In my case,its the reverse 😆 ....People hurt me,and dont even apologize,but I totally forget that I was hurt after a few days...Blame it on my poor memory,I would have fought with so many people at IF,and so many would have cursed me(not that I care two hoots 😆 ),but I dont remember any name specifically....WHen I fight with my sister,at times when she gets really angry,she does say something which does hurt...But I forget about it,unknowingly...Whereas my sister remembers every single thing I would have said when I was angry 😆 ,and the next time when we fight,she would make it a poitn to say"last time you accused me for this",and I'd be "HUH,When❓ 😕 ".... 😆 😆
Sometimes I feel its a blessing,as I dont harbour any animosity against anyone....and that makes me keep the very few friendships I form intact,ecause even if people hurt me,I forget about it.....Thus harbour no rancor or acrimony.....
I've been blessed with the ability to forget,and thus I forgive easily and even the scar doesnt remain,and that's what people who know me and have seen me from close quarters like about me 😳 ....I believe every human needs to be forgiven for mistakes,we all are imperfect,and we all say something nasty when the maelstrom of emotions get the better of our sanity and maturity 😆 ....Forgiving doesnt make sense when we arent prepared to forget...yes,to forget might be close to impossible,but we can try....
Anupamaa
