Simran more at fault than Aastha - Page 2

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Originally posted by: chikoo

Simran even being very forgiving and caring person has always been at fault. She may have said qualities but on top of it, she is not intelligent, rather a dumb person. She has made many mistakes in life right from getting married to a person, who appeared to be so impulsive, 10 years younger to herself and against the wishes of either parents just for the namesake Abhimanyu.

She never took time to explain things to Abhi but always showed as she is more mature and Abhi is immature and created distance between them. Failed to keep her marriage.

She treated and operated her own sister Kavita, which doctors do not do. Forget about the part where she convinced her husband to marry her even though he wanted to marry Simran and that also backfired her.

She spoilt Neha's life by getting her married to her first husband though she still had feelings for him and Radhaji's life by telling lies that she does not have any feelings for Abhi anymore. That's when Radhaji persuaded Neha to marry Abhi.

She poisoned Astha's life by not bringing her up well, a spoilt brat, (unlike Archana Sareen, who brought up Sia like a gem of a person) and by not telling her truth to let her find herself and lied or made some story to her to let Astha find truth herself (seeing her father in college library, whereabouts of Radhaji when she was in asylum) told her lies throughout.

She is at fault and ruining Sia's life by trying to suppress her love for Sid

Also, she was at fault and ruined Urmila's life should have suggested Manas to move on in his life being his best friend.

But still she managed to show that she is the most concerned person and thinks aboutthese people more than themselves. All I conclude is that she never took an intelligent and educated approach towards life and hence she has been a failure through out her personal life.

Well said chikoo...👏

Siman really is nosy. I was very irritated by her when she wanted Manas to go back to Urmila when he was finally moving on with Ria..I mean how can u tell someone who they should be with ! Thank god Manas was sensible enough to not listen to her. And now she has totally spoiled Astha , by always thinking that Astha is immature and is letting Astha behave however she wants!😡 Why should Astha be blamed then!

Yes, I think Simran pampered her daughter Astha a lot. She just loved so much greater than this world. And she was a daughter most respected from out of her heart which meant she was special. Even though Simran didn't even gave Astha birth, but she is more valuable than birth cuz she luvs her a lot. Simran always wanted a right time to be said about things that were some surprising or even shocking but Astha was the one took things in a clever and demanding way or just differently. I just don't understand why she doesn't accept her love then give accusations that she isn't my mother and didn't give birth or doesn't love me. But she should be thankful that her mother couldn't give her as much love like Simran did. So I think Simran is a very admiring person and Abhi is being responsible for his deeds. And taking innitativeness in helping Astha out of the problem. Saurabh was alwys right from the beginning don't spoil your daughter that she doesn't realize true love and take an advantage of it. He was right that Simran should take some responsibility and should have told her the truth cuz she wouldn't have gone through emotion crisis. Actually, Astha doesn't even have values that someone loved more than herself and just paying attention on who is my real and who is my step and treating each and invidually differently. Inspite, her behaviour she should act maturally due to she is 18 yrs and take things a bit sensibly. Well, its amazing that she doesn't even understand what true love is.

That is all I have to say.

--Sanju😊

Originally posted by: chikoo

Gosh! you are expecting too much out of an eighteen years old girl who
was kept far away from real world all thru her life. She does know no
hardships at all. She is not a well raised kid and their parents have
to pay price for their ill upbringing.

It's very easy to give everything to your kid, it asks for, of course
if there's no derth of money for parents but it is very difficult to
say no and explain it to them, scold them. As a parent you need to have
lots of patience and time which Simran never had. We have always seen
Shaguna looking after Astha more than Simran herself. Simran gave
everthing to Astha, cause it was easier. She never said no, you cannot
go there, you cannot do this etc. Astha now knows no NO.

And the most important thing: There's no time as good as NOW to say the
truth. Simran has always been going far from telling the truth even
after being caught and heard all abuses. Even then she said she does
not feel bad if Astha said it. I mean, hello!!!
Are you really human? 😡
No, I' m sure you are Super Women😒