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Posted: 12 years ago
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After seeing todays sbs and sbb segment am seeing people being appeased... the bench and a coffee with a fresh scope of fumbling sorry from asad is enough for zoya to forgive him? i have heard and i know zoya doesnt believe in holding grudges but is she going to just let asad walk off scot free of slapping her just because mr akdu thought of saying sorry and brought her coffee...whats the world coming to if we are covering up outrageous behavior by a bit of meaningless soft moments ...this never ending cycle of abuse...misunderstanding and violence keeps alternating with mitwa moments...let me tell u it just kills the mitwa moment for me...

i am kind of disappointed...i wanted zoya to make him grovel...may be some harsher set down from dilshaad...i wanted her to give him cold shoulder and if possible threaten to leave the house and move out..if not to really do so.

i remember our school councelor gave us an lec on domestic abuse and its tendency to repeat...he said that boyfriends who hit their girlfriends and abuse them on daily bases give excuses like i was stressed or ...you made me angry and then they appease their girlfriend by buying them some gifts or planning a romantic moment ...then the girl begins to feel secure and she justifies his behaviour and then bam! he gets pissed about something else and he hits her again...the cycle begins...

Aww Asad's character was my fav and as some off u rightly said that the writers unnecessarily degraded it.
Totally uncalled for...
i was atleast hoping for a good redemption track even though that doesnt lessen the atrocity that was shown but still...and now it seems things are going to be peachy in QHLand with just one cup of coffee...i guess next we can expect the coffee brands to come up with commercials in the similar line

hit your girlfriend?

Abused her?

Insulted her?

Wanna say sorry?...say it with coffee.


I am sorry guys i apologize for being repetative. i am still fuming abt yesterday...i was among the first ones to blame zoya for not informing asad abt mariyam and kind of for his mother getting shot...i officially want to take that back...
Coz no matter how much she was to be blamed she nor anyone man or woman deserved this...

And Asad deserved way more that what is being handed to him by Zoya.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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u've written exactly d same thing which is on my mind ryt now.
What i dont want to see is:
1. Abusing/misunderstandings alternatin wid mushy mitwa moments.
2. I dnt want asad to get away with it so easily. It is a god damn big deal to slap a girl just bcz u wre in a bad mood :-@
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Well d episode is yet to come. We hav just seen a lil segment only. I hope dey dont show d apology-thing so normally. I want asad to actually feel sorry for wat he did to zoya.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sneha,

Dilshad is dying...


What do you want Zoya to do?
Play a game of 'WHO IS RIGHT' with Asad?

You do get the picture, I hope.
A sensible girl will not go for revenge when her man is at his lowest! I don't think Zoya'd do that to even a stranger.

She is disappointed that in spite of all their experiences together, he STILL THINKS THE WORST OF HER.

She is not going to mope or show anger.

This moment is not about her or Asad, it is about someon''s life.

I hope she has the sense to keep a respectable distance as of now.

She will take up the issue LATER.


Right now phoophi and Najma need her as a friend.😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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ofcourse i didnt expect her to do so right now...i am talking abt the coffee scene...am talking abt future track... when dilshaad is fine...am talking abt asads apology not revenge...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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he wasnt hitting his girlfrnd..he was hitting the person who is responsible for his mother's death/almost death
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well this is not the time to " teach him a lesson" .. Asad had almost lost his mother. Zoya understands the gravity and sensitivity of the situation so I can understand why she let it go. :) she can take it up later but knowing Zoya I think she wont coz deep down she feels that she is somewhat responsible for this situation..This incident wil have a huge impact on their equation..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: snehatalk


After seeing todays sbs and sbb segment am seeing people being appeased... the bench and a coffee with a fresh scope of fumbling sorry from asad is enough for zoya to forgive him? i have heard and i know zoya doesnt believe in holding grudges but is she going to just let asad walk off scot free of slapping her just because mr akdu thought of saying sorry and brought her coffee...whats the world coming to if we are covering up outrageous behavior by a bit of meaningless soft moments ...this never ending cycle of abuse...misunderstanding and violence keeps alternating with mitwa moments...let me tell u it just kills the mitwa moment for me...

I am totally mortified...QH FB is prompting it as a romantic argument.🤢 I just cannot fathom how they can put a mitwa moment in there.

i am kind of disappointed...i wanted zoya to make him grovel...may be some harsher set down from dilshaad...i wanted her to give him cold shoulder and if possible threaten to leave the house and move out..if not to really do so.

They showed her pushing him away but that was not enough...if he apologizes and she starts joking again, that will really kill it.

i remember our school councelor gave us an lec on domestic abuse and its tendency to repeat...he said that boyfriends who hit their girlfriends and abuse them on daily bases give excuses like i was stressed or ...you made me angry and then they appease their girlfriend by buying them some gifts or planning a romantic moment ...then the girl begins to feel secure and she justifies his behaviour and then bam! he gets pissed about something else and he hits her again...the cycle begins...

Your school counselor was 110% right. A lot of women think when the boyfriend comes back and apologizes it is so romantic but it is not - it is part of the cycle of abuse and there is nothing romantic about it...Asad giving her a cup of coffee and her taking it...seriously, what was that? That doesn't fix what he did to her.

Aww Asad's character was my fav and as some off u rightly said that the writers unnecessarily degraded it.
Totally uncalled for...
i was atleast hoping for a good redemption track even though that doesnt lessen the atrocity that was shown but still...and now it seems things are going to be peachy in QHLand with just one cup of coffee...i guess next we can expect the coffee brands to come up with commercials in the similar line

hit your girlfriend?

Abused her?

Insulted her?

Wanna say sorry?...say it with coffee.

Same here. This has totally ruined the show for me...I am cringing when she gets all mushy and blushy with him now...how can we support this romanticism of violence?

I am sorry guys i apologize for being repetative. i am still fuming abt yesterday...i was among the first ones to blame zoya for not informing asad abt mariyam and kind of for his mother getting shot...i officially want to take that back...
Coz no matter how much she was to be blamed she nor anyone man or woman deserved this...

She did not deserve the slap and she deserves more than a cup of coffee as an apology.

And Asad deserved way more that what is being handed to him by Zoya.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Kriti--

he wasnt hitting his girlfrnd..he was hitting the person who is responsible for his mother's death/almost death


And that makes it OK?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sneha,


Dilshad is dying...


What do you want Zoya to do?
Play a game of 'WHO IS RIGHT' with Asad?

You do get the picture, I hope.
A sensible girl will not go for revenge when her man is at his lowest! I don't think Zoya'd do that to even a stranger.

She is disappointed that in spite of all their experiences together, he STILL THINKS THE WORST OF HER.

She is not going to mope or show anger.

This moment is not about her or Asad, it is about someon''s life.

I hope she has the sense to keep a respectable distance as of now.

She will take up the issue LATER.


Right now phoophi and Najma need her as a friend.😊

agree with you..zoya is a bold girl and i dont think asad is her priority atm
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sneha,


Dilshad is dying...


What do you want Zoya to do?
Play a game of 'WHO IS RIGHT' with Asad?

You do get the picture, I hope.
A sensible girl will not go for revenge when her man is at his lowest! I don't think Zoya'd do that to even a stranger.

She is disappointed that in spite of all their experiences together, he STILL THINKS THE WORST OF HER.

She is not going to mope or show anger.

This moment is not about her or Asad, it is about someon''s life.

I hope she has the sense to keep a respectable distance as of now.

She will take up the issue LATER.


Right now phoophi and Najma need her as a friend.😊


Sorry, I disagree with you here. What happened was wrong and it should not be minimized. Btw, you say this with such confidence one would think you actually read the scripts😆

Let me add, this is not about revenge, this about standing your ground and letting the other person know this was wrong and just brushing this off is not going to resolve it.
Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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