Friend-Love & Loyalty-Help - My POV

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I've been waiting for the Aithihaasik Budhwar episode with a slight ray of hope that there would be a twist to the storyline and was anticipating a rollercoater ride..But Alas..How did I even forget that we are at the mercy of the CVs? 😭

After all the shoot-out drama and realization bhaashan of "Life is short,Don't waste it"...what a amazing twist(or should I say Reverse Gear) it was to the storyline. 👏👏 Please allow me to explain my POV here.

After what all has been said abt Rajat's character, I still don't understand how can anybody have feelings for a married woman and be in friendship with her at the same time. I understand when Rajat fell in Love he was unaware who she is..but after he came to know abt her identity, why still wander around her and feel hurt. In real life too, We do see people fall in Love with a wrong person and when it doesn't seem to work out, they leave those memories behind and move on. You don't brood over it and try to be in touch with the person only to be a part of their life...that's plain stupid. 😡 In my opinion it's an insult to Love itself. For Rajat to get over this hurt and pain, the only choice would be to move back to Dubai and start life afresh withot any resentments and take Life positively. But he seems not to face the reality. Today's episode was a mockery of Not only Friendship but as well as Love. His Love for Priya and respect didn't happen in the last 5 years until Ram had professed abt True Love. His attitue towards his employees was often disrespectful..until Ram had made him realize that. When his best friend is battling for his life, all he comes up with is, "Agar Ram ko kuch ho jaata tho..Priya bardaash nahi karpayegi"...For god's sake...woh kabhi tumhara dost bhi hua kartha tha bhai. You could've lost your friend...but all you are worried is abt your newfound Love / Friendship...How convenient is that? One day you can call it Friendship...another moment Love...!! Never had any expectations from him...Nor do I have now. This Man is supposed to be an author of a Love-series.👏 I'm still unclear what were his expectations when he met Ram...should he have welcomed him with open arms. Doesn't Ram deserve an apology from Rajat for his indecent proposal and line-crossing? Does this Man know if Priya & Ram are legally divorced? No. Then why address Ram as ex-husband and Priya as Ms.Sharma? Don't these two intelligent people so much in Love, feel the need to correct him anytime? When is he going to stop playing God in all the single-women lives..and start taking control of his own Life first?

Priya's lines were hilarious today...esp the convo with Rajat. She thanked him for being there...I was wondering "where?". All the time she worked for him and paid rent..it was not HELP..For God's sake there is something called LOYALTY. There's no harm in being Loyal to the person who gave you a livelihood..to survive..!! But Not more than that.period. It seemed that Priya's soft spot for Rajat's help was more than Ram's mere sacrifice. After all, Ram did it for himself to save HIS LIFE...While Rajat did everything for Priya. How good the dialogues were from wise Sudhir, today? Also very glad to know that Ayesha is playing God in Ram & Priya's reunion. Had I known it before, I would've prayed to Ayesha Maata..instead of CVs. Priya has such a big heart and is so forgiving that she can forgive a mother who has been making her life a living hell...for just a small mention of chai, nimboopani. She can forgive a little sister who sent her to prison, ruining all efforts of Ram to bring her out of jail...and who is not willing to let go of her position in KM...Priya can forgive a friend cum Lover whom she trusted so blindly..and who openly declares in front of whole society that he has feelings for her...!! But Ram who Loves her madly and crazily is remembered for his aggressive, argumentative nature...That's all this Lady has got to say abt him. Wow, what an amazing short term memory loss, Priya has...!! 👏 Another convo was with Natasha...wherein she admits it's her hurt and Ram's ego that's all adding up...But doesn't she know it's the other way round here...A huge let down from Priya Sharma aka Pooja...I didn't see Priya Ram Kapoor anywhere today.

Today's episode, in my opinion was a contempt of Friendship & Love and a confusion of Loyalty vs Help. I'm sorry friends, but I can't agree more with Ram abt having to bring Peehu even more badly, after all that happened today. I'm only talking abt the characters here and pls don't mix up with the fan clubs.

If this is what the CVs can come up with, when reunion is around the corner and consummation lined up...I'm not sure if I'll be excited anymore for it. This drag is ruining all the wait and patience of us viewers.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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You are amazing, exactly my POV, agree with you 100%.. I mean seriously, I am so disappointed today.. I can not guess what CVs are trying to show.. and about the love scene, why do they even need one when both are not even showing any love towards each other, it just does not fit in the story right now, when both are still talking about the custody and not at all having any mature conversation.I am not at all excited for any track any more, don't know what to expect. this unnecessary dragging of their reunion.. I mean when he took a bullet for her, don't you think that should've been a turning point? I mean how come Priya is not in his arms, how come she is not taking care of him, any wife in real life will not behave the way she is behaving, who cares what others think this is your husband, your love damm it.. I mean all what they are showing is beyond my understanding..not at all real.. I am just watching the show for my love of Ram and Sakshi.. Seriously but loosing my patience big time now😡.. nothing more to add, you said it all..😕 Thanks for this awesome post..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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why u r over reacting????rajat is not a bad person...from the 1st dy hum usse bura bana rahe hain...par uska galti kya hain?????only love?????i know we just imagine priya with ram but think rajat is still positive...ram ka beheaviour bhi thik nehi hain rajat ke saath... he is 2222 rude...ya he is jealous but ram hi toh love guru bana...bina dekhe hi ek single mom ke piche rajat ko laga diya...use pata karna chahiye tha ki us lady ka past or something...ab jab pata chala ki wo priya thi within a minute rajat se friedship tor li...rajat kya kare????1 din mein love thori khatam ho jata hai
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank you for sharing your opinions..

Originally posted by: mitrajayeeta23

why u r over reacting????rajat is not a bad person...

I've never said he's a bad person...I said he's an interefereing person...and he doesn't know where to draw a line for friendship.
from the 1st dy hum usse bura bana rahe hain...par uska galti kya hain?????only love?????i know we just imagine priya with ram but think rajat is still positive...
Yes..he's positive but let him be either a True Lover or a Faithful Friend...but not both...it's not at all believeable. I understand he's unlucky in Love twice, but that doesn't mean he has to stop his Life there..He needs to move on and Not become one Devdas roaming on streets from dawn till dusk.
ram ka beheaviour bhi thik nehi hain rajat ke saath...
Which spouse will greet his/her spouse's secret Lover with open arms? Do you think it will happen in real life? There were many instances where Rajat openly admitted to Ram that he Loves Priya and he's been helping her only becoz of that..Now how should a husband(yes, they r still not divorced) react in this case? I also agree with you, there were few instances which showed Ram was jealous of Rajat etc. But didn't you realize in the ambulance scene, Ram did request Rajat to take care of peehu & Priya incase he won't survive. If he was really jealous of Rajat, why would he insist Rajat to promise him? Ram knows Rajat loves Priya truly and with 5 years apart he's scared of losing Priya again and that fear is bringing out all those emotions.
he is 2222 rude...ya he is jealous but ram hi toh love guru bana...
I agree with you on this. It was Ram's fault for pushing Rajat towards a single mom without knowing if she was really interested in pursuing a relation. And he's reaping them now..
bina dekhe hi ek single mom ke piche rajat ko laga diya...use pata karna chahiye tha ki us lady ka past or something...ab jab pata chala ki wo priya thi within a minute rajat se friedship tor li...
Ram didn't break Rajat's friendship immediately after knowing abt it. There were many times, he blasted Ayesha for misinterpreting Rajat-Priya's friendship..all he said was...They r good friends and nothing like that exists. It was only after Rajat intereference and too much support to priya..Book Cafe..and the drooling at the party ME...he started feeling uncomfortable.
rajat kya kare????1 din mein love thori khatam ho jata hai

I don't want Rajat to be a Devdas or obsessive for Priya...He can still be a Selfless True Lover but away from their lives and Not a Part of their Lives...!! It's easy to say but impossible to be one-part-of-their-life-Friend when you have feelings for a person.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Siri
I watched the episode just some time back to see why there was so much uproar about it. Well, understandable that mid dec when we have dhamakedaar episodes towards Reunion, we get 2 mins of Ram per day and the rest is Rajat's story.
Today was a mockery of relationships again. I really don't know what was I more mad at. Priya not even wanting to go into KM without Ayesha's permission or her overwhelming emotions of thankfulness towards Rajat and his friendship. But I know that Priya Ram Kapoor just made a U turn again after that epic hospital thoughts of life is too short to be wasted in egos. But well, she is right. She was talking aboit Ram's ego. After all she is the one who is hurt.😡
Iam done expecting remorse, guilt or anysuch thing anymore. ITs a shame that the mature story has moved onto waiting for time. I think I agree iwht Nutz that its too late and they have already seen what has happened before.
Except for the brilliant acting of Sakshi, I had nothing much to say. Oh wait. Samir wasn't bad in that conversation at all. HE has improved. But his Tanhayee waala drama got me ROFLing. Like really, he walks on the tracks !🤣 I wish humari RAilway trains kabhi toh time pe aate aur humari madat karte.. We could have had an aishthik buddwar
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Siri what shall i say???One thing for sure that aftet Ram taking bullet for "his life"' Priya did see life in a diff POV but alas never knew it would be weighed so least infront of Rajat's help for all these years.Really???just confused and not angry with a man who keeps butting himself b/n u n ur hubby and keeps declaring his love 24*7.
Does this happen in real???
Thanku for posting this.so disappointed with historic day.better i dont get to c him atleast on C nite.just a wish.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fosla

Siri

I watched the episode just some time back to see why there was so much uproar about it. Well, understandable that mid dec when we have dhamakedaar episodes towards Reunion, we get 2 mins of Ram per day and the rest is Rajat's story.
Today was a mockery of relationships again. I really don't know what was I more mad at. Priya not even wanting to go into KM without Ayesha's permission or her overwhelming emotions of thankfulness towards Rajat and his friendship. But I know that Priya Ram Kapoor just made a U turn again after that epic hospital thoughts of life is too short to be wasted in egos. But well, she is right. She was talking aboit Ram's ego. After all she is the one who is hurt.😡
Iam done expecting remorse, guilt or anysuch thing anymore. ITs a shame that the mature story has moved onto waiting for time. I think I agree iwht Nutz that its too late and they have already seen what has happened before.
Except for the brilliant acting of Sakshi, I had nothing much to say. Oh wait. Samir wasn't bad in that conversation at all. HE has improved. But his Tanhayee waala drama got me ROFLing. Like really, he walks on the tracks !🤣 I wish humari RAilway trains kabhi toh time pe aate aur humari madat karte.. We could have had an aishthik buddwar



Well Said Angie, one thing I do not understand these days it is more about Rajjo bhai than Ram what's with that? Is he becoming a side actor now? Also what happened to PRK ka mahanta ke lecture, ekad Rajjo ko bhi suna deti.. 24 hours he is talking about how much he loves her, I mean seriously? Get a life man, have some self respect,she is a married woman, how come PRK kept quite when he said I love you.. Gosh I hated that.. at least that time she could say something like I respect your feelings but you are crossing the line here.. ya phir party ka dhamakedaar ILU ke bare mai kutch to kahati.,What was he thinking? when she was getting shot he was confessing ILU , really? Yaar seriously I am loosing my patience big time, CVs 've lost it..bus kya kare Ram ka pyar Balh chodne nahi deta.. 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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12-12-12 episode:
Priya and Rajat both are hypocrite and opportunist.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: fosla

Siri

I watched the episode just some time back to see why there was so much uproar about it. Well, understandable that mid dec when we have dhamakedaar episodes towards Reunion, we get 2 mins of Ram per day and the rest is Rajat's story.
Today was a mockery of relationships again. I really don't know what was I more mad at. Priya not even wanting to go into KM without Ayesha's permission or her overwhelming emotions of thankfulness towards Rajat and his friendship. But I know that Priya Ram Kapoor just made a U turn again after that epic hospital thoughts of life is too short to be wasted in egos. But well, she is right. She was talking aboit Ram's ego. After all she is the one who is hurt.😡
Iam done expecting remorse, guilt or anysuch thing anymore. ITs a shame that the mature story has moved onto waiting for time. I think I agree iwht Nutz that its too late and they have already seen what has happened before.
Except for the brilliant acting of Sakshi, I had nothing much to say. Oh wait. Samir wasn't bad in that conversation at all. HE has improved. But his Tanhayee waala drama got me ROFLing. Like really, he walks on the tracks !🤣 I wish humari RAilway trains kabhi toh time pe aate aur humari madat karte.. We could have had an aishthik buddwar

Angie - Thanks for your comments...and I can't agree more with what you have said. Actually, I got tricked by Mitu Didi's tweet abt the 28 mins episode today and I fell in her trap. 😭 ...the lengthiest episode seemed to me as a punishment...Infact I felt Maha Epi was way better than what they had showed us today. It was very disheartening to see "Friendship" and "Love" emotions to have been used as per Rajat's convenience. I have always believed that these two relations can never be polluted and they are above all the materialistic things. Disguising "Love" with "Friendship" is something I couldn't comprehend...Tanhaiyee song has been one of my all-time favs..and I was literally 😲 shocked with the choice of this song for Rajat...!! Really??? Do the emotions match here at all? Let's all write letters to Ayesha Santa Claus Maata, so that she shows some mercy upon us and will call Priya back to KM..and then may be RaYa can talk...After all Priya is hurt...and Ram is egoistic. 😃😳 -Siri
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: armanz

Siri what shall i say???One thing for sure that aftet Ram taking bullet for "his life"' Priya did see life in a diff POV but alas never knew it would be weighed so least infront of Rajat's help for all these years.Really???just confused and not angry with a man who keeps butting himself b/n u n ur hubby and keeps declaring his love 24*7.
Does this happen in real???
Thanku for posting this.so disappointed with historic day.better i dont get to c him atleast on C nite.just a wish.

🤣 Hilarious...If I Love You and you cannot Love me back...that's okay..that's my problem.. But let me be part of your Life and be a good friend...Heard these cheesy lines in college...But Never seen this happen in real with a middle aged woman. For God's sake somebody pls remind the CVs that, Rajat and Priya are not teenagers...They are matured adults.

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