lets talk: URMILA - Page 2

Originally posted by: nneeiill

@arti :

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to me this is a perfect lovestory any person can have...like everyone they too had a fairytale life but they chose sacrificed for their own ppl and attained the ultimate meaning of love...love means sacirfice but proof they can give to tell how much they love each other wen one didnt blink his eyes for 14 years he didnt sleep nor ate not ever looked at any other lady and the other never sheded a single tear lead a life of ascetic and cried only wen her husband was standing infront of her...i totatlly love them😳"


i loved how u explained this..really a great love story..eptiome of sacrifice

Originally posted by: nneeiill

@mini:

i agree...you explained this very well

"According to me she was not a weak woman but a very determined,strong person because the sacrifice she made is not so easy...granted she stayed in a palace with all the luxuries around but what use is material pleasures if you don't have that special someone to share it with.Sita Devi endured a lot but at least she was with her husband Ramji and when your spouse is with you any hardship can be overcome.The support and companionship of a spouse is so important and Urmila had to live without it for fourteen years.It is certainly not a small thing and on top of that Lakshmanji's promise"

Originally posted by: JanakiRaghunath

Urmila's sacrifice is indeed incomparable, but I don't think that make's Sita's sacrifice any less. :) Even she lived without her husband for many years during Uttarkand and then left forever.

Urmila and Lakshman's separation always makes me sad, but at least they had their happy ending after the vanvaas was over. They got to rear their children together whereas Ram and Sita did not get to have that joy. :(

That's why I think every character in the Ramayana is incomparable. No one is greater or lesser than the other.

Originally posted by: minizz

Arti,I loved what you wrote about Lakshman and Urmila having the perfect love story.I agree with you.It makes me happy that they got to experience their happily ever after after the long separation of 14 yrs.I did not know that Ramji considered Urmila as his daughter awww that's so sweet .My repect for Urmila has increased manifold after reading the part about how she chose to remain silent😭Lakshmanji's message for Urmila to take good care of Kaikeyi melted me.I had never heard of it.This couple was truly made for each other na.

arre your posts are so good yaar.Please don't even think of stopping.I would love to read more about characters like Jatayu,Shoorpanakha,Mandodari,Shabari,Vali,Vibheeshan and even Raavan cause there are so many stories about him that I am still unaware of.Actually I have a request somewhere along the way it would be great to see a post on Vali and Sugreeva's wife.I don't know much about her except for what I have read in Amar Chitra Katha.So it would great if you can throw some light on her character.Seriously I admire the research you are doing to bring us all these informative posts👏

hahahaha you went to a satsang with your mother to hear sermons about Lakshmanji...sach mein sudhar gayi aur hum sab paapi aatmaaon ko bhi sudhaar rahi hai...Keep up the good work Arti😆

Originally posted by: manzilmukul

In this jet age where materialism and self indulgence is so important that long distance relationships hardly work..Urmila stands out among everyone..TRULY an UNSUNG heroine...One cannot help but draw an inspiration from her unmatched devotion...Its really heart wrenching that inspite being married to the handsome prince..she not only set up an example for everyone that -LOVE INDEED TRANSCENDS the petty parameters of distance and time...but also proved the fact that DUTY DONE WITH PASSION IS NEVER FUTILE...It was her passion...it was her UNCONDITIONAL love for her husband which made her sacrifice to such an extent...The kind of reverence and the level of SACRIFICE can only come with great love and hence The immense love of Urmila and Lakshmana is also an untouched aspect..which should have been explored...

"When you love some unconditionally..Everything else ceases to exist...What matters is the happiness of the person who means the world to you..."

@All Loving the wonderful discussions👏