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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: cinthiann1758

@ Samin,

What I neglected to say in my post to you, (the post you wrote about your dad), was that as my father worked he did it with a smile on his face. As he accumulated his wealth, we never knew, but that money was for the care of my mom, who in the last 10 years had developed Alzheimers disease.

@All

Today
, Sunday the 10th of March, my beloved Mom has passed, 😭peacefully in her sleep. I now know she is with my Father and they have become stars in the sky for me to see forevermore...❤️


My dear Cynthia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you...I'm not very good at giving condolence but I wish you and your family all my love at this difficult time, and that you feel your parents are smiling down at you, and that you will always feel their love and blessings upon you. Wish I was there to give you a hug.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: indi52



episode 69

come to think of it, la's instinct was right. there was a thief abroad. to catch it however, you don't call the police. you don't call anyone. you simply watch and hope some day you'll be stolen from just like this, in broad daylight, before all eyes.
What an interpretation!Khushi should be accused to steal ASR. La's prediction was right.

today, while the whole family got ready to celebrate the birth of one of the most intriguing figures of indian thought, the eclectic vishnu avatar, krishna, love came to take what it thought was its, without seeking any permission whatsoever. such is the way of love. and perhaps this insight into its nature gave birth to the rich and beloved love story of krishna with his paramour radha. curiously set outside the boundaries of conventional norms, the love of the two, who met as children, separated, married other people, but continued to be lovers taking this emotion to its highest and most breathlessly immortal extent, this tale of prem, is sublime and so complete, it never occurs to most of us to turn around and say, " hain? how come"? even though many of us hear while growing up, that radha was krishna's mami.
Radha-Krushan's tale is an epic. I heard it too that Radha was her mami.Is it true?

the other love that comes to mind when gopal is mentioned is that of his mother's for him and his for his mother. his adopted mother... yashoda. i get goosebumps even thinking of this relationship. the many questions and playful love seeking of the little nand kishore is subject of lovely songs, stories, dances, paintings, and a part of growing up, grand mother's tales, memories. my mother's generic name for all of us siblings was, yes, "gopal." of course, she had to be kinda pleased with you to call you that.

both these loves were there today. as asr's eyes told many things at the mention of his mother, and again as he looked at khushi. he knew of that first love of his... it stayed in his heart, and in its intensity and purity it practically defied death. a son's love as full as a mother's.

his feelings for khushi, on the other hand, he was not really aware of, yet they were clearly in place, and love was quietly stealing his heart and giving it to a girl with a smile in her eyes, a happy giving heart who nonetheless had only the most bitter words for him on her lips. but what was in her heart? ha, there again the thief was up to its tricks. the clever cosmic lover had taught love well.
he was scared to be loved becoz of his bitter past.But ultimately love conquers all.

did someone who grew up in a very krishna environment write this tale? some day, if i get a chance, would love to find out from the creators how much of their own beliefs and desires and myths seeped into ipk.

another beautiful thing, story always moves in two layers, sometimes more. like a river. the surface is visible, flowing in a particular direction, but below it is another story rippling, gurgling, playing with thoughts, jumping over memories, going to meet the ocean and become part of its being.
Sign of brilliant thought of the writer.

the second underlying story was my killer today. as always it was short, pithy, and a complete knock out.

started with a prologue.
he came down the stairs as his sister walked up to him with a dejected air.

in an instant he knew why. jeeja ji. khushi was teaching la to set up the birth of krishna tableau.
he turned hearing her voice... looked at her and...


hey hey... the beautiful music device that hints at the state of his mind. what's happening to him? this call...


"tumhe yaad hai chhotey...?"



his sister recalled the time as a child he'd put glue in the cucumber which cradled baby krishna and he was stuck there. ah so asr had done this to bal gopal? maybe that's why he's planned such sweet revenge?

how angry ma was that day.

his eyes which were on khushi, came in a fluid motion to di, and then got lost in the memory of his first true love. struck me as interesting that shift of feelings. as though there was a connection there. his love for khushi and his love for ma. much later, sitting in a garden dedicated to his mother he would make her his wife, his ma's bahu, that is all the ritual he needs.
His Ma was precious to him and so as Khushi.
"dant hi nahin, maar bhi padi thi."



not just a scolding, got a beating too. touching clean delivery. eyes remember, caress and feel, then come back to reality, "meeting hai..." got a meeting, got to go. the little eye movements had said much. somehow i felt janmashtami is particularly painful for him, he just misses his mum. which is why, he'd rather stay away.
You just said it. That's why ASR always was evasive from this rituals and customs.


as he walks out, she sees him. and in classic khushi vein, delivered with sanaya's talent for funny, she goes in her head,"laad governor kahin ka, hoonh, pata nahin kis kis ko dara ke aa raha hai... aur kiss kiss ko daante ja raha hai..." laad gov, wonder who all he has scared and who else he is off to scare. just before this he was particularly nasty to her, calling her a gold digger again. but notice how, she never takes the awful things he says that seriously. why? is it because her heart hears the unsaid, and doesn't get so freaked out? and then of course, there's her typical fending off of the blues by catching some fun and throwing it on the gloom and doom.lovely dialogue, from the talented mr kevaliya (or whoever wrote this one), naughty those 4 "kisses" in the sentence.
His every move affects her. sanaya was too good in the scene.

he looks at her. and all that flows in him is a feeling... its mesenger, rabba vey.

"bye" says he softly to di, his mind still soaked in memory. me dead.

a little kurta giving and not really taking, as always, with di.

he again looks at her, then leaves.

krishna is being set up. or is he setting up his leela? his game?

the story.
"ek minute, nani,"


he walked back into the scene amid turbulence. cops at the entrance, whole family standing there, tense. khushi has tears in her eyes. there was talk, some anger, some suave managing of the situation by the tycoon of raizada house, a "scene" superbly averted by the grandmother. she possibly had taught the tycoon many of his management skills and his straight forward, courageous handling of things, and bequeathed some stubbornness while at it. all that really registered was this.
he grew watching her. So obviously he adapted some quality of his Nani. And some he inherited from her I guess.



(i had a feeling he knew she was at the centre of this fiasco.)


and then came poignant moments, not in some beautiful wood of vrindavan, right by the staircase at shantivan it took place.



he sees her wiping tears... she's turning, he pretends he didn't see a thing... walks away. rabba vey builds, he goes up the steps and stops, turning to look back.


a whole love story got told in those last few seconds of episode.



☯️

think the police could have caught this thief?
anyway, some other prem kahanis from 69.


"payal ji, humne aapke banaye huye pede khay..."payal ji, i ate the sweets made by you... what he was saying really: you are the sweetest thing ever, when i see you my heart leaps up, other parts of body also do things.
finally akash said something. and payal, isn't she a little bit more bold though than him, gave him this intense look.


bua and mami stole a few moments of lau with some trading of insults and lakshmi talk. their cupid is the goat for sure. missed kaal, bet that has major meaning. "ah ee ghar mein toh bahut jeeb jantoon hain," buaji's, yes this house has lots of animals, had me giggling. my family and other animals and durrell came to mind.


my super love for nani grew. what a woman. when she took guarantee of khushi, oh the look on the innocent young girl's face. and that stylish handling of situations... with authority but with grace too. the way of the previous generation. how to be assertive without being aggressive... instead of reading management books on it, one should just see the matriarchs of yore. despite all the pushing down of women, they somehow managed to rise... and rule; and bind their fams with tough love.
Loved the line "matriarchs of yore".It was great to see matriarchy in a Indian social drama, where our Indian society is very much patriarch.
Nani is a woman of strong values and ethics.
If a family get such guidance they always remain in the right track. That's why being so modern and ruthless ASR always respected his family's beliefs and values. He never crossed his lines with La, at least not in front of his family.

ok, today no place for hate... so no shyam.


just one last thing, so la really thought lauki was cucumber? asr, tsk tsk.
😆😆😆


brilliant analysis as usual.
Lines in bold stood out for me.
I added my response in purple.
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Posted: 12 years ago
how does one do a birthday index? ok, here's a try. please pm me all your birthdays and i'll list them down on a post here, put a link to that post on the main forum. if there's a better way to do this, please tells tells.
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Posted: 12 years ago
ami, 🤗

thanks so much for your happy comments on survival guide. you i bet can add several tips to it ha ha.
i believe your sis finds the asr "boring." hmmm sounds like a cool survival trick to me. neer mind, there's more of barun to come, maybe those you two can huddle over together, in the mean time, i am beginning to think that should time travel be possible, may not be a bad idea to go back 3 decades. get a new me, return, and go for 22 yards female lead audition.
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Posted: 12 years ago
sohara,

thanks for reading and commenting on 69. lovely interjections. that one on patriarchy, great. the system still remains patriarchal, often within it are strong women in the family, men still very much the "head" of fam. but here what i found interesting was nani was indeed the head of fam... her son had not taken over as is the usual way one has seen. she did not earn money, but she was the boss as my daughter would say). and while she ruled with iron hand, she remained gracious, feminine, measured. reminded me of my mother in many ways. only difference being, mother was not into pooja path, and was liberal at heart. actually, the second trait, even nani had. i would love to hear of her life with nanji, her loneliness after his death, and her dealing with her daughter's early passing away. some women deal fabulously with tragedy, she seems to be one. it is in that respect, an inspirational character. plus, though she is traditional, she has open places in her mind, willing to accept change, if she can make sense of it, and despite her khitch khitch with mami, loves her and indulges her weird, lazy nature, none of that you are bahu so you must toil and serve us. very nice.
Edited by indi52 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Katelyn


😭 sending all of you hugs!!!🤗
@kately love this song, and has a lot of meaning to me to start with but after reading your dad's story 😭 he's in a better place. we've talked before about him, but i din't know the whole story. it couldn't have been easy
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: wiwy


Yes, Cynthia. You are such a strong person. When you PMed me, I was so shocked that I dint know how to react. I am glad my tryst with Barun made you feel better. This is for you too. Hugs.

Peace my heart...

Peace, my heart, let the time for the parting be sweet.
Let it not be a death but completeness.
Let love melt into memory and pain into songs.
Let the flight through the sky end in the folding of the wings over the nest.
Let the last touch of your hands be gentle like the flower of the night.
Stand still, O Beautiful End, for a moment, and say your last words in silence.
I bow to you and hold up my lamp to light you on your way.

~Rabindranath Tagore



BD Thank You and Wiwy, I really am not that strong but I do believe in the alleviation of pain in the afterlife. That gives my heart ease. Your poem is just beautiful and I will use it at my mom's service thank you!
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Katelyn

@Cynthia
Thanks for sharing the poem, Cynthia! It's such a beautiful piece! I'm so moved by your strength! I'm sure your parents are so proud of you! This one is for you!
If I should go tomorrow It would never be goodbye, For I have left my heart with you, So don't you ever cry. The love that's deep within me, Shall reach you from the stars, You'll feel it from the heavens, And it will heal the scars.
- Unknown author
@wiwy
That's a very nice poem to share!! Thanks!
I still miss my dad especially this past Chinese New Year! 😭 He was in the hospital for almost 2 months before his passing! All that time, he was in a coma due to low blood sugar of 32! He was in life support and in and out of ICU! His condition got worst with kidney failure and needed dialysis! At that point, we knew we had to let him go! We didn't want him to suffer anymore! He had severe brain damage with no chance of recovery! I think we did all we could! This song always remind me of my dad!
😭😭😭
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fuqkz_sZDos[/YOUTUBE]
credit to uploader

Katelyn, thank you so much for that beautiful poem. I am sorry for your loss as well. It was very brave of you to make the choice of letting him go. My heart is with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: RebeccaDaphne


My dear Cynthia, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you...I'm not very good at giving condolence but I wish you and your family all my love at this difficult time, and that you feel your parents are smiling down at you, and that you will always feel their love and blessings upon you. Wish I was there to give you a hug.


Thank you so much Rebecca. I feel your hug!
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Posted: 12 years ago
This is all I can do right now...

Episode 73

Trouble Maker/ Revenge is Sweet!

Kushi has made plans to payback ASR for throwing her out of his car. First the sugar cubes placed in his gas tank which made the fuel line clogged, second the changing of his mobile ring tone which embarassed him in his very important business meeting, and finally the mango juice in his shoes. Kushi is such a trouble maker. Revenge is sweet.

He realizes that she is the one who has played the tricks on him. He will not spare her. Revenge is sweet.

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