What kind of marriage is this???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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How come Amita still doesn't know the real reason for why Amit decided to marry her??

I think this is really stupid no offense but come on, her MIL to be is so annoying and rude, she really needs to realize that Amit was rejected. And Amit? He's willing to marry someone just because someone rejected him? And that gives him the right to tell Amita to lose weight and all?

I don't know why Amita is so keen on marrying into this family!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Because Amita is under the impression that Amit really likes her!!!

She feels Amit may have weight issues etc but as person likes her and wants her to change for the good!!!!

Though the reason they seem to show is odd there are many arranged marriages which begins with compromise and then they learn to like and live with each other!!!

Every arranged marriage isn't as perfect as they show for Preethi and Sanjay or as they show in movies like Vivaah!!!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know the reason for which each one(A2) is getting married is really very absurd.

But the real essence of this serial is that you may not get your perfect dream partner or a perfect dream relationship since such a thing doesn't exist.

Perfect partner: You might expect your dream partner to gorgeous/ stunning but if they don't have the basic quality of sharing and caring your life is doomed. As you grow older the looks and beauty will fade away, all just that remains is your/partner's true nature and behavior.

Perfect relationship: You can never get a ready-made perfect relationship .But you can make any relationship perfect by putting your sincere efforts (like our Amita and Amit). The road is going to be very rocky and the journey is full of thorns. You will have to face lots of problems and issues (in our case it is Falguni, Riya, Tina) .But you should have faith in yourself and your partner then you can make your life lovely and beautiful just like your dreams!!!

So guys lets us just enjoy A2's journey of making their relationship into a perfect one !!! 😊


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: heart1

How come Amita still doesn't know the real reason for why Amit decided to marry her??

I think this is really stupid no offense but come on, her MIL to be is so annoying and rude, she really needs to realize that Amit was rejected. And Amit? He's willing to marry someone just because someone rejected him? And that gives him the right to tell Amita to lose weight and all?

I don't know why Amita is so keen on marrying into this family!


Kajal answered this for you in an earlier episode. Amita is no hoorpari herself. She is average, and middle class. And every middle class girls dream is to settle down in a well to do household. Marrying into a family like Amit's will make sure she lives a comfortable life where she doesnt have to count and worry about every penny spent. And because she is no Katrina Kaif, nor is her father Dhirubhai Ambani, there's no way guys would line up for her. Amit is her best possible option. She may not LOVE him yet, but he is reasonably wealthy, educated, OK looking and a kind person. He may not give her butterflies in her tummy ... but eventually she will grow to become fond of him and may even fall in love. When you compare this to movies like DDLJ and KKHH, this sounds like a sad case of compromise - settling for what are getting and making the most of it. But thats how reality for Middle class plain Janes like Amita is .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think Amita feels that Amit likes her. I jsut don't know why Amita is tolerating such a horrible MIL.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree while relationships and marriages are no fairytale. We all have to adjust somewhere and let love sprout. Realistically speaking do you really think Amita would be happy marrying into a family like that? Is financial compensation worth more than personal happiness and good treatment? Her MIL is terrible. And Amit isn't so nice himself. Yes weight loss thing he wants her to do but how about him changing his attitude for once?

As for Kajal she's just ridiculous and self centered. Amita is no drop dead gorgeous but that doesn't mean she should settle with any Tim Dick or Harry, she's so young right now too. She could easily get married later and find a more suitable husband to be and household. Come on it's not Amit is the last person on this earth as they are making it seem like. There are so many other choices as the world is a big place!

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