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musicmaniac

@musicmaniac

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Posted: 12 years ago

Anandi's parting dialog today was "Itne dino se parivaar ka dukh dard se anjaan reh kar koi apradh kar diya maine. ..nehi ..main un sabka saamna nehi kar paungi" (double quotes because they were the exact words)

ok kitne din? barely 3.5 days ...

I was wondering how she faced Khajan and Bhago in Bhago's death bed?

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why do people don't understand that anandi has silent more number of days with Singh family than her own parents. She was married at an age of 8, Singh family gave her all the support she needed to stand by herself in hard times. She is more obliged to them as they rejected their own son to support DIL. This is something anandi will always be grateful to them her whole life. What did her parents do ?

Got her married at a young age and told her now her home is her saasra not maayka. Every one who needs to bash anandi take out stupid logic to criticize her.

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nolla

@nolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: musicmaniac
Anandi's parting dialog today was "Itne dino se parivaar ka dukh dard se anjaan reh kar koi apradh kar diya maine. ..nehi ..main un sabka saamna nehi kar paungi" (double quotes because they were the exact words)

ok kitne din? barely 3.5 days ...

I was wondering how she faced Khajan and Bhago in Bhago's death bed?

Spot on my dear, and it was only 2 days since she left as she came back on the 3rd day. & that too, DS had alreadydelt with the issue of looking for the laadser.

What i cant understand, is when she says, i was happy in my new life that i didn't notice my families problems on the fone!!!!!

Where was she happy??? All i remember, she was always in sad mood, worried about being touched by her husband & was even more than happy when Shiv decided to cancel his leave to go back to jaitsar!!!!!! She didn't even notice that Ira for diplomacy, warded off her sadness just to please everybody, but she in deed was hurt. That she did not notice & didn't give a damn. In a way, the Shakers can suffer or go to hell for the time being. The singhs are more helpless & need her more.

Well i must be stupid where the word happiness lies!!!!

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nolla

@nolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
Why do people don't understand that anandi has silent more number of days with Singh family than her own parents. She was married at an age of 8, Singh family gave her all the support she needed to stand by herself in hard times. She is more obliged to them as they rejected their own son to support DIL. This is something anandi will always be grateful to them her whole life. What did her parents do ?
Got her married at a young age and told her now her home is her saasra not maayka. Every one who needs to bash anandi take out stupid logic to criticize her.

I agree with u on those points,

but is it a reason to put everyone in situations where they have to do only what pleases anandi??? And never to hurt her???? What is she doing to the singhs now by running away??? And to Shiv??? He knows all her past & wanted to lessen her burden by being together, does it mean on top of FB of ex habby, Shiv & his family ve to wait in the dr saab's waiting room untill anandi feels its ok for them to be considered????? They can only appear when it comes to solving ex hubby's problems????

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

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Posted: 12 years ago

@nolla she is worried about her family, unfortunely her ex-hubby is related to them. So she doesn't care about his problems but his parents only. If her ex hubby is not Singh family son anandi would ave cared about him. Why cannot people understand such simple logic ? This drama so cv like to aje anandi cry buckets.

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anonee

@anonee

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
@nolla she is worried about her family, unfortunely her ex-hubby is related to them. So she doesn't care about his problems but his parents only. If her ex hubby is not Singh family son anandi would ave cared about him. Why cannot people understand such simple logic ? This drama so cv like to aje anandi cry buckets.

If I understand you correctly you are saying Anandi is worried about the Singhs! What a joke 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!

If Anandi was worried about her family she would have gone ahead with the pag phera ceremony that they had organized for her at such short notice! That would indicate she respects them - they were already handling the Jagia situation and had traced his location. So if they were moving ahead in life why did Anandi want to throw a curveball?

If Anandi was worried about her family she would met them eye-to-eye and informed them she cannot go ahead with the ceremonies. Instead like a coward she made Shiv do the dirty job. So that her family come running behind her and grovel at her feet for forgiveness.

If Anandi was worried about her family she would not disrespect them in front of Choti Ma and Sacchi. Now they have to ask their forgiveness at being unable to conduct the ceremony!

I want you to note - I have not mentioned anything about how her behavior demeans Shiv and his family.

Today in my POV Anandi behaved worse than Saachi!!

Edited by anonee - 12 years ago

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nolla

@nolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Sheetsden
@nolla she is worried about her family, unfortunely her ex-hubby is related to them. So she doesn't care about his problems but his parents only. If her ex hubby is not Singh family son anandi would ave cared about him. Why cannot people understand such simple logic ? This drama so cv like to aje anandi cry buckets.

I can understand what u mean & anonee pointed out all that i wld ve.

Only on one point i ll say, yes she is worried about her familly & the ex hubby being a son. But dont u think she went a bit too far in her demonstartion of concern here???

I agree, i also want the singhs to be part of her new life, but dont u think that she is forgetting all the education she was given by them to her???? If i remember at a time some villagers came for her as a sarpanch, she said to them that b4 being a sarpanch am the DIL or daughter of this house so you ll ve to ask DS 1st!!!!!! Well if am not mistaken, doesn't she ve the same responsability where the Shakers are concerned???? For me, she disrespected not only the Shakers but also the singhs. B'coz they did here everything as they learnt that she's coming. Like :

1- with her not wanting intimacy with Shiv, she got him cancel his holliday so go back to jaitsar & most of the viewers it put on the reason of rasam!!! Now that she ran away, its b'coz she's worried for her family or what???

2- DS did wonders by looking for the ex & told her so, cant she trust her family too that they can do things to please her & not to hurt her??? Infact for anandi if i understand what u mean, worried about her family means they are hopeless or helpless & can't fend for theselves without her.

3- Am sure DS & the rest of the family were going to inform her after the rasam & when Shiv & her are settled in their home. I dont think they are that stupid to think they can hide this forever!!!!!!

4-AM sure u r going to say that they should ve told her on the fone!!! You mean they are so selfish that on the night of the wedding with all the rasams going on it was the right time to call her??? Or at the time of the SR which didn't even happen. Ah!! you mean the following day when she was supposed to do what rasam is that?? of cooking someting for the family then going to the temple????

With this i would say u r right & its a pity that again its Shiv who ll go looking for his rival together with her & he ll just look on while the two of them chat b4 he says anything!!!!! poor man.

There is a saying : if you pull too hard on a string it ends up by breaking hope it doesn't happen here in the name of worrying about family!!!!!

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anonee

@anonee

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Posted: 12 years ago

@ Nolla - Well said!!

RE: "There is a saying : if you pull too hard on a string it ends up by breaking hope it doesn't happen here in the name of worrying about family!!!!!"

(Warning: This is a joke) Perhaps the CVs are planning to show that Shiv rescues Ganga. And Anandi gets Jagia back to the haveli. Then Anandi can marry Jagia and Shiv can marry Ganga (after divorce of course). That way all can have a partner and be happy!!

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Sudha

@Sudharies

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Posted: 12 years ago

I think anandi is even hurting the singhs by not doing the pagphere rasam and going out in anger. She could have made them feel better by staying back and complete the rituals.

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nolla

@nolla

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: anonee
@ Nolla - Well said!!

RE: "There is a saying : if you pull too hard on a string it ends up by breaking hope it doesn't happen here in the name of worrying about family!!!!!"

(Warning: This is a joke) Perhaps the CVs are planning to show that Shiv rescues Ganga. And Anandi gets Jagia back to the haveli. Then Anandi can marry Jagia and Shiv can marry Ganga (after divorce of course). That way all can have a partner and be happy!!

I ticked like it, but had to say it too, you nailed it!!!!!!!!😆

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