How can Aarti look at herself in the mirror?

I dont care as I have had enough of this hide and seek game as its been going on since April and its gone outside my boundaries of patience. How can she say she cant see Shobha's pain but cant see the fact that how much pain she is going to give to Yash cuz of her blatant lying and deceiving regarding the BMT and her divorce past. I hope Yash when he finds out the truth makes Aarti realise how much she has hurt him and broken his trust. That will be a wake up call to her and realise the consequences of her actions.

First of all thanks for opening this thread.

Secondly, I remember all of us were disgusted with Yash's Arpita Jaap - when we saw that he was not yet out of the shadows of his past. As much as that hurt - There were two things about his feelings - One he was VERY CLEAR and OPEN about it (not wanting to forget Arpita or accepting Aarti) and two, once he decided to accept Aarti - HE did so WHOLEHEARTEDLY.

But Aarti's relationship with her past has been fuzzy all the way. Agreed that Yash has not asked or bothered to ask her about her past - but at the same time Aarti has not done anything to actually let Yash close to her inner self. She was too busy focussing on the external - becoming Arpita, bringing Yash back - than the essense of a relationship which is making the other person aware of your true self.

She was neither free of her past before nor is she now. Though externally she has accepted her new life, she is still struggling in the clutches of her relationship with Prashant. Till now, when he was out of her life it was fine, but now that he is fine (Magically within a matter of days with BMT! Medical Science in PV Land zindabad) and in front of her - all flesh and blood, her keeping quite about it is BETRAYAL in my opinion. I know this is a drama and I should not expect much from it - but I am sadenned by the fact that she has not wholeheartedly accepted Yash as her own. When she left SM, she left without her daughters... Now, she is taking such a major decision in Ansh's life, and Yash is not even aware of it - and three she is HIDING such a big truth about herself and despite some guilt is normally celebrating Diwali and all that - This is not acceptable atleast to me. Whether it is to ensue jealousy in him and over dramatize his confession of love, or whether it is to ignite the TRPs by bringing in the Prashant Negativity track - if she tells Yash after the BMT, in my opinion it is a complete butchering of her character and beyond a point of no return. It is too late then if she confesses anything.

Dear...

I am in all this track just waiting to know Yash reaction... any harsh reaction from him on Aarti will not be a suprise for me..

she is taking all the praises from him and his family for being so trust worthy so she shoul also be ready to hear all harsh word coz I will say she deserve it this time...

First you ask Yash to be happy, you love him and then when he accepts all and is all set to live his new life you break everything...

Gosh I am so worried for him

i strongly beleive arati should have trusted yash in telling truth and then go for BMT

Originally posted by: indiafmmm

First of all thanks for opening this thread.

Secondly, I remember all of us were disgusted with Yash's Arpita Jaap - when we saw that he was not yet out of the shadows of his past. As much as that hurt - There were two things about his feelings - One he was VERY CLEAR and OPEN about it (not wanting to forget Arpita or accepting Aarti) and two, once he decided to accept Aarti - HE did so WHOLEHEARTEDLY.

But Aarti's relationship with her past has been fuzzy all the way. Agreed that Yash has not asked or bothered to ask her about her past - but at the same time Aarti has not done anything to actually let Yash close to her inner self. She was too busy focussing on the external - becoming Arpita, bringing Yash back - than the essense of a relationship which is making the other person aware of your true self.

She was neither free of her past before nor is she now. Though externally she has accepted her new life, she is still struggling in the clutches of her relationship with Prashant. Till now, when he was out of her life it was fine, but now that he is fine (Magically within a matter of days with BMT! Medical Science in PV Land zindabad) and in front of her - all flesh and blood, her keeping quite about it is BETRAYAL in my opinion. I know this is a drama and I should not expect much from it - but I am sadenned by the fact that she has not wholeheartedly accepted Yash as her own. When she left SM, she left without her daughters... Now, she is taking such a major decision in Ansh's life, and Yash is not even aware of it - and three she is HIDING such a big truth about herself and despite some guilt is normally celebrating Diwali and all that - This is not acceptable atleast to me. Whether it is to ensue jealousy in him and over dramatize his confession of love, or whether it is to ignite the TRPs by bringing in the Prashant Negativity track - if she tells Yash after the BMT, in my opinion it is a complete butchering of her character and beyond a point of no return. It is too late then if she confesses anything.

Originally posted by: Frozen007

1)How can Aarti celebrate being happy when she knows she is lying, betraying & deceiving her husband by keeping her truth from him?

I take it as her attempt to keep things in place...she is still not ready to face the consequences that might follow the Tell All decision...she wants to see Yash and the kids and the others happy...she is still pacifying the inner turmoil in her that was caused by the Prashant track...I do empathize with her

But that doesn't mean I do not stand for Yash...he has reformed himself for her, he has promised to stand by her and he deserves to be informed about everything that is happening with her

This is just a track...what you are saying might actually happen one fine day...Yash might return to his Incredible Hulk Days on finding out the truth...the Scindias might evict her yet again (OMG...Lost the count)

I'm really looking forward to some positivity in the current track :)

2) Whats Yash's fault in all of this that he is getting such disgusting treatment from Aarti (& Dubeys)?

Again...he isn't at fault this time...nor is Aarti, she is under tremendous pressure and she might not have found the guts to face the consequences in this situation

Yash is right in his place...and I won't call Aarti's decisions disgusting and detrimental towards Yash :(

She is in a fix...

WoW..Very nice Post...I loved your Post...Ya Needs to be Answered those 2 questions...
As a Viewers we are not at all interested in enjoying the happy moments of Aarya, So how Can Aarti happily celebrating it...Its Fake Happiness..This is all that she expected...whatever she do Yash should support and surprise her..and She only be Loyal to Dubeys not to anyone Else..Even to Palak, Payal Also... Sorry...

exactly i want to say... disappointed by aarti!!!