Aarti has not accepted Palak and Payal :( - Page 5

I have to admit though that Yash was being a very bad and irresponsible father when he behaved that way with the mother of his kids. However i absolutely agree that he was never thinking of a divorce or a separation forever just because he still had his kids in mind. He was broken emotionally and consumed with guilt, and hence couldn't control himself in front of his kids ( which was very very wrong), but they always featured in his thoughts. In fact, when he broke down in front of gayatri, he confessed that he had been troubling all lately, and that he had failed as a son, a father and a brother. So, its not that he did not know that he was being irresponsible. He knew he was letting his kids down in a way. Thats the reason he told aarti that it was better for them to walk separately, and live their own lives inspite of being in a relationship. He never wanted to walk out of the relationship. I agree, that such a wish was extremely unfair to aarti, but then Yash has never been a good husband! He has always maintained that the wedding was for the children, and he was still doing so.

But sadly Aarti is thinking only about him, and not the kids, which is even more shocking since she has always been responsible. Its true that humans err. Its true that mothers are also humans. But its also true that a mother can never differentiate between her kids, nor can she just forget them. Its not as if Aarti was going away for a few days and so she did not miss Palak and Payal. She kept on repeating that she was going away forever, because that was best for Yash...so its totally unnatural and unacceptable that she did not think about Palak and Payal.

Yash got a flashback of Ansh after few days. But point to be noted- he knew the kids were at Shobha's house, and not gone forever. However, the day he decided to participate in that dangerous boxing match, he got the flashback of the 3 kids.because he knew that he might actually be going away from them forever! And this is the difference. Aarti knew she was leaving Yash forever, so its really weird if she started missing Palak and Payal after few days..that would also prove the fact that they are secondary to her.

No one risks their life for others out of guilt. If guilt was the main motivation for Yash, then he may have paid the ransom and all but he wouldn't have been able to take the bullet for Ansh. Such sacrifice is only born from the deepest and fiercest love.

Why is it so hard to acknowledge what Yash has done for Ansh? We r not saying Aarti hasn't done anything for the girls. She has . A lot. we r just talking about the current track. Then why is it necessary to pick faults with whatever Yash has done, even if its his most selfless deed like saving Ansh by risking his own life...? Its not like there is a competetion going on between Yash and Aarti!😕