Can you accept a caring, mature but ugly spouse?

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N.bhavna

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Excellent topic,

Lol,😆 i'm already under the effect of " Satyam shivam sundaram" , which was aired on zee cinema day before yesterday.

How would any one know that a person is good hearted or rude or ill mannered or cruel or evil,we have to spend time with that person to know him.But if we see the reality, there is so much discrimination on the basis of looks, personality, color. We don't give chance to such people, Do we?

Being not so good looking girl , i have faced many many rejection, discrimination from society, Even the boys who are not good looking have rejected me as they want their wife to be beautiful. I'm not complaining , i'm happy with my life. But what my point is now a days trend is such that while choosing some one specially for marriage alliance, people generally go by looks , they simply don't give next person a chance to showcase his/her virtue.

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HaRul-lover

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: nb.neha

nobody is UGLY..it's just how you see it. here the main lead is not shown to be ugly but shown to be "not so good looking" because of his skin color and spots on his face. but as we saw he's totally emotional and sentimental from within...

that's what i meant in bold

and used the term "ugly" cause it was in the topic title

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Jaggy

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

I can for ordinary guy rather than handsome if he is caring , independent understanding

Most imp trust n love me .

For me Ugly is big word which i cannt define not only look wise. For me it depend on times so i never go for such person

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-Misek-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

QUOTE=Angelskiss]

Originally posted by: Angel_Heaven
nice topic...

well my views are tht i might not go for a good looking or ugly looking guy.. i'm more in the middle like he shouldnt be to bad lookin or to good looking.. really i think it depends on our personalities how we want one to look or how we want tht person to look at us.. speaking truthfully if tht person can make me feel happy n take all my tears away i wouldnt care if he's bad lookin cause wat matters the most is the understanding u have for one another also the trust u have upon each other.. there is sooo much i could say on this for now i think this is good enough u let me know if u have other opinions i would love to hear wat everyone else has to say as well...😳

Pari 🤗

I have to agree with you... I believe everything depends on the person's personality. For me looks are not the priority, it's the person's character and his personality that attracts me... good looking guy is admirable but a good hearted, compassionate guy is the one we eventually fall in love with.

PS: I love your AsYa siggies...

OMG Pari and Sarah, u guys here 🤗🤗

Regarding the topic, i think I will go for some one who at the end of the day makes me feel worth and happy despite of all the little fights and misunderstanding. Ps no matter how much we disagree he should always hold my hands and trust me. However coming to looks it does matter to me a bit, whoever it is He should at least have great personality. On second thoughts if He has a great sense of humour and make me smile even at my worst, I would not think twice to jump for anyone 😉😳😛

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Jyoti

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: _Simmy_

OMG Pari and Sarah, u guys here 🤗🤗
Regarding the topic, i think I will go for some one who at the end of the day makes me feel worth and happy despite of all the little fights and misunderstanding. Ps no matter how much we disagree he should always hold my hands and trust me. However coming to looks it does matter to me a bit, whoever it is He should at least have great personality. On second thoughts if He has a great sense of humour and make me smile even at my worst, I would not think twice to jump for anyone 😉😳😛

hey simmy u here too lol...🤗 sachii yaar its been too long n look how us three meet again lol..

anyway regarding the topic, i agree with wat u have said sweetzz i think wat matters is do we feel happy being with this particular guy whether he is good lookin or not.. as long as we feel happy n comfortable around tht person looks dont matter after tht seriously it depends on the maturity one has toward the life n only then we can see the inner self of tht person n his personality lookin beyond his outer appearance n all.. basically we need to see his heart through our heart..😳

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Angel

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: _Simmy_
OMG Pari and Sarah, u guys here 🤗🤗
Regarding the topic, i think I will go for some one who at the end of the day makes me feel worth and happy despite of all the little fights and misunderstanding. Ps no matter how much we disagree he should always hold my hands and trust me. However coming to looks it does matter to me a bit, whoever it is He should at least have great personality. On second thoughts if He has a great sense of humour and make me smile even at my worst, I would not think twice to jump for anyone 😉😳😛

Sammy 🤗

tu bhi yahan... wah! seems like all we DEKians are here... lolz...

@RED: awww...😳 that was so sweet... you are such a romantic... but yah, you summed it up... as long as that person makes us feel happy and respects us then the looks really don't matter... and coming to sense of humor; it is a must for me... Its always good to have someone who can make you laugh!

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Angel

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Angel_Heaven

hey simmy u here too lol...🤗 sachii yaar its been too long n look how us three meet again lol..
anyway regarding the topic, i agree with wat u have said sweetzz i think wat matters is do we feel happy being with this particular guy whether he is good lookin or not.. as long as we feel happy n comfortable around tht person looks dont matter after tht seriously it depends on the maturity one has toward the life n only then we can see the inner self of tht person n his personality lookin beyond his outer appearance n all.. basically we need to see his heart through our heart..😳

@BOLD: Pari... kya chakkar hai, you seem to be talking too much about heart to heart... whose heart did your heart see? 😉😆 you shouldn't hide such things from your besharam friends... 😆

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charu

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder... a guy whom one thinks ugly may not be thought so by another,
again beauty is only skin deep...

having said that, wud definitely add, looks do make a first impression and can put one off... but just for a time being... as one gets to know the person, his/her basic traits, kind loving personality and caring nature definitely can attract a person... thats when his 'not so good' looks take a back seat and his wonderful, beautiful personality draws you ...

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-Misek-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Angelskiss

@BOLD: Pari... kya chakkar hai, you seem to be talking too much about heart to heart... whose heart did your heart see? 😉😆 you shouldn't hide such things from your besharam friends... 😆

Exactly Sarah, whats with heart to heart connection :p, do share with us. And Yes regarding Sense of Humor its a must for me, Sarah :)