Originally posted by: parobal12
Hello friends.. I havenot introduced me properly.. the name is Parobal khanna.. i just wanted to share my experience with you guys.. been married 8 years now..My husband works in a Export oriented firm and used to be away during the first couple of years of our marriage. This one time he was away for close to 14 months. i was getting paranoid missing him and later had an accident because of which i was limping for along time. when he returned i was absolutely insecure if he will be the same. but he was an angel, he took me out to shimla where he made enormous plans.. his support and love got me welll within a year and i am really blessed to have him.
Coming to the topic, i can absolutely relate to Siddhi's insecurity and will tell from my experience that she needs Kunal's support and love.. Both emotionally and physically. To have your husband remove your doubts is the most important part of the recovery. try picture not seeing/ hearing from your loved one for more than a month and then reuniting with him in a state of complete insecurity and lack of confidence.. now picture this to be 10 years for siddhi in jail.
The wedding vows will reinstate her belief in their marriage and "the honeymoon" can come slowly but IS A DEFIINITE MUST for Kunal to show siddhi he will accept her no matter what..
You have wonderful husband Parobal. He has lots of love for you.
Its important that KC shows his love and support to Siddhi during this time and make her feel that she is and always be an integral significant part of his life. The first time they got married was for others. This time I would sincerely like them to do it for themselves coz they love each other after going thru so much of hell and been apart for almost a decade. The new renewal of vows written in their own words and declaring to each other makes more meaningful , personal and emotional filled with lots of mutual respect, trust and understanding and of cours unconditonal love.. Its set the phase for the next step in their life to move forward, leaving behind the past mistakes and from now onwards learning to trust and love each other during the best and worst times for better or for worse and in sickeness and in health. And seal it with an acknowledegement that no matter what , they face, be always be together, never alone, never apart anymore irregardless of good or bad.
Well as for honeymoon, it can come later but not too late...want them to go somewhere away from the bustle and hustle of their daily life and spend some quality romantice interlude moment together.
Lets hope our newly on board CV gives a dosage of this small request .
Edited by Silambu - 12 years ago
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