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For quite sometime I was thinking of writing this...finally got the time to share this with you all...there is a reason why I feel so connected to Anandi all the time...I know she is nothing but a character of a daily soap...but there are so much of similarities between us.
- When Jagya was cheating on Anandi with another woman ---- that time my husband was also having fun with another lady behind my back.
- Then the marital problems started between JaAn and Jagya started avoiding Anandi and moved in with Gauri ---- my marriage was also hitting the rocks and he hardly used to spend time with me on the pretext that he has got super extra work at office, even on weekends!
- When Jagya declared he cannot stay with Anandi anymore and she found out about Gauri's existence in Jagya's life. Anadi was devastated and fell sick ---- during those days I found about my husband's affair and when confronted he confessed it and promised never to go back, which was a lie as soon after I again caught him talking to her on cell, stealthily. I was devastated but instead to falling sick physically I was disgusted and asked him to move out.
- Anandi's family (DS and others) were with her throughout and gave her the courage to file for divorce ---- few weeks before Anandi's divorce filing, my parents asked me take the strong decision and gave me the courage to ask for divorce.
- When Anandi filed divorce Jagya and Gauri took it as an opportunity to grab some money and blackmailed Anandi and her family to give him property share in return of divorce ---- my husband too had created drama not not giving me divorce and threatened to flee the country so that we'll remain married in papers and he can have claim over my money. To bring him down I had take the help of police and finally got him agree to get divorce on mutual consent. Like Anandi I too did not claim a dime from him and like Jagya he was and still is a low-earner.
- DS started her frantic search for a groom for Anandi and viola! Shiv came in Anandi's life and filled it with love respect and joy ---- my mother was searching a suitable match for me too that time and someone came in my life too. My 'Shiv'. He is as good as Anandi's Shiv, may not be as handsome š. He is matured, organised and very caring.
- Like Anandi I too was scared for a new start and had my reservations but slowly his goodness won my heart and I agreed to take the plunge, again.
- Now that Anandi is enjoying her marriage preparations and having a gala time ---- I am too getting married this week and enjoying every passing moment.
Congratulations and best wishes to Anandi and Shiv!...these 2 TV characters inspire me to have a positive outlook towards life...all the time!
Itti Si Khushi Sab TV
