Moving on doesn't mean falling madly in love - Page 5

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

VASUUU!!!!!!

where have you beeennn!!!

I guess only GAURi can bring you brats from your caves...

You ankit sa ofcourse, antara all the jetsar times gals lol

Originally posted by: woman11

<font color="#0000FF">vasuu how are you ?🤗

Hows your daughter doing? Hope you are enjoying motherhood to the full 🤗

Yes, I was a little busy with a lot of things going on in life...I was stressed and over-worked, and jaggu dada's antics were pumping my blood pressure even more. So I decided to take a break ...but yes I have been a silent reader of the forum on and off...but just didn't have the energy to post anything...suchi it's great to read your posts and see you keep going...i don't find much of our 'old gang' active in the Forum...it's full of new people whose posts are great to read, but the connection I felt with you guys was different ☺️

It's great to reconnect with you all, missed you all so much 🤗
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Originally posted by: woman11

Yes, there's a couple of things Anandi could have done differently. She could have kept Shiv out of the whole Jagya business and her pains of still struggling with his presence. She could have stopped acting wife to Jagya, at least in front of Shiv. However, I guess she was under the impression that it's best to keep things transparent with Shiv; and when she acted out for Jagya, she was under the impression that she had Shiv's consent, and that both were clear about it. Hence her outburst today---where she again honestly spoke out her position regarding him. SHE IS NOT YET MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM, but she has consciously chosen him as a life partner.

The sooner Shiv understands it, the better for him. In fact when he agreed to marry Anandi even after knowing that the marriage was for her dying mother's wish, he signed for that deal. So, he has to reconcile with the fact that Anandi will take some time to reciprocate his feelings to the extent he does, or worse never fall in love with him at all. Is it unfair to him? Maybe. But then it's his choice, and it's the choice and risk hundreds of other boys take when they go home and tell their parents that they are in love with a girl and they take an arranged marriage rishta to the girl's house. The girl may agree to marriage---but falling in love madly? That may take a while. 😛

Originally posted by: vasuja

Ha ha suchi...i miss gauri...she was the spice in the story...jagya bakwaaz was very irritating. Remarriage is tough thing. I wish anshgrowingrelationship was more focussed and depth in there bonding increased before jagya re entry...i guess anjum quitting paced up things... looks like their is going to begood episodes in future...whatdou think suchi willjagya straighten up...or will he be a pendulum.

Originally posted by: Missesha

@ Anjana, he had asked her that question sometime back to which A responded that she does not want to go back, but obviously somewhere that was not convincing enough.

Her own actions towards J later, created confusion.

Yes Shiv made a mistake and he took for granted that if sets her free She will go back to J. But the reason for this decison of his was partly A's behaviour and lack of communication.

In my opinion both A and S are wrong, and these phases during courtships only builds the relationship strong.

A should now learn to express her feelings, while Shiv should learn not to take such decisions without A's consent.

Personally I am totally loving this track and every emotion captured by Shiv and Anandi is just the best. It is indeed a new beginning with the feeling of belongingness

Originally posted by: Suchi-Virmanian

Antara!!!

where have you been..!!!

Had I known you opened a similar topic I wouldn't have written what I wrote in a new topic so here is what I wrote in the other post

This is my post to those who think Anandi still did not stand up to mark in their books.

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SOme people have issues, (roll eyes) that Anandi should not have been upset with Shiv because he was 'acting' mahan when she was mahan herself all her life!???

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This is how I see this issue as to Why Anandi was hurt today and does she have the right to do so?

Anandi has been open with Shiv, as much as she could given her background and exposure.

the moment J entered.. she has been very very open about this entire situation. She has constantly been telling him and even in front of his family that she does not have any feelings for him.

Upon asking directly by Shiv, she said that she will nto look back and has moved on. She accepted his friendship.

When she was bit down , Shiv stood by her and she shared her pressures and unhappiness.

Point being she shared that with him.

Even when Jagya was ranting about Anandi letting him meet Nandu...She said that she had sent and SMS to him about it : Showing clearly she wants to be open about Jaggus arrival and everything related to him after their engagement.

Then when shiv said that I am amazed at your thinking, she was disappointed that , he had to hear about this matter from Jagya and not her. She tried to reason that is why she had sent the SMS earlier. Clearly indicating her willingness to be open about everything.

I am not going to blame shiv for taking such an emotional decision and I won't call it mahan as well. He just thought that he is letting go of her cause she is in love with jagya according to him.

What I do not understand is why is Anandi under radar every microscopic way. She was hurt..but she didn't blame Shiv. She just thanked him in the end..what more is needed/?

I mean despite of her clearly saying in words AND ACTION (her going to his house and clearing things up with his family ) the mandir scene, the chimes scene, the appoint with CM, and her saying that she gracefully accepts Shiv's friendship AND the payal which is the symbol of love, with happiness.

Shiv, took a wrong decision and well she is upset but honestly, I do not understand why there is still HOSTILE feelings about Anandi.

The truth is , Anandi is much more than what she was telling today to Shiv.

She stood on her feet LONG before Shiv made a grand entrance. She had gotten a name and identity even before shiv came. I am sure if Anandi would not have done that, shiv would not have noticed Anandi at all...

The only truth is, Shiv helped her get over her emotional turmoil. To which she is thankful and so are we.

So please GET over yourselves and stop blaming Anandi because she sneezed the wrong way. !!!

It is amazing that the people who say Anandi did not open up her mouth and were blaming her , today blame cause she actually opened her mouth and said things she was supposed to say!???

I am surprised at this biased behavior...Kahe tho mushkil chup rahe tho mushkil