Avantu at fault, no right to be angry at Pankhu!!

There are discussions on how Avantika will react when she comes to know the truth and how this will give her a chance again to hate Pankhuri.

I agree totally! I am a married women too! I have a child as well. So I know the importance of trusting my spouse. The happiness and wellbeing of our child depends on our relationship lasting the distance!


Therefore to suspect your spouse of cheating or betrayal, is one thing, but to walk out without explaining yourself or asking for an explanation is another!


I can only assume that her trust issues were SO great, she was unable to overcome them! I also think her ego could not take staying and questioning Harish! It was like she didn't want to give him the satisfaction! So she walked out instead!

So I agree that most of the issues in their marriage sure stem from Avantika's trust issues, her ego and her insecurity in relationships! She is a successful business women, that part is true! However, it doesn't mean that the success in that part of her life, necessarily translates to her personal life! She may be shrewd in business, but when it comes to personal relationships she is anything but! When she is emotionally involved, she stops using logic! That is the problem!

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I agree totally! I am a married women too! I have a child as well. So I know the importance of trusting my spouse. The happiness and wellbeing of our child depends on our relationship lasting the distance!


Therefore to suspect your spouse of cheating or betrayal, is one thing, but to walk out without explaining yourself or asking for an explanation is another!


I can only assume that her trust issues were SO great, she was unable to overcome them! I also think her ego could not take staying and questioning Harish! It was like she didn't want to give him the satisfaction! So she walked out instead!

So I agree that most of the issues in their marriage sure stem from Avantika's trust issues, her ego and her insecurity in relationships! She is a successful business women, that part is true! However, it doesn't mean that the success in that part of her life, necessarily translates to her personal life! She may be shrewd in business, but when it comes to personal relationships she is anything but! When she is emotionally involved, she stops using logic! That is the problem!

Originally posted by: Suvj

There are discussions on how Avantika will react when she comes to know the truth and how this will give her a chance again to hate Pankhuri.

But my question here is, why is Pankhuri the target?

What happened was years ago and nothing to do with Pankhuri.

Also the issue here is of TRUST.

She does not trust her husband, or let's say that her trust in him easily broke.

She did not trust her own sister, rather she chose to believe that her sister is capable of breaking her family.

Clearly Avantika has trust issues, she believes those who lies to her and suspects those who are the most loyal to her.

During the marriage anniversary party, it clearly showed how Avantika was searching for possibilities to validate that her suspicions were correct.

And this is surprising, especially for a woman like Avantika who is a smart and shrewd businesswoman (Nanaji did say that she brought the company to greater heights under her stewardship). You can't do that if you are not smart and shrewd.

So how and why did she bungle up her personal life?

When she got hold of the abortion documents, why didn't she investigate further.

Name of father is undisclosed, yet signature shows Harish's, isnt this funny?? One hand you are trying to hide your identity and on another you put down ur own signature.

She could have confronted Harish, but she chose to be quiet.

When Avantika and Harish separated, if Harish was having an affair or loved someone else, he would have taken steps to divorce Avantika and lead his own life. Why waste his youth?

But nothing like that happened.

This should have been a realisation for Avantika, but she was lost in her own ego and world.

It's as if she wanted to be portrayed as the hurt and suffering party.

In my opinion, Avantika is 100% at fault here, had she acted wisely and chose to confront Harish, the following would not have happened:-

1) A father separated from his son and vice versa.

2) A family broken up

3) Adi is already a sweetheart, but he would have grown up trusting in relationships. At the moment, Pankhuri is helping him realise the importance of relationships.

I applaud the CVs effort, coz it makes one realise how much of importance trust is in any relationship, and especially in a spousal relationship.

I hope in the upcoming episodes Avantika will be made to realise her folly as I feel this is an important issue and she not be let of lightly with other family members sympathising with her. Coz she does not deserve it.

Even Pankhuri with her limited interactions with Harish and Preeti, could not believe that they could do such a thing.

I am a married woman, so I can relate to Avantika's situation when she found out about the abortion, hence I can visualise how I would react if it happened to me (hypothetically). But quietly just break relations without giving the other party a chance to own up or justify his act is not the way to handle the situation, especially when a child is involved.

What's your take?

Avantika has being always rigid about her likes & opinions. So no surprises if she is facing such a situation & reacts as expected of her.

Good post --- excellent analysis...