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yessehm

@yessehm

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

Totally get Kinjals attitude and thinking.

She's a spoilt rich brat who cannot come to terms with the fate metted out to her by The demon Kokila.

Right or wrong, I totally agree with her and hope she gets out of this looser marriage and becomes independent.

This will teach The demon a well deserved lesson that being subservesent and married is not the be all and end all of a girls life.

There's more to life than that. Specially if after two years Kinjal still cannot accept Dhawal however good he is and also her life in a chawl, she should be allowed to move on. Since its obvious they have not consummated their marriage, a simple annulment will fix this issue.

My POV which I'm sure will not be accepted, but I think it's better than seeing her suffer.

I like Kinjal and feel for her. Think she's a better person than Rashi and also Gopi to a certain extent. Just misunderstoood and been in the wrong place at the wrong time and if you think about it she is actually paying the price for Ahem ditching Anita.

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Madhu

@MADHU.BARUN

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Posted: 13 years ago

I would never ever agree with you that she is paying price for ahem ditching anita! Ahem's mom who is his life never accepted anita so he left her and Kinjal doesnt give a damn about her parents! If Umang took revenge by using kinjal and she blindly believing him why blame ahem! And not even in dreams can kinjal be better than gopi and also rashi as rashi is atleast good at heart and kinjal is such a heartless person! If she is suffering today its coz of her own deeds and truly she deserves it..but yes she should leave coz dhawal doesnt deserve a heartless Stone hearted wife

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ilike_tv

@ilike_tv

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Posted: 13 years ago

to a certain expend I agree with you!!! even I can relate to her feelings!!!

Whole her life she lived in the lap of lavishness... she was like a princess... there is everything she wants... no one ever taunt her... then one day her family got married to someone without her consent... ( No matter whatever was the reason behind that!!! ) One thing was very sure ki she was in love with Umang ( was that his name?!!!) Then she went to a matchbox size house( compared to her mansion!!!_) had to live with a man whom she could never accept!!! had to hear her saas's taunts on every move... Who can blame her when she failed to accept and see the worth of her loving husband ? In her eyes her life is a living hell... with no hope as her own family is not seeing it thru her eyes!!!

But it could all be good if she changes her nazariya... But I am telling you having a good husband is not good enf to live at in laws.. only in serials tahts enf!!! you need the love and support of the whole family... here she gets only taunts from urmi...

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yessehm

@yessehm

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ilike_tv
to a certain expend I agree with you!!! even I can relate to her feelings!!!

Whole her life she lived in the lap of lavishness... she was like a princess... there is everything she wants... no one ever taunt her... then one day her family got married to someone without her consent... ( No matter whatever was the reason behind that!!! ) One thing was very sure ki she was in love with Umang ( was that his name?!!!) Then she went to a matchbox size house( compared to her mansion!!!_) had to live with a man whom she could never accept!!! had to hear her saas's taunts on every move... Who can blame her when she failed to accept and see the worth of her loving husband ? In her eyes her life is a living hell... with no hope as her own family is not seeing it thru her eyes!!!

But it could all be good if she changes her nazariya... But I am telling you having a good husband is not good enf to live at in laws.. only in serials tahts enf!!! you need the love and support of the whole family... here she gets only taunts from urmi...

Well said. I like that you understood where I was coming from. That s exactly how I feel.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

I agree but have to partly disagree.

You see, I agree to the fact that Kinjal is just not accustomed to living in a chawl and with Urmi adding to that, she finds it impossible. I also agree that given that she cannot accept this, she should be given a chance to walk away from a marriage that hurts her so much. I cannot agree more on that.

Dhawal may be a nice guy but he is somebody Kinjal does not think she deserves. That is how she was brought up and I can understand her PoV. Dhawal does not take her away from that one pest Urmi which will atleast give Kinjal a chance to breathe freely., for that I can totally see from where Kinjal is coming from. Jithu Bhai is also a good man but he according to me is not someone who I will trust a child with. Anybody who lets others exploit you and those others who are solely dependent on your protection are not exactly people one can live with.

With a strong mother and a strong brother, Kinjal respects strong people. Dhawal to me is not someone she would immediately respect😊

The only part that hampers this plan is the fact that Kinjal thinks she 'deserves' to be a princess all her life. I would say yes, if she will support herself also. Like the modelling job. That was the Kinjal I liked. Strong, independent, making her way in the world and not being lazy. If only that Kinjal returns, I will support your thoughts wholeheartedly.

The girl needs a break anyway. She is a thousand times better than Rashi and as for Gopi. .Kinjal and Gopi are chalk and cheese in their thoughts and perspectives. I will not even compare them😛

BTW, Love the post.. It is a great topic⭐️

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

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Posted: 13 years ago

Great OP. And nice topic to sink one's teeth into.

I have never agreed with Koki's handling of Kinjal. Let's be honest you do not spoil and pamper your child and then throw it out to the wolves. And that is exactly what the Modi's have done.

Koki may sing her own praises about her sanskaar to the moon. But she failed to pass on some valuable lessons to Kinjal. Heck Kinjal didn't even know how to cook! Remember Gopi being tasked to teach her cooking one week before her wedding.

Nah big fail on Koki's part. And the Modi's. But Kinjal pays the price. Stuck in the chawl with a man who may have a heart of gold. But to rule a girl like Kinjal you also need an iron fist. The KinWal match is a big fail!

Yes it will be a match made in heaven by the time SNS ends. But in reality a jodi like that generally ends in unhappiness all around.

And I totally get Kinjal wishing to teach her family a lesson. They need it. But she also needs to smarten up and come up with the right plan!

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yhm_craze

@yhm_craze

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Posted: 13 years ago

i agree to a certain extent and disagree too on certain points...yes somewhere i feel sorry for Kinjal..but her attitude of blaming the world for it is not entirely right...

Ahem in his heart knows that Kinjal is unhappy in her marriage and his failed relationship with Anita was somewhere responsible for this and that is why he agreed quietly to Kinjal's ridiculous demand. However Kinjal was no child..ok she got swayed by Anita's bro..but after realizing the truth too she still believed in him instead of believing in the family who tried to make her understand that he cheated her (i remember watching the scene where Ahem and Koki went to meet Umang...or something like that). Kinjal's respect towards people depends on how much wealth he or she owns..that is why she treats Gopi, Urmi and Rashi the way she does...yes Urshi maybe deserve it most of the time but she has been nasty to them even before she knew them...i had seen bits and pieces of the earliest episodes and yes the Modis did raise a spoilt brat in Kinjal and Kinjal did tell Koki that she is behaving with Dhawal the way Koki used to behave with Parag...but Koki also changed her views once she realized her mistake but Kinjal refuses to do so! she is acting like a child who refuses to see the truth..Kinjal is an educated woman who doesnt care a whit about anybody's opinion then why is she staying married to Dhawal..why has she not divorced him..what is stopping her?

Dhawal has also been wrong to keep her in Urmi's house inspite of knowing that they dont get along..however when he tried moving out Kinjal rejected every house that he showed her 😆...she cant see beyond Modi Bhavan

the problem with Kinjal and Rashi is that they think they deserve to be pampered and in return they are not even ready to offer basic courtesy to people who are ready to bend backwards for them..such people will never be satisfied with what they have and continue blaming the world...I think Kinjal would have made the other guy's life miserable too (the rich guy Modis had originally selected for her..forgot the name) if he didnt meet up to her 24 carat standards

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

Ilesh!

I remember now, That was the fish the Modi's had hooked for Kinjal!

Thank heavens he got away! Poor man's life would have been ruined by Kinjal.

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Justlikethat1

@Justlikethat1

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ShaunSA
Ilesh!

I remember now, That was the fish the Modi's had hooked for Kinjal!

Thank heavens he got away! Poor man's life would have been ruined by Kinjal.

I actually think she would have been happy with Elesh Shaun.

She felt bad for the guy when he asked her why she did what she did. Plus that was the kind of life she expected to live. Atleast she would not have been disappointed there😕

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Ashwin Maharaj

@ShaunSA

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

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Originally posted by: Justlikethat1

I actually think she would have been happy with Elesh Shaun.
She felt bad for the guy when he asked her why she did what she did. Plus that was the kind of life she expected to live. Atleast she would not have been disappointed there😕

Harini! 😲

Ilesh was such a nice guy and you want to saddle him with a fish-wife?

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