extra martial affair's are justified

hi guys

i was just wonderin if according to u extra maritial affair is justified or not

this is just for discussion so feel free to write anythin u want i will give my opinion later

guys please respond i really want know ur views

love

anu

extra -martial affairs are always bad in any culture or in any country . if you just love some one -else just break the relation you are in now and then have an affair with any one you love ...

cheating behind your back is always disgusting ...

Of course not, I am not saying that if you marry someone, then u r suppose to stay with that person for rest of ur life, but don't go out with someone while u r married. Divorce and then do watever u need to do.just my opinion 😛

Originally posted by: piya_y116

Of course not, I am not saying that if you marry someone, then u r suppose to stay with that person for rest of ur life, but don't go out with someone while u r married. Divorce and then do watever u need to do.just my opinion 😛

yup....thas also my thinking...

if there's no love in marriage...then u cant live with that person....but that doesnt mean u go find love outside ur marriage....go ur seperate ways first and den go find the love of ur life.....do not do it while ur styl in a marriage with sum1 u dont love.....marriage is marriage....

if under any cirumstances a person had to marry and after marriage are nuh happy wid der husbands (happens SOMETIMES in arranged marriages) and da lady is sacrificin only for her children.. even tho she does nuh have an affair she searches for more male friends.. but when da situations are such tht da husband does nuh care or love her or does nuh show it and insults her den she does look for more stronger friendship wid nyone else.. generally men.. and even tho she does nuh date after marriage she DOES have a soft corner for da person.. and tht is pretty ok.. cozz ofcourse she tries to tak to her husband bout her problems but if he dosent lissen to her or try to change she is alredi sacrificin her life by stayin wdi him for her children.. den she does have da rite to be close friends wid some oder men and its ok if she has a soft corner den.. nuh date thoo... juz be close.. as in friendship.. 😃

well i will agree with all who say it isnt just n completely agree with khushi i think before marriage itself all dobts shud be sorted out when ur gettin married ur spouse has the rite to know each n everythin about u n if u have faith n they really love u ,trust me they will accept u as u are despite of ur any weak quality or bad relationship with any other person u love someone for what they are n love is unconditional like example i love my frends despite the fact that she always taunts me on every third topic but i still love n find her shoulder to cry on
when ur gettin married there shud be no confusion becoz in love there is no confusion according to me the base of marriage is trust understadin communicating n immense unconditional love now communicatin might not be same in a old couple communication need not need words n even if there is not lot of communication i think a husband shud ask his wife about her day n so should the wife just a few words are enough
sometimes due to lack of communication or neglegence the spouse might be misleaded but both partners shud understand that no man can hurt a women more than doing some thin disgusting like this n no womencan hurt a man's ego more than doing a disgusting act like having an afair on the contrary if things innitially are nice n later dont work out spouses shud both work on it n later if things still dont work out its better to part ways but that shud be the last option n when kids are a part of life then its very inhuman if one of the spouse despite of thhe other tryin to save the marriage does not bother i have more to say but baaki ka later sorry for the lecture n khushi i think i can help u too on writing idea
love
anu

hey guys please give in some more views
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anu

I don't think its justified no matter what circumstance, b/c once you are married, you care committed to that being and you must not break that sacred vow you made upon one another.

If talking about personal feelings then I dont think that extra marital affairs are justified. If you are not happy in a marriage then you can divorce your partner and then maybe have an affair. Then it is not an extra marital affair but if you are married and still plan to have an affair then it is cheating an dhurting someone you are married with. In a marriage it is not only a bond of love but also trust and understanding. You are bound to come close to the person you share your every day and night with....
I feel that affairs happen when you are looking for a change...if you look closely then maybe you can give your dead marriage another chance...
Sometimes people feel they love two people...that is not true...it is just a question of getting your priorities and your values in perspective...
All in all how can you hurt someone so badly when you have spent so many intimate moments with them...
Cheating and deceit are never a good base for nay healthy relationship...
If you are ashamed and scared to do something then maybe there is something wrong with that decision...