I am not blaming bole natth Shivji for dispensing great Gyan to J. From his point of view he is right. He is in a mOod to please his woman at any cost, and he is smitten with love. But J did not have to follow the advice 100%. He could have just met them half way. Like making a short visit to Haveli after talking to every one in the family and firmly telling then about what he wants to do. That would have been a strong J. He should have also mentioned about Ganga to the collector Saab and asked for help.but the Cvs want keep him weak and a pushover. Viewers like us don't have to agree with it.
Regarding A, she is more lead by emotions rather than rationale. People say that her concern for Singhs is that of a daughter. But I have never seen that kind of concern for her father Kazzan who lives alone with out his wife. Nor did she keep in touch with Bhago, otherwise she would have known she was very ill. Then people correct it by saying it is that of a daughter Inlaws since she was still a Bahu of Singhs. But where is her concern for Ira. She couldn't contain her excitement when Shiv decided to return to Jaitsar. After all Ira does not get to stay with Shiv full year. It is only for the holidays.Things like this piss off many of us. Believe me, we are not narrow minded. Just fair minded. That is all.