Had enough scenes? - Page 2

Originally posted by: YashpalDhavan

Oh, pardon, thought DM was senior to Collector, like Jt Secy to Addnl Secy in the Govt etc. I found that a bit stupid, Collector saheb

Originally posted by: znursingh

NO problem Ms Dhavan! This whole thing is stupid! Thank GWAD she doesn't append a JI and call him Collector Sahibji!!

Originally posted by: YashpalDhavan

It is MR. and not Ms but not to worry. Members call me Yash

Originally posted by: jhansijhansi

Anandi is calling Shiv collector saheb because she is used to call him like that it is not because she is shy or she is brought up they don;t call their husband with name if that was then Anandi would have not called Jagiya with his name for the sake of DS at least when she returned to haveli after 5 years when she was completely matured enough to understand what is married life..

She might start calling him with name when she can trust and accept Shiv from heart as her husband...poor anandi she is married two times, but not a happy women eventhough she has everything good in-laws and loving husband who takes care of her so much because once she never know the meaning of marriage and now even though she know the meaning of marriage, but she cannot forget first husband and give shiv place in her mind...seems that she can never have good family life as she cannot forget her past and accept present.

I cannot understand one thing is anandi pretending that she cannot love shiv because many times before marriage when shiv saw her romantically she always shown positive response to him and she was happy and enjoyed every rasam of marriage and understood very well and that is what she said to shiv i am enjoying because now i know the meaning of marriage...karyesu manthri boahyeshu matham and sheyana yeshu rambha and then how can she not understand that love is also a part of married life...a bit of firmness is ok as any girl would have that nervousness, but crying horribly is too much...

Originally posted by: znursingh

@znursingh

..seems that she can never have good family life as she cannot forget her past and accept present.

Sometimes, a bitter and a sustainedly BAD marriage can make one hesitant-the old adage-doodh ka jala chhachh bhi phoonk poonkh kar pita hai...maybe THAT lies at the root of her HOPEFULLY temporary marital intransigence?
There are two things why i said that she can never have happy married life because she is the most lucky women where in sasural except DS when she was a little girl she always had some one who supported her and loved her the most not just with her first marriage even now Shakers family loves her supports her except Sachi...as a girl she wanted to make DS happy and ingnored Bhairo wish and Jagiya and everyone else wish and stopped studying, which ruined her married life, where as a little girl she understood the whole family situation DS and left her studies, but could not understand that Jagiya likes her to study and look modern even as a 15 or 16 year old boy Jagiya ask anandi to wear a skirt that is why sumitra feels that kids are grown and before DS could plan a suhagrat and ask anandi for kids they send Anandi to her parents for five years, (just to remind past if you didn't remember) and now she ignores what DS and Bhairo are saying don't think too much about Sigh's and talk about jagiya in Shekars family, but what care has she taken for it when ever she is happy she brings Jagiya and even though she got such a good chance and a man like shiv who loved her so much (which many not be possible in real world) and had so much time to come out of jagiyas life and even after engagement had enough time and many situations where she can get closer to Shiv if it is not possible to accept shiv then when do you think it is going to happen ...Love cannot happend in arranged marriages as Love at first sight that does not mean that they don't love each other...she can a bit more firmness than a normal women, but a dislike to think about Love Mere se e nahi hoga, what does she think about saying she cannot forget the past married life...She is samajdhar and good women with all good qualities i think she can be a Devi ma in the temple.

I cannot understand one thing is anandi pretending

I dont think she is actually pretending-I feel she is nervous and hesitant
Yes i do agree, i was just saying it looks like she is pretending when we relate with the previous scene of shiv romantic look and Anandi looking at him and showing positive response and look like she is showing over too much nervousness and firmness than needed. After having everything when she cannot start thinking her life from when she is engaged to shiv and move on then what is she going to teach other unlucky women, divorcee and widows.

Edited by jhansijhansi - 12 years ago