then in current scenario after truth was out , many complained why Radha never guided Akash when she was there with him for 30 long yrs .. So again same problem .. she dint confront Akash because she assumed in her mind that Akash will never forgive her for what she did and so again she preferred to remain silent and sort of keep a distance from Akash instead of confronting him ... Today again she was put under scanner and her character was questioned but Instead of confronting people or trying to find out the truth , she once again prefers to run away from the whole problem and instead commit suicide ...


So problem with Radha here is lack of self-esteem and confidence .. She is scared of facing/confronting people because she assumes the worst that is rejection and humiliation coming her way and so she prefers the easy way out that is either running away from the problem or keeping silence or keeping a safe distance ..And this is got to do with what happened to her 30 yrs ago when she was quite young and got engaged into a whole one night stand only to b dumped the next morning ..Since then the fear of humiliation , accusation and rejection has got to her and so she is scared of confrontations 😊...


To b honest Radha has much more psychological issues here than Akash and I m saying this from a woman's POV .. Any woman who looses her virginity to a married man in her teens only to b dumped later on faces lots of psychological issues and so even if Radha from outside shows her strengths or goes around lecturing others on moral values but from inside she always lives in that fear of when this society will treat her like a dirt once again and so today after this whole night fiasco , I see the real Radha coming out who is totally broken from inside and needs someone who can actually give her the confidence and dignity back to her as a woman 😊


Will she ever get that confidence or that respect from this society which is still filled with double standards as rightly pointed out by Paridi in today's episode .. Want to ask everyone out here ? 😊
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..Comrade4eva.. thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome take Jyo and totally agree.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thankyou so much for this jyo! Really needed to see some radha defense because i feel ppl are forgetting that she's yash's mother... no son wants to hear the term 'other woman' or 'mistress' for his own mother! if yash was accepted despite being illegit then why not radha? i believe she wasnt at fault for hooking up with sp .. thats was SPs fault entirely!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ZsterRose

thankyou so much for this jyo! Really needed to see some radha defense because i feel ppl are forgetting that she's yash's mother... no son wants to hear the term 'other woman' or 'mistress' for his own mother! if yash was accepted despite being illegit then why not radha? i believe she wasnt at fault for hooking up with sp .. thats was SPs fault entirely!



Exactly Z ... These words like mistress and other woman r repeatedly used for Radha and its hurts for a son ... Yash still tolerates it all because he knows that his mother made mistakes too ... but tyhe point here is was Radha the only person at fault 30 yrs back ? Was SP not at fault at all ? So why should Radha only suffer all the humiliations and accusations repeatedly ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great Take Jyoti di...I feel pity for her😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good one Jyo. 👏Rightly said she is escaping from reality without facing and to give her the inner strength to fight and face...think it should be the woman who should give that confidence and that is ofcourse Arti.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chitsri65

Good one Jyo. 👏Rightly said she is escaping from reality without facing and to give her the inner strength to fight and face...think it should be the woman who should give that confidence and that is ofcourse Arti.



Aarti and mayb even Vidhi-Paridi too ... I feel the best person who can actually connect with Radha could b Paridi here because she herself went through a similar one night stand where the man was at fault and so today we saw Paridi was so vocal in defence of Radha and questioned all about why always a finger is pointed only at woman and not towards a man ... I m sure she thought of her own one night stand here before raising this point because she knows how in most of these one night stands its always the women who r made the culprits when they r the victims in most cases but thats how the double standards exist in our society
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Posted: 12 years ago
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amazing post jyo der
it was a much needed post
people sometimes forgets that radha is yash s mother
wo jo bhi hai jaisi bhi hai wo yash ki maa hai
and she is always blamed for the mistake for which she is not the only culprit
i m nt saying that radha is all innocent she was at fault but SP was also at fault...
he betrayed and decieved her and left her with the unborn child in her womb(yash)
radha s fault is that she always accepted what the fate has given her
she accepted defeat after SP left her
when she cudnt think of any other way to give her child his rights then she swapped the babies
which was wrong but at that time it was the only option left for her to give her son his rights
she was selfish to think like that but she was a mother that time she only thought about her own son
later on she realised her mistakes for keeping akash away from his family but then it was too late...
and now also she was blamed bcoz every one saw her on the same bed with SP
the family members overreacted on this isue...
they shudnt have adreeses radha with harsh words...
i hope somebody saves radha from attampting suicide
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said JO 👍🏼
Yup Radha is an escape artist. She escapes when things get hot she does not face them!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What a post. I completely agree with u .

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