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Why do we find it impossible to believe the Pia can actually and genuinely be in love with Jai Walia? Why every time she confesses her love, we decide that she is just lusting after his money or the status that one enjoys, by the virtue of being a woman in Jai Walia's life. Pia has been a person who never shied away from confessing her feelings for another person; she comes out straight in the open. When she hated Jai Walia she made it clear to him and now when she is in love with him she stated it as clearly as possible.
She cringed every time Jai touched her before their marriage; she hated the fact that he was too old for her, why would she desire a physical relationship with him now, since it is the same Jai Walia who she left at her wedding altar to face humiliation of people: why would she desire him physically now, as it was one of the reasons she left Jai Walia for.She cannot desire Jai just because of his display of concern and care for Bani.
Is it really the case that she is jealous of Bani because of her position as the Lady of the house or because of Bani's position in Jai's life and his family? Why are we questioning her love because she refuses to give up on a man she loves? Just because it is not moralistic, she will be blamed for loving her Sister's husband?
One question always bugged me- Why Pia eloped with Pushkar on her wedding day-because she genuinely loved Pushkar or because she was scared of her life with Jai Walia,a rich man but too old for her? JW promised her all the happiness money could buy, but it did not guaranteed the satisfaction (emotional and physical) that a wife should get from her man. Was she somewhere deep within, scared of her future with Jai Walia?
Why do we think Pia is incapable of truly loving someone? Is it just because she is materialistic, values money and the things it can buy?But it is not the basic human nature to crave forthings you do not have or something you can't have? And wasn't Jai Walia the same kind, before Bani made him realize that he is capable of falling in love? Why we refuse to believe that Jai made Pia realize true love just like Bani made him realize the value of true love. Can it not be, that Pia felt for Pushkar what Jai felt for Roshini and her at one point of time and now, just like Jai loves Bani (still in doubt about it but…), Pia can actually be in love with Jai
Jai's concern for Pia is not love (Quote: Cordelia).Agreed…. Jai has made it clear to Pia that he wants Bani in his life but never stated the reasons to Pia, clearly as to why he wants that- because of his social and moral obligations and duty as a husband or because he truly deeply loves Bani. I will not blame Pia for being under impression that Jai still harbors feelings for her. The way Jai made his stand clear to her every time was very vague and it can easy be misconstructed for something else than the true intentions behind the statement. He needs to come out clean with Pia regarding his feelings for Bani, if he really wants her to move on.
This is not a Pia bashing topic but just think and answer to the post.Are we ignoring Pia stand on the entire thing beccause our culture, our morals, does not allow these practises or we hate Pia because as a human being,what she is doing is wrong?
She cringed every time Jai touched her before their marriage; she hated the fact that he was too old for her, why would she desire a physical relationship with him now, since it is the same Jai Walia who she left at her wedding altar to face humiliation of people: why would she desire him physically now, as it was one of the reasons she left Jai Walia for.She cannot desire Jai just because of his display of concern and care for Bani.
Is it really the case that she is jealous of Bani because of her position as the Lady of the house or because of Bani's position in Jai's life and his family? Why are we questioning her love because she refuses to give up on a man she loves? Just because it is not moralistic, she will be blamed for loving her Sister's husband?
One question always bugged me- Why Pia eloped with Pushkar on her wedding day-because she genuinely loved Pushkar or because she was scared of her life with Jai Walia,a rich man but too old for her? JW promised her all the happiness money could buy, but it did not guaranteed the satisfaction (emotional and physical) that a wife should get from her man. Was she somewhere deep within, scared of her future with Jai Walia?
Why do we think Pia is incapable of truly loving someone? Is it just because she is materialistic, values money and the things it can buy?But it is not the basic human nature to crave forthings you do not have or something you can't have? And wasn't Jai Walia the same kind, before Bani made him realize that he is capable of falling in love? Why we refuse to believe that Jai made Pia realize true love just like Bani made him realize the value of true love. Can it not be, that Pia felt for Pushkar what Jai felt for Roshini and her at one point of time and now, just like Jai loves Bani (still in doubt about it but…), Pia can actually be in love with Jai
Jai's concern for Pia is not love (Quote: Cordelia).Agreed…. Jai has made it clear to Pia that he wants Bani in his life but never stated the reasons to Pia, clearly as to why he wants that- because of his social and moral obligations and duty as a husband or because he truly deeply loves Bani. I will not blame Pia for being under impression that Jai still harbors feelings for her. The way Jai made his stand clear to her every time was very vague and it can easy be misconstructed for something else than the true intentions behind the statement. He needs to come out clean with Pia regarding his feelings for Bani, if he really wants her to move on.
This is not a Pia bashing topic but just think and answer to the post.Are we ignoring Pia stand on the entire thing beccause our culture, our morals, does not allow these practises or we hate Pia because as a human being,what she is doing is wrong?
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