AsYa: Its 'attachment' that binds them.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Is Asad in love with Zoe? NO.
Is Zoe in love with Asad? NO.

Is Asad emotionally bound to Zoe? YES.
Is Zoe emotionally affected by Asad? A BIG YES,

Like i had said the other day, as it happens in all 4 Lions shows, the lover and his lady come to the bridge of love much later - what binds them together first is an emotional attachment and a subconscious attachment. Are Asad and Zoe any different from Arnav-Khushi? In detailing - YES, in spirit -NO.

Asad is conscious of his developed attachment to Zoe and that is why this sudden restrain and extra-cold edge has taken over him, where he keeps himself in 'restraint' around Zoe. He doesn't need to be told that he has feelings for Zoe. He knows it and he has complete conscious awareness of it. He is on the VERGE of falling in love with Zoe - just like a diver stands at the edge of a diving board, waiting to take that winning plunge. Asad is holding his heart back , which, he will have to let go sooner or later. But you don't get to question Asad's intensity about Zoe - like today, the way he roared at Dilaawar with a "Aapne jo Zoya ke saath kiya..." , it was enough to give you a sneak peek into how much Asad can feel for Zoe.

Zoe, meanwhile, has a subconscious attachment to Asad. Asad's ability to hurt her with a click of his finger bringing tears into her eyes, his ability to make her center her existence around him where she seeks his approval, his attention , craves for a 'Princess' treatment from him shows you that she looks beyond his six-packs and day dreaming about him. Its very very easy for Asad to hurt Zoe and that is how the emotional stimulus and response come in. Like today, Zoe's conscious mind believes that Asad doesn't care about her , but when Mariyam says that she has seen in Asad's eyes how worried he is for her, Zoe goes away on a plane of thought. Is it true? The issue is that Asad has so thoroughly convinced Zoe that he cares a fig about her that she too thinks on the same lines. Its only when Najma teases her about the turmeric paste, or she innocently questions Asad if he will also not save her , or Mariyam gives her hope that Asad cares a lot about her that Zoe's Asad alarm rings.

Sometimes, two people get into a relationship of attachment where acknowledgment and admission are pointless- you just know it that they will always be connected. Asad-Zoe are that kind of a pairing , where no matter when love happens, they are two opposite sides of a see-saw.

If a woman has the power over a man to make him lose his sleep, if a man has a power over a woman to make her cry even without trying - understand that they have an attachment which is beyond their control.

Its immaterial whether Asad never admits his love for Zoe or if Zoe fails to see beyond his facade and invests , sorry, tries to invest her heart elsewhere. They will always be bound to each-other and anyone who comes between them , will be unhappier than these two.

Asad and Zoe are not a love story. They are ATTACHMENT.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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beautiful post
Yup attachment is the word .
I loved the way asad sunaoed dilawar this shows how much concerned he is abt her
Zoya is very much attached to asad n yes emotionally .
Precap was hell shocking
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Posted: 12 years ago
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good post...lovely analysis
today's episode was awesome...precap was way shocking...just hope there is no MU between asya...i hope mariam tells asad that dilshaad brought her back...
asad...dialouge to mamu was awesome...just love the way he cares for zoya...
ksg...ur angry expressions are just sooo ufff😳
Edited by EternalFrission - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hifzaa

beautiful post
Yup attachment is the word .
I loved the way asad sunaoed dilawar this shows how much concerned he is abt her
Zoya is very much attached to asad n yes emotionally .
Precap was hell shocking


Thanks Hifzaa. Yes, Asad is very intense about Zoe and it showed in his anger at Dilaawar and how Mariyam told Zoe about Asad's concern for her. I think this is the point when Asad will com to know post-Dilshie's bullet collapse that Zoe is an orphan.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I wish there was a way to give your post a standing ovation. 👏 Brilliant analysis of their relationship. Personally, I feel "love" over-rated. Let me clarify that...the love that sometimes is portrayed on tv seems more like insta-connection with no basis rather than a well-developed meaningful relationship...and Asad and Zoya are definitely not that. To me true love is understanding a person, not always agreeing with said person, being the person's best friend and confidant when needed and a person who fights with them...yes I said fight. I don't mean big blow outs or dramatic nonsense I mean the kinds adults sometimes get into when they are frustrated and the only person they can take it out on is their true partner. And in a weird way despite AsYa not being in "love" have begun counting on each other when it truly matters. Zoya who constantly made fun of Asad's OCD takes special care to see he isn't affected by it and Asad, no matter how wrong he thinks Zoya is, is always by her side saving her from tricky situations. To me THIS is a true partnership...a friendship...something that is a whole lot more long-lasting than a fleeting emotion like love.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I guess, the attachment is one of 'soulmates' kind...
EDITED:
Very nice ASYA emotions analysis post... Thank you, I wait for your post everyday after watching the episode.
Today, onething I liked in Asad is - soon after he came to know about Mariyam, he didn't yell at Zoya or blamed her that she foolishly put his family in risk. Instead, he very politely and subtly brought to her senses that hiding Mariyam here is very dangerous. I guess, he will no longer yell at her or get frustrated with her impulsive decisions.
This shows the growth in the character ASAD...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: EternalFrission

good post...lovely analysis

today's episode was awesome...precap was way shocking...just hope there is no MU between asya...i hope mariam tells asad that dilshaad brought her back...
asad...dialouge to mamu was awesome...just love the way he cares for zoya...
ksg...ur angry expressions are just sooo ufff😳


Thanks. :-). I am not sure about the MU, but seeing how much Asad loves his mother, trauma can make him blame Zoe for bringing Mariyam back into their lives. Its not that Asad will be too happy about hurting Zoe but this time, its about his mother and she is everything to him.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well written and expressed Victoria.

This attachment is like the handcuff on the montage...it says it all :)


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: delena90

I wish there was a way to give your post a standing ovation. 👏 Brilliant analysis of their relationship. Personally, I feel "love" over-rated. Let me clarify that...the love that sometimes is portrayed on tv seems more like insta-connection with no basis rather than a well-developed meaningful relationship...and Asad and Zoya are definitely not that. To me true love is understanding a person, not always agreeing with said person, being the person's best friend and confidant when needed and a person who fights with them...yes I said fight. I don't mean big blow outs or dramatic nonsense I mean the kinds adults sometimes get into when they are frustrated and the only person they can take it out on is their true partner. And in a weird way despite AsYa not being in "love" have begun counting on each other when it truly matters. Zoya who constantly made fun of Asad's OCD takes special care to see he isn't affected by it and Asad, no matter how wrong he thinks Zoya is, is always by her side saving her from tricky situations. To me THIS is a true partnership...a friendship...something that is a whole lot more long-lasting than a fleeting emotion like love.


Thanks and please don't embarrass me by saying all that. I am just putting forward a view.😳... the highlighted lines say it all - a true partnership it is, indeed. Love didn't happen to AsYa instantly but they have connected at a level where imagining their lives without each-other is difficult for them and their viewers.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: razor12

I guess, the attachment is one of 'soulmates' kind...

EDITED:
Very nice ASYA emotions analysis post... Thank you, I wait for your post everyday after watching the episode.


Thanks:-). Yes, its the attachment of soulmates, whether they meet or not.😃

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