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_Manali_

@_Manali_

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

i think anandi naa husband wife ke rishte ko samazati hai...naa dosti ke rishte ko agar dosti ke rishte ko samazati to apne man ki baat shiv ko khulke bolti...shiv ko bhi uske saath baat karni chahiye use thoda waqt dena chahiye...
aisa lagta hai ke shaadi ki baad unki dosti kahi kho gayi hai...

Edited by mantarang - 13 years ago

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Nandita

@Nandita_Siddian

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

I am totally agreed with you...she have totally forget that she have married her best friend...once upon a time she used to share her each and every sorrow with this person...she is totally behaving like Alzheimer's patient... suffering from partial memory losss...bv writers have totally looses their way...they themselves do not know that how to handle this shiv-anandi situation...they are totally degrading the character of anandi...

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Monamie

@monamie111

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

@TM...may be shiv does not know that marriage is one kind of a friendship only! so he has forgotten what promise he has made to anandi and suddenly he has started behaving like a desperate husband & he failed to realize that it is hampering his wife's peace of mind!!

humesha anandi ko hi kyu samjhna padega sab kuch? humesha anandi ko hi kyu rista nivana padega sahi tarha se sabke sath!!! 😡 agar shiv itna bhi nehi samjh pa raha he to kis naam ka dost he wo anandi ka?..riston ki samjh to shiv ko nehi he!! 😡

Edited by monamie111 - 13 years ago

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

anandi is short term memory lost...dont worry memory will come soon...

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731627

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Posted: 13 years ago

but anandi try to make move but what fear make her steps backward it is not clear

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k.taddy1234

@k.taddy1234

Sparkler

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Posted: 13 years ago

Its a fear of rejaction and heartbroken again...

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_Manali_

@_Manali_

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: monamie111
@TM...may be shiv does not know that marriage is one kind of a friendship only! so he has forgotten what promise he has made to anandi and suddenly he has started behaving like a desperate husband & he failed to realize that it is hampering his wife's peace of mind!!

humesha anandi ko hi kyu samjhna padega sab kuch? humesha anandi ko hi kyu rista nivana padega sahi tarha se sabke sath!!! 😡 agar shiv itna bhi nehi samjh pa raha he to kis naam ka dost he wo anandi ka?..riston ki samjh to shiv ko nehi he!! 😡

shiv ne rishta nibhaya hai aur uski family ne bhi anandi ke saath rishta nibhaya hai,use samza hai..
marriage is one kind of a friendship but marriage is not friendship only...
shiv ko sirf anandi ko thodasa waqt dena chahiye...

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shalluuu

@shalluuu

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

if anadi has fear of heartbroken and rejection again than i dont think she is strong...

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hooked

@hooked

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: monamie111
@TM...may be shiv does not know that marriage is one kind of a friendship only! so he has forgotten what promise he has made to anandi and suddenly he has started behaving like a desperate husband & he failed to realize that it is hampering his wife's peace of mind!!

humesha anandi ko hi kyu samjhna padega sab kuch? humesha anandi ko hi kyu rista nivana padega sahi tarha se sabke sath!!! 😡 agar shiv itna bhi nehi samjh pa raha he to kis naam ka dost he wo anandi ka?..riston ki samjh to shiv ko nehi he!! 😡

Itna gussa !! 😲

Don't be so mad at Shiv please. Step back and see the whole thing calmly from his point of view too. We have been long accostumed to seeing things only from Anandi's POV.

I agree she asked him to marry her coz of her mother's dying wish and blah blah blah... but later on - at two other times, Shiv asked if she was sure about going ahead and sure about him and she said YES. In fact after Jagya's nautanki and deliberate mischief when Shiv broke it off, she gave a pretty long lecture to him in front of both the households about 'dosti and lagaav and shades of love. And then she proceeded to dump her past w Jagya in the pond, in full view of the others.

What is Shiv to make of this ? She has shown sufficient enthu about all preparations so far - choosing clothes, jewellery, CM coming over, media coverage, mehendi everything. She has not once shown any hesitation about any rasam. So - I assume this wud make any guy feel she is looking forward to her marriage and all it entails as much as he is. He has lifted her before, he has complimented her before, he has expressed his deep affection for her before and all of this she HAS accepted. So he is not wrong in saying he is looking Forward to IT - THE SR !!!

If Anandi is suddenly getting cold feet - she can try to talk about it (she tried to talk to Sumi - I know) to him. He won't grab her and paw her. But she has to talk. This is not 'adjusting' on her part - this is just fair behaviour. Shiv has always been upfront and clear with her - and she should find the guts to do the same. She doesn't have to DO the home run NOW, but she can talk about and explore how far she is willing to go for now.

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_Manali_

@_Manali_

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

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kisi bhi rishte ko nibhane ke liye ek dusre ko samazana jaroori hota hai & uske liye communication hona bahot jaroori hota hai..warna misunderstanding badh jaati hai...
actually galti shiv aur anandi dono ki hai kyunki anandi ko shiv ko ye batana chahiye ki vo is rishte ko aage badhane ke liye mentally prepare nahi hai...& shiv ye janta hai ke anandi use abhi tak pyar nahi karti hai to use aage badhane pehle ek baar anandi se baat karni chahiye ki kya vo aage badhane ke liye tayyar hai ?
i don't want any problem between ANSH...
fear of rejection why ? anandi jaanti hai shiv usse pyar karta hai..

Edited by mantarang - 13 years ago

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