Is Megha too bossy & treating Mohan like a kid !

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Megha has not even completed a week of marriage but to me it looks that she has readily assumed the role of the senior spouse and loves calling the shots. She has become the Mother Hen as well as the Finance Ministry of the family - all this has come so naturally and so quickly to her. She behaves as if she is the only mature person in the family of 4 and that she has to lead and guide them on all matters and she cant leave anything to Mohan. And she often treats Mohan as an irresponsible bachcha, almost like another petulant Addu. If you notice she has already twice referred to him as a bachcha (while sleeping on the swing and during the fight over dinner) and twice said that he was like Addu. And what's the point of saying 'aap' if she ends her sentences to Mohan with ,,, achcha and theek hai? like a parent reminding a kid one more time what to do.

Of course, Mohan too has not helped his own cause by doing careless things like putting Addu on the wrong bus, misplacing luggage and buying a huge new fridge when he could get the old one repaired. And borrowing from Guru is not a comfortable idea at all for Megha which is understandable. But then Mohan was so loving and caring when he wanted to surprise Megha with the extra room I really felt bad when Megha chided him for extra expenses and was so luke warm in her response. It was just the other day that Mohan showed his immense maturity and depth of his love for Megha and her feelings when he kept aside his star reporter trophy and instead put Amar's photograph there.

Surely, Megha should understand and appreciate this maturity in Mohan (despite his cavalier outer self) and respect him for that and treat him on par. Rather than being bossy and treating him like a kid. And Mohan has already twice told her ki 'meri maa mat bano'. Hope she understands this fast.

Do you agree that Megha should modify her stance a bit?

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Megha was right when it came to Mohan's money management skills. But I did not like her interference between Mohan and Nanhi yesterday where she insisted that Mohan should call her Nanhi and not Chavanni.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes megha should change her stance. No need to be bossy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I feel she should talk to mohan in money related matters... just telling him that he is spending too much won't work in case of mohan... & he also takes that to heart so they should sit & talk.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There is nothing like senior spouse in a relation..but I too agree that she has been throwing this bossy attitude many times. Like above said, I too did not like her interference between Mohan n Nanhi relation..already we have lost MB confidence , I am not liking his remaining attitude going down bcoz of her Mirchi madam behavior..though she was right in handling money matters..😊 But what's the need of becoming his mother ..Indu is enough for that pain..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Megha agar Bossy na bane toh Mohan Babu ghar ke finance ki dhajiyan uda denge . Mohan ka credit card bill dekha kya . Kitna pendung hai uske baad bhi he keeps on buying things . Does he even know ghar chalene ke liye kitna jugad karna padega usse .
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yes,i mean may be Megha be right in her stand abt financial matters but thoda pyaar se samjhaye to achha hoga😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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That is Megha that we know as Mrs. Vyas! Now it has to be Mohan who has to get back as Mohan to deal with Megha!
How Mohan stood stubborn against a stubborn Megha, while Nanni was lost and helped to find her! So if we can see that Mohan who is sensible and correct making Megha think that he is correct, then it things shud be fine with them!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@Senpoo -- where were you yaar, very less replies today
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Megha has always been like this. Even with Amar (in those FB scenes shown), she was bossy with him also😆. Amar ko toh perfection ki Murthi batate hai, usse ke saath bhi woh aise hi behave karthi thi. Ab reg mohan, kya umeed karsakthe hai😆.

But i think she should stop laughing at mohan atleast infront of the kids. Here Addu will never grow any respect for mohan, if his own mom keeps laughing at mohan like that. That may be a friendly banter as per her character but the kids might not understand that.

Megha is not really mature as she thinks she is and we all know that from various other incidents in the past. She should understand that degrading mohan even in small issues may put him in bad light infront of kids.

And the CVs should stop making mohan so silly. Earlier he was clumsy but never stupid or silly. But now his acts really appears annoyingly silly and the CVs thinks thats funny😆.


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