Arnav has lost interest on Khushi

Arnav does not care about Khushi's anxiety.
Arnav is very insensitive towards Khushi's feelings.
Arnav is lost in Sheetal.
Arnav is exchanging romantic eye locks with Sheetal.
Arnav bitches about Khushi with Aarav.
Arnav has no interest on Khushi.

No it is not my take.But a large portion of the forum is saying so.Now of course they have valid points to think so.But it is that I fail to understand why is Arnav now being judged.What wrong he has one now?My take on it:

Arnav does not care about Khushi's anxiety.
I agree Arnav does not know what is going on Khushi's mind.But he has asked her many times and even tried to clear her doubts bout Sheetal.But he does not have the slightest idea that Khushi is worried about Araav being Arnav's child and not Sheetal.But is it entirely his fault?Arnav even after seeing so much similarities between him and Araav does not get suspicious about Araav being hi child.This thought is no where in his mind.Then how can he know that Khushi is having such a thought.

Arnav is very insensitive towards Khushi's feelings.
I won't say he is insensitive but the term clueless will be appropriate.
Both Arnav and Khushi are always clueless about each others feelings.
It is very visible from Khushi's face that she is worried.
Even Arnav knows that.
But most of the time Khushi gets worried at minor issues.
She did not take any offense when Arnav called her characterless.
But she was very angry when Arnav did not wish her in her birthday.
So it is quite difficult for Arnav to find out what is making her tensed.
Arnav is lost in Sheetal.
I did not see even a single glimpse of that.
Yes he was smiling while talking about Sheetal.
But why are you forgetting that he could have easily hide his relationship with Sheetal.
If he still had feelings for Sheetal he would have never admitted that he was in a relationship with Sheetal to khushi.
and he said to NK,"Everybody in the college knew about Sheetal Kapoor's nut allergy."
It means that it was a big issue in the college at that time and maybe they used to tease Sheetal about it.
Arnav was remembering about that time not only Sheetal.

Arnav is exchanging romantic eye locks with Sheetal.
He looked at Sheetal.But there was no romance,no pssion and no desire.He looks at Anjali with much more passion than he looked at Sheetal.
Arnav bitches about Khushi with Aarav.
Araav is a kid.
Arnav was having a fun time with him.
And Arnav did not bad mouth Khushi.
He loves Khushi's craziness,madness and filmy dramas.
There was a constant smile in his face while talking with Araav.It is not that he was discussing with Araav how to get rid of Khushi.
Arnav has no interest on Khushi.

He made Jalebis for her just to pacify her.
He bowed down his head in front of her.
He wanted to take her to Derby just after the day Shyam was exposed.
He wanted Khushi to wish him even though he never liked to be wished.
He did not react that much even after knowing Khushi did a DNA test.It is a criminal offense to perform a DNA test without the permission of the person under consideration.



Yes once Arnav did enough torture to Khushi.And I have bashed for that.But right now I see a man who loves his wife very much.So I am unable to understand why he is termed as jerk.Why people wants Khushi to leave him and marry NK.
What Arnav needs to do?And is Khushi 100% right?She went for a DNA test even without informing Arnav..


P.S.:I am not an Arnav fan girl.My posts are mostly dedicated to Khushi.Even I have said Arnav a jerk,Di Ka Chamcha earlier.But right now I did not find him to be that evil.

Arnav does not care about Khushi's anxiety.

Many people in the forum have short term amnesia just like our CV's and they don't remember how much Arnav has done for Khushi and how many times he has proved his love for her again and again.I pity those people who are not able to understand the basic essence of their love story until now.

Blame game is always on in our forum and now its Arnav's turn to take the blame when he hasn't done anything wrong.

I seriously love you for this post!

wow...this is the greatest post till today i have read in this forum...

you slap everyone in one go

seriously yaar by seeing those post i was little bit upset..but after readi ur post i m feeling good...😊thanx for this post

Both are flawed characters and will take time to be completely in sync with each other...every relationship has such problems where the partner fails to understand what exactly is bothering his/her spouse. Has happened with both arnav and khushi in their case. As of now arnav knows that something is bothering khushi but does not know that Aarav is the real problem that is bothering khushi because he has not given it a thought even in his wildest dreams; how will he? This situation in their lives will only help in strengthening their relationship more and bring about more growth in the characters and it will definitely be fun watch. About the sheetal thing-he was only being cordial... we feel bad because the narration at present is from khushi's POV! It is heart-wrenching for her and it is heart wrenching for us. But blaming arnav is not right IMO!! The track itself is here for them to have a deeper insight and better understanding of each other. Will that be accomplished in one day...then why is the track here for?😕

Right now it is Khushi whose insecurities are causing her to make horrendous error of judgement! It is not fair to Arnav Just like how it was unfair to khushi when he had mistrusted her!! No i am not saying khushi is entirely wrong, It is her fear of losing him and her haven that is making her do things which are not ethically right. But it's all about love and eventually love will triumph over everything and both will sort out this major hurdle.

About the NK thing...how is that even possible. People should understand that Khushi is a married girl now for god's sake...leave NK and Arnav and everyone around her, why will she herself suddenly think about leaving her husband and going with someone else?🤢 Marriage is not a joke and neither are marital problems; khushi and arnav will deal with their insecurities and problems in their own way!!

its bcz they have lost their mind