i am so scared... - Page 2

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

aap mujh pe gussa kyun nahi karte?

Phir se mithi mithi batein. Yeh naekami kabh tak chalega? But today she gave a hint of some problem, that family will be shocked if they find out the truth. May be she has had a surgery that she cannot conceive any more? Possible?

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

@yash.pal could not laugh🤣 at your statement that anandi had a surgery and cannot conceive.

You guys r thinking too much about anandi dialogues. BV team r simply creating suspense with these dialogues. She just feels the family will be shocked that their married life is a fake and they did not do it yet.

Originally posted by: chumki...

exactly...it's very simple... but the way she was saying.it show's as if shiv is doing something wrong not she...😊

Originally posted by: nolla

Exactly, in a way, it looks like the fact that they havent moved forward in their relationship, is all Shiv's fault!!! But i dont even understand y Shiv slept on the sofa? Maybe anandi wanted to sleep near him like last time, & thats y she slept in the middle of the bed so that he sleeps near her!!!

@ TM... JaAn union will never happen

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal

Okay, I hear all your views, but there was something strange in what Anandi said "family will be shocked" and there was that quizzical look on Shiv's face. May be nothing, but I don't think so, next few days will reveal.

Thought I will jot down my PoV on this idiotic matter of the newly married couple:

Members here have made themselves believe that Anandi loves Shiv deeply and yet does not know it (almost a la Balika Badhu the movie), I haven't see any evidence of it; Shiv obviously has a strong personality and is powerful, she appreciates his honesty and straight forwardness, she is able to tell him her fears/problems, but except for that one scene where she put her head on his chest and the one where she stitches a button, I have seen no evidence of "love" as is traditionally known Agree... whenever required she loves to take a step forward and when shiv tries to just hold her hand she gives an expression like as if a worm is moving on her hand... and it always leaves shiv feeling guilty... She has some problem about intimacy and that is overriding all matters; she knows she has responsibilities as a wife and it is now coming down to teenage style lying about which cream they used for an imaginary injury and then conveniently passing the buck on to Shiv when she proposed shiv for marriage, may be she thought she can just feed him halwa and keep him happy... I hear and respect all comments about 'when a woman is comfortable etc' but in 90% marriages in India we do not have situations like this where we say Ma'am are you comfortable now? Or when will you be Ma'am, I will wait Ma'am? While I could not give a damn about SR, I just don't want this stupidity to keep on as a every day issue on the show Agree... The person like Anandi, who values arrange marriage so much (convo with ashi) that too from rural village is doing this, is not acceptable..
1. The Anandi Shiv fell in love with was strong, strident and confident, remember the scene where A comes to S's office and shouts at him for the school sponsorship; now she is crying all the time, every day have u noticed? Even when she does not need to cry she is crying. Some members think that is okay, it is her emotion, I will tell you a male perspective, a woman who is always speaking in a croaked voice, crying, always dukhi, is VERY VERY unattractive and a turn off. Agree... when she was single... her sober voice was ok, it was to protray her dukh... even after marriage she speaking slow and her sober voice is very irritating now a days... what the cv's want to say, that even after marriage she is still dukhi 😡

The way I see it.