hope-less? Marriage? - Page 4

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Very well written...

Just one thing, I wanted to say, was Arjun is NOT softening towards Ovi. I have written about it in one of my posts on the thread 'Never Reformed Ovi Deshmukh". He is just treating her with a distance, being friendly but very impersonally. He has already told her that he will never love anyone the way he loved Purvi, and that is that. His yelling, ranting and raving will not serve any purpose. And, morally, he cannot pursue Purvi either, for he is legally married. And also, why should be puruse Purvi now, she has dumped him, categorically told him that she wants him to treat Ovi as a husband, for which he says "I will do it my way..and not urs..face it, Purvi"..this is his way.. His silent, normal but very impersonal treatment is going to drive Ovi crazy and will drive home the fact that there is no future here.


@black Agree with all in black...Ms.Ovi, who has apparently been in love with Arjun for the past, dont know, how many years, is so blindly in love, that she absolutely CANNOT see the suffering and pain that Arjun is going through, for what does she care, she got what she wanted, her own Ken doll !!! She has absolute confidence, that she will make him love her, right, it is a matter of just replacing the right batteries in her toy...😊..

Purvi better learn to be line for her Aai's attention, for there are other kids, more in favor now. I am yet to be proven otherwise, despite many claims. I will wait and watch on this.

@red Yes, SULO was a absolute character today. Just dont know what to say. When someone is in pain as Purvi is, as a family member your main concern should be to try to divert them, and get her out of the house. The girl wants to work, and what does she do, keeps her home as her own personal nanny !!

@blue Please do not have any doubts about it. That is bound to happen. When Arjun keeps treating her the way he is doing now, polite, friendly, but very impersonal, that will drive Ms. Ovi nuts, and she will go directly to Ms. Mahaan II to ask her for this. And, Mahaan II will do it also.
For, isnt Aai's happiness indirectly through Ovi's happiness her main concern in life?

Thank you J :) ( Can I call you that? )

I really liked your post on Ovi too! True to the hilt. I agree with what you said about Arjun. I read your post and understood your point after penning this down. I think you are right when you say Arjun is being as impersonal as it can get and that is clear show of how he will never fall in love with Ovi no matter how many more ingenious plans she comes up with. I wish someone told Arjun about Ovi;s new found idea about sending Purvi. The only thing left is domestic violence in their marriage then :P😛

As far as rest of it is concerned, I am still waiting for Archu to play up her role in Purvi;s life. I understand that her relationship with OVi is raw and hence reprimanding her right now could back-fire but I am hoping Archu gets out of her honeymoon phase soon and goes right to Purvi to comfort her. Although, I know a lot of people think Purvi hit the hammer on her foot herself and she is old enough for Archu to be self-involved, but I still think, no matter what age, having a child go through a traumatic experience does not let any mother get a peaceful sleep at night, but Archu is having her own marital bliss right now, so like Jai says, let;s give her time and watch her next step.

Sulo should now simply retire to dharamsala up in the mountains. Her getting involved in her daughter and potis life has caused enough havoc. But alas, Sulo is here to last I am sure, for the CVs love this "ideal" grand ma! :)😆

hi Pooja. u r absolutely right as usual. i also dont want Arjun-Ovi marriage to work. if this happens people will get wrong message that by blackmailing, or by attempting suicide u can get whatever u want. and Ovi is such a selfish girl who demanding more n more as she is under wrong belief that she can get whatever she wants. and they call this sweetness