Gayatri's dilemma vs Aarti's defence

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Posted: 13 years ago
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My take on Gayatri's dilemma and Aarti's perfect defence in support of Yash 😊

I m not sure whats going inside Gayatri's heart right now .. So will wait for tomorrow's episode to see why she said all those nasty words against Yash 🤔...As far as today's episode is concerned , I feel Gayatri is under the extreme shock of her own husband cheating on her about which she was unaware for 30 long yrs ... She cant believe that she was kept under the dark about this betrayal and she kept on blindly trusting her hubby all these years ... So her anger is mainly on SP and Radha which was clear from her words today when she debates with Aarti regarding how that lady Radha spoiled it all and also in the starting scene when she gathers the courage to grab SP's hand making sure he does not slap Akash and then tells SP that u hv lost the right to slap my son ...


But what happened here is in the process of showing her disgust and hatred towards SP-Radha , she is making Yash her punching bag since Yash is the result of that mistake comitted by SP and Radha ... When she remembers Yash was once her Raja Beta , her motherly emotions rise for Yash and we even saw how Gayatri was almost running towards Yash when Pankaj-Pratik told Gayatri about the burns on his chest but then the minute Akash falls on his knees and does that fake drama of crying his heart out in front of Gayatri , she suddenly remembers oh Akash is her own son who was wronged all these years while Yash who is the result of my husband's mistake got all the comforts , so if today Yash gets a bit of hurt , there is no harm when Akash too might hv got several such injuries in these 30 yrs

So in short Gayatri is in double minds and even though she knows that whatever is happening with Yash ,its all unfair but her debate here is whatever happened with Akash and the kind of poverty Akash saw in these 30 yrs was that fair ?? 🤔.. So if Akash can tolerate that unfairness and poverty for 30 long yrs then why cant Yash tolerate the same for sometime since Akash has the right to vent out his frustrations of 30 yrs today


In a way Gayatri's points r valid 🤔... But in all this the biggest mistake which she did is differentiating both her sons based on blood relations instead of trying to shower equal love on both and make things fair for both her sons since she knows well that whatever happened 30 yrs back , both her sons hv no fault in it and this is what today Aarti tries to explain to Gayatri when she gives the example of how once Gayatri lectured her about treating PayPal and her own son Ansh equally since she is a mother first and no mother should differentiate or compare their kids😊...Aarti tries to make Gayatri realise that she needs to follow what she preaches to others as a mother 👍🏼...

Aarti here never really went into the whole legitimate and illegitimate angle at all nor does she ask for legitimate rights for her husband Yash .. All she tries to tell Gayatri that just as a mother , dint she feel the pain at all when that hot tea was poured on Yash's chest .. dint she feel like giving a motherly hug to Yash at least once .. that was enough for Yash to get some mental peace ...Is it so difficult for a mother to do this little gesture for her son whom she brought up for 30 long yrs ?? 😭😭...


I m glad Aarti today spoke up for her husband instead of defending Gayatri 👍🏼... Aarti is not saying Radha is right but what Aarti meant is that if Radha was never this cruel towards Akash despite knowing that fact that Akash is not her son , then how can Gayatri overnight give such step-motherly treatment to Yash 😊...All Aarti meant was to do fairness with Akash , is it necessary to b deliberately unfair towards Yash for no fault of his ??


My conclusion is Gayatri is not wrong when she feels Akash has right to vent out his frustration of 30 long yrs but at the same time like Aarti said , Gayatri is not right either when she expects Yash to silently tolerate all the humiliation from Akash

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Exactly Jyo- she is right in feeling bad for Akaash, but what she is doing with yash is unpardonable!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: DMKJ_VB

Exactly Jyo- she is right in feeling bad for Akaash, but what she is doing with yash is unpardonable!


Yes because Yash is nowhere responsible for Akash's miseries .. its SP and Radha's fault so why Yash is being made a punching bag was Aarti's point today ...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i agree that g3 feels sorry for akash but she should not hurt yash na
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Posted: 13 years ago
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she should follow what she preach , she raised Yash for 30 yrs, how can she demean the name of motherhood so easily
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Posted: 13 years ago
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but G3 has to stop sky doing like this bad hekat to yash, yash bhi g3 ka beta tha
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Posted: 13 years ago
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ITA. However I think there are issues beyond this legit-illegit business that have been thrust to the forefront in the name of legit-illegit.
G3 is fighting it out with SP in front of her kids instead of behind doors! This is an indication of how she has handled her marital issues these past 38 years
G3 99.99999% of the time is not addressing SP directly (yes she did do so today when she "had kho chuke"). She is using her sons, DILs and Bua to irk him! This is woefully immature given that it is about 2 weeks now since the truth is out!
G3 is not disciplining Ak in private (or public) and is claiming her parenting style is faultless. Hypocrisy at its best.
G3 is not bonding with Ak in public or private and making him feel accepted - so how is his behavior ever going to change? Why is she not bonding - is she afraid of what she may learn about herself?
G3 angst is legitimate and understandable but her lack of insight and judgement in dealing with it given her chronological age and life experience is disconcerting!!
G3 is not instructing him the do's and don'ts of joint family life - so how will he be accepted by others?
G3 is preventing SP from discipling Ak so how are the two ever to interact if all Ak exhibits is bad behavior! Why? For Radha's crime? Is she not giving Radha more importance than she deserves?
Is this the elite superior sanskar of her royal blood?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Jyo loved your analysis dear👏.In this drama i was dying to see this Arti who is possessive and and protective for her husband.Today i just loved her each and every words.

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