Virat's pyar, behind the kheer scene...

so it is nothing but Virat's pyar behind the Kheer scene

so many questions and scenarios ---

Is Virat right in forcing Maanvi eat the Kheer before the family? YES
Should Virat have supported Maanvi, just like Viren did for Jeevika? NO, that would not be Virat
Should he have taken her to their room and told her about the kheer, instead of making her eat ? NO
Was he humiliating Maanvi by making her eat the kheer ? NO
Would it be better he never let her know about the Kheer for the rest of their life? Hell NO

Husband and wife:

the essence of marriage is it to be with each with other, take the responsibilities of each other. Virat took Maanvi's every responsibility, to look after her, take care of her and to be with her in all her endeavors...

Love blinds you, and you don't want to see the faults or show the faults or admit the mistakes, cover up the mistakes or faults of your beloved one, so that they don't hurt their beloved ... but that is temporary according to me..

RESPONSIBILITY

What Virat did today is his RESPONSIBILITY, stemmed out of the promises of MARRIAGE and TRUE LOVE. For me supporting a person's mistake is a mistake. When you commit a mistake, learn from it, Maanvi committed a mistake, but the family would never ever let her know about it, because they all LOVE her and did not want to hurt her..

.Virat is one HONEST, GENUINE, TRUE, STRAIGHTFORWARD and NO NONSENSE guy with absolute TRANSPARENCY between them as a couple...If we notice, Virat was about to blurt it, as and when he tasted the first time ..but Vanshika aunty, Kadambari chachi stops him.. but he can't hold back,.,, which he has to tell..and out of all the people, it was he who made her eat the kheer, while dadaji, viren and vanshika aunty tried to stop him.,.

People will be surely be shocked, if a husband, who loves his wife, more than anyone, was not supporting her and was showing her mistake and in turn HURTING her, Now with Virat's obstinate behavior, she will be hurt temporarily ..but at least she will realize her mistake and learn from it.. this is what comes of taking RESPONSIBILITY of a person for life

Virat took her responsibility, now it is up to him to make sure she learns from it .. An example here, could be a Mom, taking Kid's responsibility ..if she doesn't tell her kid the mistake he/she did .. the kid will think, that he./she is doing right and will continue to do the same mistake all her/his life,, but does the Mom let that happen ,, would she not try to show the kid's mistake, inspite of it hurts the kid.. .,,,so here, it's not the relation, I am talking about, but the underlying essence is RESPONSIBILITY stemmed out of TRUE LOVE..in each of these two relations

In both the cases, it is RESPONSIBILITY, but Virat, I would say went a step ahead, Mom's generally do not point out the kid's mistake in front of all the people .,. but what Virat did here also shows Maanvi how much, the FAMILY loves her, they all were trying to hide, so that she is not hurt..,..and also to rectify the mistakes,(I am sure next time Mannu's kheer would be yummmy) Virat wouldn't hide Maanvi's galti and let her commit the same mistake again and again.. he is her guide and her torch bearer.. to show her the right and wrong ,,and so is she to him

If I go further, i really don't want to write this, but it is strikingly pricking in my head (so please don't take this point in any other direction,,,please) Jeevika, who is Mom to Maanvi, covered up Mannu's mistake,not to hurt her, but she did not try to correct it.. while Virat did take the responsibility, to show her mistake and also to show the family's genuine LOVE for Mannu .(meri request yaad rakhna iss point pe)

and I am sure, Maanvi would do exactly the same if Virat committed a mistake, they are so compatible to each other emotionally and physically, which sets them apart..

at the end of it, it is nothing but, absolute TRANSPARENCY in their relation .. and one important point to note is, all this he did in true VIRAT style .., which I love the most...

and as i keep saying., each day, he shows a different side of him which makes him even more adorable .. My respect and adoration for this one character is just going leaps and bounds

It might be just a kheer, but these little things make up life ,

be ready with the fry pan, if everything is going above your head, ??