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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Harini! 😲

Ilesh was such a nice guy and you want to saddle him with a fish-wife?


Dhawal is a nice guy, he got saddle with the same fish-wife😆 Jigar is a nice guy, he got saddled with Rashi😊
Such is life Shaun😉 But I would have preferred to have the bad Elesh come out after marriage,😈 Anyway my point is, would Kinjal have been this bratty if she had married Elesh?
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Dhawal is a nice guy, he got saddle with the same fish-wife😆 Jigar is a nice guy, he got saddled with Rashi😊
Such is life Shaun😉 But I would have preferred to have the bad Elesh come out after marriage,😈 Anyway my point is, would Kinjal have been this bratty if she had married Elesh?



I think she would have been a better person if that happened!!! ( Still no saint!!!) Her nature is more of circumstantial... urmi adds more spice and oil to her bad nature ... If Dhawal and Kinjal were living away from urmi, I am sure she would not be this bad!!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilike_tv



I think she would have been a better person if that happened!!! ( Still no saint!!!) Her nature is more of circumstantial... urmi adds more spice and oil to her bad nature ... If Dhawal and Kinjal were living away from urmi, I am sure she would not be this bad!!!


Ponny, I cannot agree more 🤗
Kinjal may not be an angel married to Elesh.. But she would not have Urmi to live with
Urmi knows her weak points and gets the worst out of Kinjal😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1


Ponny, I cannot agree more 🤗
Kinjal may not be an angel married to Elesh.. But she would not have Urmi to live with
Urmi knows her weak points and gets the worst out of Kinjal😊


Yes but Elesh had such a nice Mummy Daddy. And his sil also looked nice.

Kinjal would have ruined the family 🤢
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ShaunSA


Yes but Elesh had such a nice Mummy Daddy. And his sil also looked nice.

Kinjal would have ruined the family 🤢


Most probably she would have got an adoring family and would have taken advantage of that fact. But apart from rubbing her husband and wealth in her mother's face, I can see her being a little more calm and considerate about Elesh and his feelings.

Shaun, Kinjal thinks she deserves to live like a princess. That Elesh and family would have offered. No Umang certainly brings out the brat in her but substitution of Umang with Urmi becomes explosive
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think the modis should give a verrry big loan to dhawal ... Set him up in his buisiness and they move out ... Then only this marriage has a chance ...kokila is an awesome person but try putting her in a chawl with urmi, no meethi and watching hetal and gang living in a mansion while she toils ...!! No it won't be fun at all... One needs to understand life ... Giving lectures is easy ... Going thru life is difficult!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I do feel really sorry for her. Yes she is no angel, but I feel that Kokila has always cared for Ahem more than she ever did for Kinjal. Plus, even if she made a mistake when it came to falling for Umang, she didn't deserve to be married off against her wishes to Dhawal. The Modis don't treat her well as compared to the sons, it's unfair imo. Living with Umri doesn't help of course.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I don't think that it has anything to do with Ahem ditching Anita. Kokila did allow Kinjal to marry Umang but she is still blinded by him to realise how good Dhawal is. I feel that Dhawal is suffering more than Kinjal as he is being used like a puppet by Urmila and Kinjal. Both of them are using him as he gives them money. More than Kinjal Dhawal should dump her as he shouldn't put himself through this.
Dhawal has not forced Kinjal to do anything. She is getting her full freedom. Kinjal has to realise that what she is doing is not right. If she doesn't like Dhawal then fine divorce him but please don't shout at him and treat him like dirt/ bring him down. He is doing everything he can to make his wife happy. He was even ready to leave Urmila as Kinjal wanted to live elsewhere.
I agree that Kokila is strict but what she says or does is for the goodness of her kids. They way Kinjal has been behaving any mother would do what Kokila is doing. How much can someone tolerate such CRAP from their daughter?
Kinjal is selfish and a spoilt brat. She doesn't care about anyone else other than herself. Gopi and Rashi are much better as they don't treat their family members like dirt and bring them down. I agree that Rashi does kalakari but atleast she doesn't hurt them the way Kinjal is doing.
Kinjal has to learn to be happy with what she has. If she doesn't adjust then she is making life difficult for herself and others and she is not getting anything by acting like this. She is just making her and other's life hell.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with you 100%...when middle class girls rasi and gopi enjoys luxury life in KINJAL's maternal home why she should suffer with that WITCH called URMI?... I remember that my grandpa used to say that daughters should marry above their level and DILs should come from beneath our level...now i understand why...because rich girls won't respect their inlaws if they are not in same level...love marriages are different even that one can fail sometimes caz of financial difference...If kokila wants kinjel to behave and happy atleast she should give her house and some money...she can't just marry her off just like that whatever the circumstance was...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: kitty25

I agree with you 100%...when middle class girls rasi and gopi enjoys luxury life in KINJAL's maternal home why she should suffer with that WITCH called URMI?... I remember that my grandpa used to say that daughters should marry above their level and DILs should come from beneath our level...now i understand why...because rich girls won't respect their inlaws if they are not in same level...love marriages are different even that one can fail sometimes caz of financial difference...If kokila wants kinjel to behave and happy atleast she should give her house and some money...she can't just marry her off just like that whatever the circumstance was...



Totally agree with the bold!!! 👏

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