Can you accept a caring, mature but ugly spouse?

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rittu_deep

@rittu_deep

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Posted: 12 years ago

What if your would-be-spouse is ugly or not good looking?????
But he/she can understand your happiness, pain, sorrow, desires, dreams, ambitions...

He/she has the maturity to understand you completely or cares for you as their own..
Will you accept such a person as your life partner????
Or you will go for "better looking" options?????

Share your views friends... 😊

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Jyoti

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Posted: 12 years ago

nice topic...😉

well my views are tht i might not go for a good looking or ugly looking guy.. i'm more in the middle like he shouldnt be to bad lookin or to good looking.. really i think it depends on our personalities how we want one to look or how we want tht person to look at us.. speaking truthfully if tht person can make me feel happy n take all my tears away i wouldnt care if he's bad lookin cause wat matters the most is the understanding u have for one another also the trust u have upon each other.. there is sooo much i could say on this for now i think this is good enough u let me know if u have other opinions i would love to hear wat everyone else has to say as well...😳

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Sun-Love

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Posted: 12 years ago

If he's independent, strong-willed, caring, warm, optimistic, adventurous and always has a smile on his face; I could care less about how he looked. I'm attracted to the overall personality, which starts with a confident walk and a smile.

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Tacker_Holic

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Posted: 12 years ago

This is an excellent topic! 👍🏼

Well if this was me personally I will go for more of a personality orientated guy! Lets put it this way you may have a really good looking guy who is the most handsome but if he doesn't have a good personality or feelings towards you then what is the point! I would rather marry a guy who is ugly but be able to understand my feelings without me having to tell him. Afterall looks aren't everything it is all about the heart! My mum always tells me to look at the values and the respect in the guy you marry not his face. Afterall, you never judge a book by its cover.

I think Aaradhya will go through the same phase as me a couple of years ago I said to myself that I want to marry a really handsome guy when I am older but then I realised that behind looks there is much more deeper, more important things. So Aaradhya will too overcome her fear and accept Madhav as well. But obviously it will take time!

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848092

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Posted: 12 years ago

I actually wanted Aradhya to go with Rahul...but no, I would have to disagree with you...

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Angel

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel_Heaven
nice topic...😉

well my views are tht i might not go for a good looking or ugly looking guy.. i'm more in the middle like he shouldnt be to bad lookin or to good looking.. really i think it depends on our personalities how we want one to look or how we want tht person to look at us.. speaking truthfully if tht person can make me feel happy n take all my tears away i wouldnt care if he's bad lookin cause wat matters the most is the understanding u have for one another also the trust u have upon each other.. there is sooo much i could say on this for now i think this is good enough u let me know if u have other opinions i would love to hear wat everyone else has to say as well...😳

Pari 🤗

I have to agree with you... I believe everything depends on the person's personality. For me looks are not the priority, it's the person's character and his personality that attracts me... good looking guy is admirable but a good hearted, compassionate guy is the one we eventually fall in love with.

PS: I love your AsYa siggies...

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Jyoti

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Angelskiss

Pari 🤗

I have to agree with you... I believe everything depends on the person's personality. For me looks are not the priority, it's the person's character and his personality that attracts me... good looking guy is admirable but a good hearted, compassionate guy is the one we eventually fall in love with.

PS: I love your AsYa siggies...

sarah🤗

thnks for agreeing seriously if we think about real life then reel life.. from tht we know we have to go for a man who is more out there from his heart n personality then from his looks n all.. cause looks can be decieving u know the phrase dont judge a book by its cover i think this phrase reflects on this show for sure...😳

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Angel

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Angel_Heaven

sarah🤗

thnks for agreeing seriously if we think about real life then reel life.. from tht we know we have to go for a man who is more out there from his heart n personality then from his looks n all.. cause looks can be decieving u know the phrase dont judge a book by its cover i think this phrase reflects on this show for sure...😳

Yup! Its all good to go GA-GA over the good looking guys that we watch on TV but really we fall for the character they play and these characters are always romantic, charming, caring and compassionate hence we fall in love with them but if you take out all the good qualities and leave just the good looks then they are nothing but a picture to admire for a moment and then forget the next... know what i mean?

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Jyoti

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Angelskiss

Yup! Its all good to go GA-GA over the good looking guys that we watch on TV but really we fall for the character they play and these characters are always romantic, charming, caring and compassionate hence we fall in love with them but if you take out all the good qualities and leave just the good looks then they are nothing but a picture to admire for a moment and then forget the next... know what i mean?

soo true i definitely agree with u like 100% cause u spoke the truth sista..😉😆 seriously even though we like hawt guys but still like u said we go for the compassion n passion tht brings out their hotness i guess so if an ordinary lookin guy comes we dont take him seriously yet he also has the compassion n passion which we need to see through our hearts not through actaully eyes i guess u get me hehehe...😳

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Angel

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: Angel_Heaven

soo true i definitely agree with u like 100% cause u spoke the truth sista..😉😆 seriously even though we like hawt guys but still like u said we go for the compassion n passion tht brings out their hotness i guess so if an ordinary lookin guy comes we dont take him seriously yet he also has the compassion n passion which we need to see through our hearts not through actaully eyes i guess u get me hehehe...😳

exactly! I think it all comes down to knowing the guy, if one takes the time to know the person behind the good/ugly face then we fall for the guy regardless of his looks because its his personality and his nature that would attract us. We might think we have fallen for the good looking guy but once we get to know him and his personality we might realize he is not good enough to love...

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