Ovi UGH

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 13 years ago

So the precap showed Ovi questioning Arjun. She has the nerves to ask Arjun. WHAT is this? I have just taken in the fact that they both are married. BUT, why does Ovi have to do this? Arjun should slap her.

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Rich`

@cs-07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Arjun married her with his own consent. She is his responsibility. Either he can take a divorce and continue with his cheating antics again or he can shut up and be a husband. the dude likes to keep his options open.
he was in relationship with purvi but didnt tell the girl he was supposed to get engaged to OR even after that. and when he is married to a girl, he still has the guts to go around, trying to cheat on with both the girls. spineless.

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 13 years ago

Arjun married her because Purvi forced him to. Purvi begged him to. And he was never engaged to Ovi. He told Ovi that he will marry her. But , there was no commitment. Ovi was always the one roaming around him. He never tried cheating on Ovi after marriage. He is just being himself.And as for Ovi if she was human she would ask for a divorce by now since she is the one being humiliated all the time.

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Rich`

@cs-07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: harshadlover16
Arjun married her because Purvi forced him to. Purvi begged him to. And he was never engaged to Ovi. He told Ovi that he will marry her. But , there was no commitment. Ovi was always the one roaming around him. He never tried cheating on Ovi after marriage. He is just being himself.And as for Ovi if she was human she would ask for a divorce by now since she is the one being humiliated all the time.

the same logic if applied on arjun, why didnt he hate puvi when she forced him to marry someone the same day as their own marriage or why hasnt he filed for divorce when he doesnt care abt his wife. why hang her in the limbo. ovi wanted arjun, she got him, she is being a housewife(a spoilt brat) and tending to her husband and FIL's needs, she is trying and thinks he will melt, but arjun knows he wont, so why not FILE for a divorce and get it over with. arjun is a spineless husband to ovi and a boyfriend to purvi

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Aisha khan

@mallika_1

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Posted: 13 years ago

harshadlover sorry dont know u name, 😛

but dear just let it be, every time we say something about ovi so the only thing we hear is that ovi is married to him and blah blah blah so there's no point, many of us are already tired, so before you are it is better to leave it😛

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aathya

@aathya

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Posted: 13 years ago

Arjun is not hating purvi because she did that for her mom nd he is hating ovi because whatever she did is only nd only for herself.. There is a lot of difference between that 2... Now arjun respects purvi even more.. Purvi is the one who always thinks about others before thinkng about her nd ovi is the one who only nd only thinks about her happiness she doesnt give a damn 2 other's happiness all she cares is only about her happyness.. Still u ovi lovers want 2 support her go ahead but dont bash purvi nd arjun

Edited by aathya - 13 years ago

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Rich`

@cs-07

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: mallika_1
harshadlover sorry dont know u name, 😛
but dear just let it be, every time we say something about ovi so the only thing we hear is that ovi is married to him and blah blah blah so there's no point, many of us are already tired, so before you are it is better to leave it😛

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ambolove

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: nirvanlove
Arjun married her with his own consent. She is his responsibility. Either he can take a divorce and continue with his cheating antics again or he can shut up and be a husband. the dude likes to keep his options open.
he was in relationship with purvi but didnt tell the girl he was supposed to get engaged to OR even after that. and when he is married to a girl, he still has the guts to go around, trying to cheat on with both the girls. spineless.

When did arjun try to cheat on ovi? In my opinion he still loves purvi and love doesn't just vanish. He's trying his best, he's given ovi a home, A place to live, he's accepted her as his wife in the sense that he tells people that he is married to her and allowing her to be his wife. Did he kiss purvi? Hug purvi? Try to make love to purvi after he married ovi? No? I thought not. All he has done so far is ask purvi if she is okay because he still cares for her. Please give me your definition of what 'Cheating' means, I'm all ears and desperate to hear your views. I havn't watched todays episode yet so please forgive me if arjun did infact try to kiss/romantically hug/make love to purvi, because yes that is what is called 'Cheating'. Oh and remember all the romantic dances you've seen in the past few days have all been 'dreams'. I'm sure people are allowed to dream romantically of the people they love or is that punishable in your eyes? Even the Zee 20th Anniversary dance was just a 'dream', you know because they magically appear onto the stage. Arjun is trying his hardest, he has given ovi his word that he will try to change but it will take a long time therefore I feel ovi does not yet have the right to be suspiciously asking stupid questions.

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pp29

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: ambolove

When did arjun try to cheat on ovi? In my opinion he still loves purvi and love doesn't just vanish. He's trying his best, he's given ovi a home, A place to live, he's accepted her as his wife in the sense that he tells people that he is married to her and allowing her to be his wife. Did he kiss purvi? Hug purvi? Try to make love to purvi after he married ovi? No? I thought not. All he has done so far is ask purvi if she is okay because he still cares for her. Please give me your definition of what 'Cheating' means, I'm all ears and desperate to hear your views. I havn't watched todays episode yet so please forgive me if arjun did infact try to kiss/romantically hug/make love to purvi, because yes that is what is called 'Cheating'. Oh and remember all the romantic dances you've seen in the past few days have all been 'dreams'. I'm sure people are allowed to dream romantically of the people they love or is that punishable in your eyes? Even the Zee 20th Anniversary dance was just a 'dream', you know because they magically appear onto the stage. Arjun is trying his hardest, he has given ovi his word that he will try to change but it will take a long time therefore I feel ovi does not yet have the right to be suspiciously asking stupid questions.

I don;t know why we all are still trying to make sense of morals and ethics and sanctity of marriage after watching this show for 3 years. We all know, the ultimate point of this show is to show lovers unite. And if we try to make logic then we are really pushing our luck. I used to stick to logic and try and make sense of this Arjun-Ovi-Purvi debacle. However, if they showed Ovi to be nice and normal, I am all for Arjun giving her wife status in his life. going by how vindictive Ovi is, and how selfish and self-centred she is, I don;t think, according to "logic" she deserves to be Arjun's love. Yes, he has given her wife status, he announces it openly to the world, and is not exactly hating her or giving her a hard time by being angry and upset all the time. Under the conditions that they got married, plus him finding out about her betrayal (she put the deal in front of Purvi and he found out about this after the wedding), I guess, it takes time to accept such a person and give her "love".

Ovi herself has proved she doesn't deserve it because she doesn't care about anyone except herself. She has never really "loved" arjun because if she did, she would not try and get him by all means and be blind to the fact that he loves someone else. Yes, he cheated her when he did not tell her about Purvi, he broke off their engagement, he fell in love with someone else, and probably he too acted selfish by not giving her time to move on before announcing his wedding to Purvi. So we can blame Archana and Sulochana too who rubbed it in their daughter's face that her ex-fiance is marrying her sister.

Difference between Ovi and Purvi is simple. Neither of them love Arjun whole heartedly. Purvi loves her family over Arjun and Ovi loves herslef over Arjun. The guy is stuck. He is trying to move on, but please tell me if that is possible in the matter of few weeks. If you love someone, get married to someone else by fate or whatever your stupid decision, do you wake up in teh mornign and decide. hey guess what, I am going to love my wife now? And yes, he never cheated on Ovi. He did dream of Purvi at the maha episode which is wrong only because it was in front of ganpati, but to dream about your lover is I guess expected of a person 2 weeks into their farcical wedding. Him meeting purvi at the mall and enquiring about her whereabouts is normal, he still cares for her. And guess what, she is his sister-in-law isn't she? He is only being courteous on those grounds. He never said I love you, I miss you, blah blah blah nor did he touch her or hug her. So where does the word cheating spineless man come from?

He did not intentionally meet Purvi even once after the wedding except next day when he went to her house to tell her that she should face it. After that, he has bumped into her at functions and only been cordial. So I guess to paint him with the cheating brush is pushing it a little too far. Both girls spoiled his life, he was dumb enough to accept his fate, but what he is doing now is only normal. It takes time to move on from a past lover who you end up bumping into at all family functions without your choice, and it is hard to accept the woman who caused this deal and acted selfish as a brat as your wife.

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