My review after 2day epi. Mohan should leave Megha

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Looks like its Megha who always considered Mohan to be 'Soutela' and not Mohan who considered her kids to be step kids! Mohan shld find Addu and then just leave. He should not pursue Megha anymore after this. Let Megha relaize what she had said was cruel and uncalled for, and let her pursue Mohan if she wants. DOn't wish to see Mohan running after Megha anymore. His self respect and dignity need not be crushed again n again!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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actually neither deserves other even mohan should not have walked off just like that
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mohan already left Megha! Didn't he just walk out on her and Nanhi? Mohan is not a person who rates his self respect and dignity more than the people he loves and that's what sets him apart from others.

If Megha is to blame for not trusting Mohan then Mohan is to be blamed for walking out on Megha. Just the way you don't stop trusting people at the drop of a hat you don't abandon people just like that! Fact is both Mohan and Megha don't deserve each other!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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felt very bad 4 mohan.how can megha tell that to mohan.😒
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Posted: 13 years ago
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megha dsnt deserve mohan that is the word mohan didn't abandon megha!! he made a promise to find addu and return with him and if he would have abandon megha where is the wrong in it megha said marrying mohan was her mistake!! she didn't even thought before satying this to mohan!! okay i understand she is hurt!! she lost her son!! bt that didn't give her the right to say this to mohan who she very well knew love her and her kids with his life!! and whn mohan was leaving did she stop her no!! are rukna choro usne to dekha bhi nahi mohan ki tarah!! aur in 12 salo mai kabhi usne mohan se contact karne ki koshis ki? she dsnt deserve mohan!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: NeelimaSJ

Mohan already left Megha! Didn't he just walk out on her and Nanhi? Mohan is not a person who rates his self respect and dignity more than the people he loves and that's what sets him apart from others.

If Megha is to blame for not trusting Mohan then Mohan is to be blamed for walking out on Megha. Just the way you don't stop trusting people at the drop of a hat you don't abandon people just like that! Fact is both Mohan and Megha don't deserve each other!




Well said Neelu! 👏 Both are right and both are wrong ! Why do we have to pick sides at all?

The loss of a child has to be the most horrific event to occur in any parents life! MM and N must have been traumatized beyond belief! In the heat of that moment, parents can say and do anything...and everything! Trust me...I know! MM reactions are both irrational but not unimaginable at all!

Life (and love!) is messy, inconvenient, unpredictable, and incomprehensible! It can't always be explained away, in the real world ,that is! NBT is clumsily trying to present that reality IMO, even though the 12 year separation that resulted stretches reality a bit too far! 😕

The thing is , some blame can be attributed to them both, but still is no fault of their own. Megha said very hurtful things but who wouldn't when presented with that situation! Mohan left to find Addu, that's not so hard to believe either in light of all that happened that night!

That they remained separated for 12 long years is the sticking point IMO. And for that we only have the CVs to blame! 😉
So..we need to move on from the MMN blame game at this juncture and accept the situation for what it really is! An incredulous and ridiculous attempt to explain away a decision to take the show forward to create a new equation between MM, MN and M ...love interest! No more,no less!


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Mohan had tried his best to love Megha and her kids.. he was a true lover, a true husband and a loving father.. Addu didnt like him from the very beginning coz Mohan didnt support him for his tantrums.. Megha and Nanhi was aware of it.. even then they both accused him for being harsh on Addu and his missing..

Megha doesnt deserve Mohan at all..

i totally agree with you..

Mohan should handover Addu to Megha and leave from their life forever.. he is now happy with RimJhim and should continue his rest of the life with her without returning back..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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leesan it is baseless to blame mohan with megha here and to cv's also what they have shown is a reality! step parents has to suffer the brunt more than real parents!! megha said he was not qualified to become a father and she has done a mistake by marrying her!! ok she had lost her son bt before saying didn't she thought even for a second that hw much this words will hurt mohan!! bt she told it neverthless!! this is too much for a person to bear yar even when he was leaving he looked back in a faint glimmer of hope that megha will stop him bt she didn't even bothered to look at him!! mohan as per his promise didn't return to megha as he is unsuccesful in finding him and he didn't even contacted them for whom did he contact them he very well knew if he contact with them megha will frst ask abt addu and after knwng he didn't find him she will blame him!! to mohan bohut insult seh chuka hai yar aur insult kawata kya? aur kya 12 sal main kabhi megha ya nanhi usse contact karne ki koshis ki? so mohan ki galti kaha se hui!! before commenting think frst from those perspectives yar!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: meghan432

leesan it is baseless to blame mohan with megha here and to cv's also what they have shown is a reality! step parents has to suffer the brunt more than real parents!! megha said he was not qualified to become a father and she has done a mistake by marrying her!! ok she had lost her son bt before saying didn't she thought even for a second that hw much this words will hurt mohan!! bt she told it neverthless!! this is too much for a person to bear yar even when he was leaving he looked back in a faint glimmer of hope that megha will stop him bt she didn't even bothered to look at him!! mohan as per his promise didn't return to megha as he is unsuccesful in finding him and he didn't even contacted them for whom did he contact them he very well knew if he contact with them megha will frst ask abt addu and after knwng he didn't find him she will blame him!! to mohan bohut insult seh chuka hai yar aur insult kawata kya? aur kya 12 sal main kabhi megha ya nanhi usse contact karne ki koshis ki? so mohan ki galti kaha se hui!! before commenting think frst from those perspectives yar!!




So sorry but I have to disagree with almost everything you are saying here! So bear with me as I explain my pov here! 😉


1. It is not baseless for Megha to hold Mohan partly responsible for Addu's disappearance! He was the parent entrusted with Addu's care at the train station and Addu was lost under his watch. Was it intentional, no way but it happened anyway. And it actually happens a lot of the times with the actual biological parent, usually the mother!


2. Step parents do not suffer more than real parents! Most kids are raised by actual parents and they are the ones mostly to suffer when ther kids are sick, or die or disappear! There are many step parents that do a good job, but there are many more that don't! Same for parents too! The step parent / child relationship is a very tenuous one, and takes years to resolve ,if ever! There is usually a lot of resentment...on both sides! That's the reality unfortunately.

3. Megha's response to Mohan at the heat of the moment may be harsh but a natural reaction. I don't know if you're a parent, but a member just wrote that she blames her husband first when things happen to her kids! Even if it were Amar, Megha would have certainly blamed him as well! I'm sure of it!

4. Look, they were both traumatized that night as expected, Megha said some hurtful things as did Nanhi and Mohan made a hasty decision in reaction to this! They're all at fault but I refuse to blame them. It is what it is ...life! And life is messy and unpredictable and painful!

5. There is no excuse for the 12 year separation on the pretext of not returning until Addu is found! Stupid and unrealistic really! But again I don't blame Mohan or Megha...I Blane the CVs wholly and solely! Peace! 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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1. why megha left addu with mohan when she very well knew with addu has prblm with mohan!! to galti is me megha ki zyada hai!! use addu ko mohan ke sath nahi chorna chahiye tha!!

2.manta hu bohut step parents maximum aache nahi le kin unke is behaviour ke baje se sab se zyada brunt un step parents ko sehna parta hai!! kyu ki thinking society ka aisa ho gaya hai aur rahi suffer karne ki bat to mai insob cases mai blame ki bat kar raha hu!! megha amar ko blame zarur karta le kin kya kabhi woh kehta ki tum papa banne ki layak nahi ho ya tumse shadi karna mera galti hai!!

3.in the heat of the moment she said those things to mohan knwing that saying these words hw much it will hurt mohan!! kya megha khud nahi janta tha ki mohan usse aur nanhi addu se kitna pyar karta hai!! le kin phir bhi usne yeh keh diya!! mana uska baacha kho gaya!! par usne jo kaha mohan ko usse mohan ka confidence puro tabah ho gaya!! jite ji usne mohan ko mar dala!!

4.mohan never made a hasty decision there is a limit a person can tolerate megha jst crossed that limit remember mohan one day said that he was not leaving bcoz all others call him lier bt bcoz h can't see the nafrat in the eyes of the person he loved!! hw can mohan remained with megha and nanhi when he knew very much that hw much they hate him!! uske liye is nafrat ke sath jina roj 100 maut ke barabar hoga!!

5. aise cases mai 12 saal kya saree zindagi bhi lag jate hai!! so my two cents to the cv's!!

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