You can't blame Radha ji today.

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Well , recently I have always heard lots of insults and criticisms towards Radhaji and her own water kya supply dabbas always in free flow , but honestly see it from her perspective today..maybe she generally does not stand up for anyone..maybe in general she is someone spineless , i get it. Maybe she did not have the sensitivity or the sensibility of marrying someone in front of her broken 12 year old son right after her husband died..maybe somewhere she thought he needed a father's shadow..though she herself is misguided among the character and nature within people..like she was about her son , but she still loved him beyond boundaries..the kind of love she doesn't have for anyone else...she never had a proper married life with Kuku so we can see how she made her self , from her perspective ,a sacrificial lamb to provide her fatherless son at least a substitute..even though it is a horrible replacement. Her marriage with Kukuji always seemed like a very clinical one where Radhaji is the katputli. always. she has been toyed around all her life..by her son through never revealing the Bhatia's..through the Bhatias for obvious reasons..and through Deepali..Madhu was a spray of relief as well as support...and today..with no fault of her own..with no substance of her own except of having a huge , big sensitive heart..she saw that one person who was a winter coat to her after so many years..to be a betrayer..and the way in which Deepali represented everything..from her shoes..it's honestly not her fault..in fact , by walking away from Madhu ..she stood up not only for her love for Rishabh but also for her son..something RK himself thought Radhaji would never do for him ever since she was remarried...but i cannot say the same for Padmini..she is brave..Radha ji is generally not..She is strong willed though equally as emotional as Radha ji..it should have been a piece of cake for Padmini to stand up for Madhu when Aayi basically labeled her daughter as a lose character and accused her of sleeping with Mallick..but did she do that? She kept on begging as if there was no other groom left in the world...When madhu's fiance left her the minute knowing that her father might die just any second..when her fiance thought of his disgusting Aayi and sister more than a girl he said he loved...but also left someone he is going to marry when her father is taking his last breath..what did Padmni as a mother do then? See her daughter break down and cry with her...did she stand up for her daughter like she stood up for Madhu when madhu was not born? No right? But Radhaji..despite being spineless and having a lack of substance in her character's nature and tone..did the opposite of her usual actions..though she was manipulated yet again..still..from her perspective..she did stop trusting Madhu at the expense of standing up for her son as well as standing up to her love for her son. think about it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree about radhaji.But i have a total repulsion for the trickball question-Ha ya naa mein jawaab do,out of which crop up the 101 misunderstandings of india tv shows.Such an important question,wrapped up in a yes or no is a big letdown for me.👎🏼
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agree but still it hurts when she doesnt give madhu chance to explaain
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nlm4

I agree about radhaji.But i have a total repulsion for the trickball question-Ha ya naa mein jawaab do,out of which crop up the 101 misunderstandings of india tv shows.Such an important question,wrapped up in a yes or no is a big letdown for me.👎🏼

yaa i know as if all of them are in court.lol. uff. 😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramasuresh78

agree but still it hurts when she doesnt give madhu chance to explaain

that minute shes a mother who was about to lose her son..the only person she loves by her support..her bahu's father..what else was she supposed to feel? but yeah..the haan ya naa thing could've been replaced.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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agreed radhaji raised valid point y madhu was quiet seeing the locket
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with your justification of radhaji being spinless and loves his son. but isnt she aware at what extended her son RK damaged Madhu and her family? She is the one who witnessed the Son's brutal bottle breaking act on madhus's head. She is the one who witnessed the public humiliation of kiss scene in party. Can she forgive her son's mistake's/acts? If yes then why cant she understand a fathers act to save a daughter from further damage? if she has no brain to think that deep then she should be quit as she does in her normal life. She herself is on helpless situation in most of her life then why cant she understand that madhu might also be in that helpless situation? I wished she should have kept quite.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I m totally agree with u dear:-):-) nice post:-)
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Koyel , I disagree with your point . But nice post .

Radha Ji i agree is RK's mother but she did not wait for her son . She herself said that she did not bring Madhu in this house . Also she should not expect anything from Madhu . Kyun Madhu ne theka leke rakha hai sabko jawab dene ka .

Mujhe Radha Ji par kabhi bhi sympathy nahi aayegi .


As far as Padmini is concerned I would not say she was wrong . As she was sure that Mukund liked Madhu . So she thought that was enough for her Daughter .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: johnnylucky

I agree with your justification of radhaji being spinless and loves his son. but isnt she aware at what extended her son RK damaged Madhu and her family? She is the one who witnessed the Son's brutal bottle breaking act on madhus's head. She is the one who witnessed the public humiliation of kiss scene in party. Can she forgive her son's mistake's/acts? If yes then why cant she understand a fathers act to save a daughter from further damage? if she has no brain to think that deep then she should be quit as she does in her normal life. She herself is on helpless situation in most of her life then why cant she understand that madhu might also be in that helpless situation? I wished she should have kept quite.

rk did force her in marriage and did treat her horribly the first few weeks..but even mahdu would agree that killing him at the expense of that is something unjustifiable. radha was the first one to insult rk for that kiss humiliation..but that doesn't mean she doesn't love her son..obviously she won't be able to take anyone try to kill her son. madhu in a helpless situaiton? When Madhu was even treatly badly , RK defended her against the world the minute someone said something about her..now its evolved into falling in love from mutual sides...so you can understand the degree of protection from rk's side for her now..since the feelings are positive instead of negative. Madhu is shocked at Shmasher's doing..but her love and fear for her son getting killed over rules her understanding and conscince now and you cannot blame her for that..she is first a mother and then a woman of understanding..many women in our society are like that.

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