yeah buffie I was right then and I still stick to it.See I dont have any problems if u had said that mona would and can surely give bollwood a try if she oses a lottle bit of weight which is exactly the point that u have conveyed but the way u have conveyed it is surely in a negative way ,what u said was that she wont suceed and she will never enter bollwood as she is "fat" .Now both the statemenst are the same but the way its conveyed says it all.
I never wrote her off...I never said that no matter even if she becomes thin,she just CANNOT try, only because I dont like her..Let her become thin,and I'll definitely say that she must give it a chance..just like how I feel shvetha salve must give it a try😊.Perhaps I infelicitously
Even before i have said that each one has their own likes and dislikes and different perceptions and no one can judge as who is right or wrong but again if u still beleive in ur heart that a"fat "person becomes less beautiful or assume that they cant dance well then I def disagree to it and feel that its unfair .
No tina...Beauty has nothing to do with weight..and thus I said that most of the supermodels look very mediocre,whereas certain plump people look quite cute..Mona's looks has nothing to do with her weight😊...Weight is a repairable factor,and besides,one is really healthy if one is thin.....thus,being thin just helps in all aspects😊..One is healthy,one looks young,one looks attractive etc
the prblem that happened in ksbkbt was that they said that "we were jealous of shilpa " and that was ridiculous .Now u may argue that I said that some of u wre "imature " or "childish" but beleive me its not bcoz of ur disliking/lining Mona,its bcoz of making it an issue bcoz of her weight and writing her off bcoz of her physical aspect .
again,I only said that with her current weight,she cant join bollywood...i did say that just dreaming wouldnt helpl..she needs to make efforts(like losing weight,meeting producers etc)
I agree to ur point that whether fair or unfair ,bollywood does look at figue and one does need a godfather to succeeed and looking at that ,u can assume that Mona may never enter bollywood but one can surely hope positively that she gets a role and can enter bollwood based on her acting skills and her talent which is my viewpoint on this .
no,I never said that MONA IN THIS LIFETIME CAN NEVER ENTER BOLLYWOOD,NO MATTER WHAT....If she's thin,and if she looks a bit younger,she can definitely give it a try...but currently,Nope
why should we write anyone off.How do u feel if someone writes you off bcoz they didnt like what they saw in you. wont ur dreams and ambitions be crushed or wont u feel hurt or unjustified when u feel that u can succeed in that field with ur talent and hardwork . see it all comes across the way u put it .
No,I would be more inspired,to work hard and prove my detractor wrong...😛..I wouldnt mope about it,I would work harder,and would prove my competence....Like,looks is something that's basically unchangable,but one can always look one's best,if one works towards it...Now,If someone loses oodles of weight,and becomes thin,she would definitely look younger😃..and feel better....
Thanks for bringing back that thread buffie,I appreciate it. see I could have disliked you for wrting negative stuff but No
what did I write negative now..dont tell me I bashed you😕..just jolted your memory a bit😳
,I still aprreciate you for ur words and vocabulary and ur high debating skill.What i think is that some statements are just too neagtive and comes across as "immature" bcoz its something which all of us in ur age have done and assumed .Not that i am an "aunty"😆 ,I am 20 something but still with more time and once u grow older u get exposed to a lot of things and experiences that changes ur viewpoint and I say it again ,at that time ,starting a post esp abt a person physical trait in a neagtive way will not even come across ur mind
chalo,lets see.....but reiterating,I'm not against all fat people per se😭😭,just that I think bollywood wannabies must be thin😳