RISHTA - Page 2

Originally posted by: hooked

Itna gussa !! 😲

Don't be so mad at Shiv please. Step back and see the whole thing calmly from his point of view too. We have been long accostumed to seeing things only from Anandi's POV.

I agree she asked him to marry her coz of her mother's dying wish and blah blah blah... but later on - at two other times, Shiv asked if she was sure about going ahead and sure about him and she said YES. In fact after Jagya's nautanki and deliberate mischief when Shiv broke it off, she gave a pretty long lecture to him in front of both the households about 'dosti and lagaav and shades of love. And then she proceeded to dump her past w Jagya in the pond, in full view of the others.

What is Shiv to make of this ? She has shown sufficient enthu about all preparations so far - choosing clothes, jewellery, CM coming over, media coverage, mehendi everything. She has not once shown any hesitation about any rasam. So - I assume this wud make any guy feel she is looking forward to her marriage and all it entails as much as he is. He has lifted her before, he has complimented her before, he has expressed his deep affection for her before and all of this she HAS accepted. So he is not wrong in saying he is looking Forward to IT - THE SR !!!

If Anandi is suddenly getting cold feet - she can try to talk about it (she tried to talk to Sumi - I know) to him. He won't grab her and paw her. But she has to talk. This is not 'adjusting' on her part - this is just fair behaviour. Shiv has always been upfront and clear with her - and she should find the guts to do the same. She doesn't have to DO the home run NOW, but she can talk about and explore how far she is willing to go for now.

Originally posted by: hooked

Itna gussa !! 😲

Don't be so mad at Shiv please. Step back and see the whole thing calmly from his point of view too. We have been long accostumed to seeing things only from Anandi's POV.

I agree she asked him to marry her coz of her mother's dying wish and blah blah blah... but later on - at two other times, Shiv asked if she was sure about going ahead and sure about him and she said YES. In fact after Jagya's nautanki and deliberate mischief when Shiv broke it off, she gave a pretty long lecture to him in front of both the households about 'dosti and lagaav and shades of love. And then she proceeded to dump her past w Jagya in the pond, in full view of the others.

What is Shiv to make of this ? She has shown sufficient enthu about all preparations so far - choosing clothes, jewellery, CM coming over, media coverage, mehendi everything. She has not once shown any hesitation about any rasam. So - I assume this wud make any guy feel she is looking forward to her marriage and all it entails as much as he is. He has lifted her before, he has complimented her before, he has expressed his deep affection for her before and all of this she HAS accepted. So he is not wrong in saying he is looking Forward to IT - THE SR !!!

If Anandi is suddenly getting cold feet - she can try to talk about it (she tried to talk to Sumi - I know) to him. He won't grab her and paw her. But she has to talk. This is not 'adjusting' on her part - this is just fair behaviour. Shiv has always been upfront and clear with her - and she should find the guts to do the same. She doesn't have to DO the home run NOW, but she can talk about and explore how far she is willing to go for now.