Urvashi keep saying that she is not offended of being called MOTI but because Bhakhtiar brought family in the argument. As far as I know Bakhtiar said that you are mother of two kids so you should be conscious about the bad image you are creating in the eyes of viewers. These are not the exact words but I think context was same. I feel he said nothing offensive about her kids particularly but it was for her that being a mother you should be careful about your image. It was just the same way as people used to say to Sapna many times that she is 40 so she should act her age. I don't think Bakhtiar brought family in the argument. đ
The worst statement he gave about her in my opinion was that Ekta Kapoor does very good casting when she chose Vamps. That was the most rude statement as he was calling her a real life vamp by that statement. đđź