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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Debalina_Paul



U are welcome except the part "we all".. I ain't gonna be a blend or mixture of anyone. Coz I'm not gonna marry anyone.. 😊

Deb fantastic idea, not janjat of hubby and his mommy dearest.😈 What people fail to understand, most specially SP is that the reality is far from what they show on their shows.
No matter what anyone says MIL can never take Mother's place in the real world. That is all I can say from a persona experience. For me Koki and Gopi pair were the best pair of saas bahu jodi in reel world, but somewhere they have lost that appeal for the pair now, it is not consitent and it is not the same anymore.
Let me shut up now on it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: sbp1971

Deb fantastic idea, not jhanjat of hubby and his mommy dearest.😈 What people fail to understand, most specially SP is that the reality is far from what they show on their shows.

No matter what anyone says MIL can never take Mother's place in the real world. That is all I can say from a persona experience. For me Koki and Gopi pair were the best pair of saas bahu jodi in reel world, but somewhere they have lost that appeal for the pair now, it is not consitent and it is not the same anymore.
Let me shut up now on it.



Shilpadi I may sound weird but I need to tell this.. I really find this weird that people crave for getting married, and the family members too; majority thinks that getting their son and daughter married is like a burden off their shoulders.

I know, its a important part of life and the family moves on with new members but still, people should understand that marrying isn't the ultimate destination of all..
Most of the problems of a person starts after marriage. Before marriage, however one may be, whatever he may be, he is independent and free from anyone else's clutches.

We'll find very few examples of happily married couples. Yes, happily married couples are there, but countable numbers.

I myself have seen my cousins' and friends' changing lives after marriage. The initial months were always happy-go-lucky.. But after a few months, all share a common story..

That's why I don't wanna marry at all .. I know I'm not clear with my points and sounding like a lunatic, but ... 😕

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Debalina_Paul



<font color="#FF00CC"><font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Shilpadi I may sound weird but I need to tell this.. I really find this weird that people crave for getting married, and the family members too; majority thinks that getting their son and daughter married is like a burden off their shoulders.

I know, its a important part of life and the family moves on with new members but still, people should understand that marrying isn't the ultimate destination of all..
Most of the problems of a person starts after marriage. Before marriage, however one may be, whatever he may be, he is independent and free from anyone else's clutches.

We'll find very few examples of happily married couples. Yes, happily married couples are there, but countable numbers.

I myself have seen my cousins' and friends' changing lives after marriage. The initial months were always happy-go-lucky.. But after a few months, all share a common story..

That's why I don't wanna marry at all .. I know I'm not clear with my points and sounding like a lunatic, but ... 😕</font>
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Deb you are not a lunatic or alone in your thinking.

They say hindsight is 20/20 and I agree, if I had known what I know now, back when I was younger, I would have opted to do the same.

I fell into emotional blackmail part myself and don't plan to do this to my kids. It has to be if they feel what is right for them.

Edited by sbp1971 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Shilpa di: I feel good to know that I'm not the only one who think that getting married is like losing one's independence. I know at some point of time may be I also have to get married and all but right now, I dread the idea of gettiing married. I'm 22 and want to enjoy my independent life to the fullest without obligations..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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if there is family like kashyap parivar then every dil will be like rajini and disha and even dumb ones like suhana can understand values of family togetherness.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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It is really hypocritical to always talk about ideal bahu. Why can't the focus be on what makes a person ideal. More than MIL/DIL equation, it is the husband/wife relation that is more important as that can make or break marriages. Not all men are as nice as the SP leads. The Cvs have a bias against women. How come we have no shows about straying men.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Mili: Real life- men dominated

Reel life- Women dominated..

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