Has Akshara ever been a good wife?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Hey guys Here I will write my pov and my feelings about akshara. I am sorry if I will hurt anyone but I cannot keep this in my heart.

Plzz think thoughtfully and tell me Has Akshara ever been a good wife?

When she got married to Naitik, She always use to concentrate more on house hold works and always tried to impress gayatri and use to ignore naitik. In Mohit Nandini track, se never told naitik about mohini relation, and there been millions of such suitations where she has always putted family before Naitik. Her rishta with the family has always been more important. At times she neglected naitik becuase of gayatri and family. And Now again she is doing this. Naitik just said its for vacation but Akshara again brought the family issue. I am not saying Naitik right nor I am saying its wrong to love family but I am saying that Ignoring Husband for family is not a good decision. Akshara Has marry Naitik, Not the family!

And this all makes me think that Akshara has never been a good wife. She has always putted family first and then at last Naitik. She always try to explain Naitik about her millions of excuses. Cant she explain the family like she explain Naitik? Family is important but neglecting your life partner for it does not seem to be sensible!

A couple needs privacy but akshara has never acted like she needs privacy with Naitik.

YRKKH CVS admit to show the reality? Really is this their so called reality? I dont think so. I think in reality every wife needs or wants to spend time with her husband but its not the case here!

And that has been the reason that in these last three years, i have never relate with the character of akshara. I am not bashing akshara so plzz dont throw eggs on me 😆 I am just telling my view again I am sorry if I have hurted.


And plzz while replying the post, plzz forget that you are akshara or naitik fan. Plzz just think about this that has akshara ever been a good wife?


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..Komal.. thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Really??? she was the one who made him to join their family business when he was creeping for the job..wasnt she a good wife then?In sneha track she didnt say anything in family about the matter..wasnt she a good wife then?In ghar girvi track she supported naitik..n when she was delivering n naitik had to go pune..again she didnt say anything n understood work is important..wasnt she a good wife then?when duggu got locked in car n she backanswered g3 n nk supported g3..again she didnt complain anything n understood his love for his mother..wasnt she a good wife then?? If not then I should change my definition of good wife😆 jurt my views..dont want to hurt u..😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: komal_naksh

Really??? she was the one who made him to join their family business when he was creeping for the job..wasnt she a good wife then?In sneha track she didnt say anything in family about the matter..wasnt she a good wife then?In ghar girvi track she supported naitik..n when she was delivering n naitik had to go pune..again she didnt say anything n understood work is important..wasnt she a good wife then?when duggu got locked in car n she backanswered g3 n nk supported g3..again she didnt complain anything n understood his love for his mother..wasnt she a good wife then?? If not then I should change my definition of good wife😆 jurt my views..dont want to hurt u..😃

She has always putted family before than natik. She has always try to gave millions excuses to naitik to go away and she needs to do this or that. she is always try to make her MIL happy and ignored naitik. And neglecting to naitik and putting family before than naitik does not make her good wife!

she has always try to be mahan and being mahan is not example of good wife!

this is my view.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: komal_naksh

Really??? she was the one who made him to join their family business when he was creeping for the job..wasnt she a good wife then?In sneha track she didnt say anything in family about the matter..wasnt she a good wife then?In ghar girvi track she supported naitik..n when she was delivering n naitik had to go pune..again she didnt say anything n understood work is important..wasnt she a good wife then?when duggu got locked in car n she backanswered g3 n nk supported g3..again she didnt complain anything n understood his love for his mother..wasnt she a good wife then?? If not then I should change my definition of good wife😆 jurt my views..dont want to hurt u..😃

Agreed...also during mohini track she tried 2 tell nk abt them but he ws asleep
so probs arose
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Posted: 13 years ago
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In my pov she is a very good wife . both of them sacrifice so much for their families . the problem is they have less conversation in now a days . we hope we get good message of our cv . a joint family person come out means how elders ll affect and hurt like tat this track goes may be its my thought
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I will not totally agree wid u. Yes there are some situations where akshara have to choose her family n neglact naitik bt that does not mean she is not a good wife... She always have supported naitik whenever he needed. Though she lived in a joint family she has to take care of everyone...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: neha3

I will not totally agree wid u. Yes there are some situations where akshara have to choose her family n neglact naitik bt that does not mean she is not a good wife... She always have supported naitik whenever he needed. Though she lived in a joint family she has to take care of everyone...

yes you need to take care of everyone but neglecting your hubby is wrong too

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Posted: 13 years ago
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If not supporting your husband when he is wrong then yes akshara is not good wife. You mentioned that akshara has neglected natik which in my opinion is wrong. There were many instances when akshara became natik pillar of strength.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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i think the question isnt is akshara a good wife or not , for me she is (and im not saying this cuz im a akshara fan or anything like that)...
nor am i saying its naitik who is always wrong.
akshara is the Daughter in law of the house who lives in a joint family. ofcause she needs to take care of everyones happiness and its completely diffrent to the couples we see in real life nowadays hardly people live in joint familys and so what the rest of the family members think doesnt really matter but here its a completely diffrent story 😛
Akshara loves to be with naitik and she does try her best to be with him, yes the familys happiness does matter to her because she is the daughter in law and she always puts naitik aside for a while because she knows he will understand her, yes naitik needs her too but looking from akshara's POV the family does matter.

and if naitik wants to take her into foreign country he should tell her, the main purpose of it too , if akshara wants to go with everyone then i dont see any problem in it 😆 😆
Edited by shayal1436 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Topic is related to Akshara, so please don't bring Naitik in between.. 😛
I will only say tht the improvement that has cum in Naitik's nature, behaviour is because of Akshara only.. N thts wht matters for me when we think abt criteria of a good wife.. :)
Yesterday she was unreasonable.. But nly one that incident doesn't prove that she is a bad wife..
Yes, she has done some mistakes in past.. Par galtiya kise nai hoti? Be it Naitik or Akshara, dono me galatiya ki hai, par fir bhi they are gud hubby wifey for me..

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