Originally posted by: Buffie
Neelam Di,and tina to be precise...these two,fought with the global moderator,and the SS fans....🤢
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=333529&K W=Minnie
BTW,One thing has to be accepted..Tree huggies are quite nice,and debate sensibly😊..Unlike the SS fans,who start attacking everyone who say anything against SS😕..but this time,both Th's and the SS fans are on the same platform...Both cant stand anything against their favourites😕
To quote tina from that thread
Tina ,you were absolutely right then,and the same thing applies to mee too here😃
I guess the same thing applies to me now😛
yeah buffie I was right then and I still stick to it.See I dont have any problems if u had said that mona would and can surely give bollwood a try if she oses a lottle bit of weight which is exactly the point that u have conveyed but the way u have conveyed it is surely in a negative way ,what u said was that she wont suceed and she will never enter bollwood as she is "fat" .Now both the statemenst are the same but the way its conveyed says it all.
I have no problems when u say "they got to hit the gym" ,yeah its right,they have to hit the gym to get more healthy but to say that they wont dance well and they CAN'T do salsa coz they are FAT is offending which I disagreed with .
Even before i have said that each one has their own likes and dislikes and different perceptions and no one can judge as who is right or wrong but again if u still beleive in ur heart that a"fat "person becomes less beautiful or assume that they cant dance well then I def disagree to it and feel that its unfair .
the prblem that happened in ksbkbt was that they said that "we were jealous of shilpa " and that was ridiculous .Now u may argue that I said that some of u wre "imature " or "childish" but beleive me its not bcoz of ur disliking/lining Mona,its bcoz of making it an issue bcoz of her weight and writing her off bcoz of her physical aspect .
I agree to ur point that whether fair or unfair ,bollywood does look at figue and one does need a godfather to succeeed and looking at that ,u can assume that Mona may never enter bollywood but one can surely hope positively that she gets a role and can enter bollwood based on her acting skills and her talent which is my viewpoint on this .
why should we write anyone off.How do u feel if someone writes you off bcoz they didnt like what they saw in you. wont ur dreams and ambitions be crushed or wont u feel hurt or unjustified when u feel that u can succeed in that field with ur talent and hardwork . see it all comes across the way u put it .
Thanks for bringing back that thread buffie,I appreciate it. see I could have disliked you for wrting negative stuff but No ,I still aprreciate you for ur words and vocabulary and ur high debating skill.What i think is that some statements are just too neagtive and comes across as "immature" bcoz its something which all of us in ur age have done and assumed .Not that i am an "aunty"😆 ,I am 20 something but still with more time and once u grow older u get exposed to a lot of things and experiences that changes ur viewpoint and I say it again ,at that time ,starting a post esp abt a person physical trait in a neagtive way will not even come across ur mind