Distrust vs Distrust - Page 2

@Rima I guess its the timing...ASR did what he did when they had not even voiced their feelings for one another...after that they have shown so much growth in their relationship, that her behaving like this doesnt look too credible.

Rimajee, If love started keeping scores then none of us deserve our loved ones.

Originally posted by: prabba

I'M THE FIRST, MY LUCKY DAY AFTER A DAY OF DISTRESS...

CONSEQUENCES OF DISTRUST FROM BOTH:

LET'S WEIGH THE BRUNT OF CONSEQUENCES DUE TO DISTRUSTING EACH OTHER, THOUGH THEY ARE SOUL MATES.

ARNAV'S DISTRUST AND ITS CONSEQUENCES:

Forced her into a Blackmail Marriage, which still not sure was Legal.

Used Physical Force to show his Distrust and Hatred.

Treated her worse than a Dog and made her sleep by the Pool.

Due to his Decision, she faced the Brunt if the whole Family from both Sides.

Due to his hasty Decision, she landed in RM and had to bear Shyam's lecherous advances.

She got slapped a few times because of him .

She lost trust of her Family .

She had no one on her side except herself until the kidnap track, NK was a blessing in disguise later.

She endured and worked with Shyam, which no woman has to endure to find Arnav.

She begged him to believe literally at his feet, but had to bear his hatred.

She had to deal with his sister's distrust also , because of Shyam and Arnav.

KHUSHI'S DISTRUST AND ITS CONSEQUENCES.

Arnav had to see the DNA Report, was unaware of it.

Arnav got to see more Sanak from Sanka Devi because of the Report.

He did not answer to anyone , anytime or anywhere to his Family about his decisions, this is a good thing for him . He now gets to flirt and do eye locks with his Ex and play me daddy, you sonny with the kid, and relive the past with the Ex.

And maybe a Rain Sequence from the movie they are now aping.

SO I CONCLUDE , HE ALMOST GOT AWAY WITH A, ALMOST BLOODY MURDER.

completely agree

I agree that Trust is the essence of any relationship, however Khushi does not distrust Arnav. He said that Sheetal meant nothing to him and she believed that in spite of ASR giving her numerous mixed signals. If she hadn't believed him, there was no way she'd have let Sheetal stay at RM. What she wants to know is whether Aarav is Arnav's son.

Khushi had Aarav and Arnav's similarities pointed at her every day by every person, ASR himself confirmed they were in a relationship AFTER she asked him. So before she accused him of anything she chose to find out the truth which I think is commendable. Her methods are wrong but her approach was right.

In fact, had ASR did the same and before punishing Khushi tried to find out the truth, we would have called him the epitome of trust.

Had Khushi jumped down ASR's throats and started shouting at him for his ex girlfriend and his illegitimate child, we would have called her a doubtful wife.

Khushi never said that ASR is betraying her. She just wants to know whether the child is his or not which given the similarities are very easy suspicion.

Khushi had no way to guess why Arnav punished her because as far as she knew, she never had any relationship with Shyam and ASR has never seen them together. But still she managed to almost guess the reason a few times.

Now why ASR does not doubt the child is his (if he indeed had any physical relationship with Sheetal at any point) or find something suspicious of having an exact replica of his with his ex (if he never had any physical relationship with Sheetal whatsoever) is what I find surprising.

Either that child is his or his ex is so obsessed with him that she made her child his miniature replica. There is no other explanation of these similarities. Why ASR, being a smart man, does not feel anything strange about it and guess Khushi's obvious discomforts are beyond my understanding. On top of that, in spite of knowing Khushi's insecurity, he is openly bantering with his ex which according to him meant nothing and he forgot completely until he met her again, yet he remembers everything about her now.

When he was with La, he never once used to glance in her eyes because he was too wrapped up in Khushi. Now he is married to Khushi, but now he doesn't once glance in her eyes to see the distress which is so clearly visible because he is too busy bantering with his ex-girlfriend.

When he said that having his ex under the same roof as his wife will be awkward, we all thought that it will be awkward for him. But considering how comfortable he is, I guess he meant that it will be awkward for Khushi.

Originally posted by: kookie2020

Rimajee, If love started keeping scores then none of us deserve our loved ones.

Same is the case with ARHI.

Both are, sorry were one hell of a characters who fell for each other despite being chalk and cheese.

Love does not keep scores, if it did then ASR never stood a chance.

We cant compare it this way.

Timing sucks.

Love does not keep scores

Originally posted by: tia.o

I agree that Trust is the essence of any relationship, however Khushi does not distrust Arnav. He said that Sheetal meant nothing to him and she believed that in spite of ASR giving her numerous mixed signals. If she hadn't believed him, there was no way she'd have let Sheetal stay at RM. What she wants to know is whether Aarav is Arnav's son.

Khushi had Aarav and Arnav's similarities pointed at her every day by every person, ASR himself confirmed they were in a relationship AFTER she asked him. So before she accused him of anything she chose to find out the truth which I think is commendable. Her methods are wrong but her approach was right.

In fact, had ASR did the same and before punishing Khushi tried to find out the truth, we would have called him the epitome of trust.

Had Khushi jumped down ASR's throats and started shouting at him for his ex girlfriend and his illegitimate child, we would have called her a doubtful wife.

Khushi never said that ASR is betraying her. She just wants to know whether the child is his or not which given the similarities are very easy suspicion.

Khushi had no way to guess why Arnav punished her because as far as she knew, she never had any relationship with Shyam and ASR has never seen them together. But still she managed to almost guess the reason a few times.

Now why ASR does not doubt the child is his (if he indeed had any physical relationship with Sheetal at any point) or find something suspicious of having an exact replica of his with his ex (if he never had any physical relationship with Sheetal whatsoever) is what I find surprising.

Either that child is his or his ex is so obsessed with him that she made her child his miniature replica. There is no other explanation of these similarities. Why ASR, being a smart man, does not feel anything strange about it and guess Khushi's obvious discomforts are beyond my understanding. On top of that, in spite of knowing Khushi's insecurity, he is openly bantering with his ex which according to him meant nothing and he forgot completely until he met her again, yet he remembers everything about her now.

When he was with La, he never once used to glance in her eyes because he was too wrapped up in Khushi. Now he is married to Khushi, but now he doesn't once glance in her eyes to see the distress which is so clearly visible because he is too busy bantering with his ex-girlfriend.

When he said that having his ex under the same roof as his wife will be awkward, we all thought that it will be awkward for him. But considering how comfortable he is, I guess he meant that it will be awkward for Khushi.

you know what tia

Originally posted by: ipkkndfan21

Earlier their love was weak with no trust in it, now they love has become a rock and cemnted with the strongest element trust, so its very difficult at this stage for any kind of suspicion entering in either of their minds. Even if she finds any thing fishy, i feel she should have confided in Arnav, and they together could investigated the matter.

but the DNA report shows she is suspecting

Rima all I can say is that murder of these 2 characters is beyond repair now...

Originally posted by: simim

@Rima

</div>I guess its the timing...ASR did what he did when they had not even voiced their feelings for one another...after that they have shown so much growth in their relationship, that her behaving like this doesnt look too credible.
<div>But I do think this track was a good ideas to bring out Khushis insecurities due to the huge difference between them...but the execution is so so so so bad that its frustrating everyone.

I dont believe anything can defend the chaprasi scene...i mean what was that? I wish they get over whatever problems they are facing now and start writing properly...her insecurities were shown well in the first 2 or 3 episodes of this track...after that its like thy dont know what to write

Whether they had voiced their feelings or not, the feelings were there. Why would your attitude change based on whether the other person returns your feelings or not? That is like saying, a boy loves a girl, but she does not know it. So when she hangs out with another boy, the former calls her a sl*t. But he is justified because he does not know whether the girl loves him back or not. Since when respect is subjected to whether the other person feels the same for you or not? If you love someone, you give them respect whether they reciprocate your feelings or not.

Originally posted by: sampin

I don't understand one thing...Why should comparisons come in the first place??!!

Then..what ASR did was horribly wrong..He saw Khushi in Shyam's arms..yet never bothered to see the real picture..whatever his reasons might be..

But then the same man let go off his past baggage entirely to marry Khushi..The same man believed Khushi without a single proof...

Again Khushi ...is wrong today...Her husband specifically points out he had nothing with Sheetal...yet she she cannot bring herself to trust him completely..Whatever might be her reasons..

A wrong is a wrong...Whoever does it..But the circumstances are a little different..Why should we compare??