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indfor_win

@indfor_win

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

yeah shudn't be impulsive and take wise decision.

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_DrEaM_

@_DrEaM_

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

When it happens there is actually nothing you can do...have been through it if you try to bond back they will still resist and you sound like an idiot...at times you feel the urge to reconnect but at times you feel so frustrated thinking back what they all did...besides even if you got to connect back there is forever a fear of being treated badly or cheated yet again (which in most cases reoccurs!)

All in all, the best thing to do is go with the flow of time, if it's showing you something positive you can follow else just stay away before trouble invites again!

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Angel-likeDevil

@Angel-likeDevil

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

WOW Dream.. it's been such a long time since I saw you :)

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thankyou for posting!

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_DrEaM_

@_DrEaM_

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

haha welcome angel nice to see you too

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Blukitten

@Blukitten

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

@TM...I guess these kind of things happen in all families everyone has hidden skeletons...Its up to u weather u want to keep tolerating such behaviour.

I have seen similar attitude from my relatives...i wont go into details...I just hate my paternal side relatives...i am not much in touch with them...I rarely meet them during some wedding or other functions due to my parents...And I have decided that in future I am not gonna be in touch with them...

See u cant force ur parents to break their relationship from their relatives coz they have their own viewpoint.But u can decide for urself.

Life is too short so why waste time over useless people...they wont do any good to u apart from giving mental tension...

So just avoid them and make ur own circle of people who'll support u.

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Nikitha

@niki_09

Inactive

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

My mum has 2 elder bros ..N she is the only sisters ...n my uncles dont get along well with eachothr ...i once asked my mum y dont you do something ..she just said "i tried,but its of no use ." ...Shes the intermediary now ...

You have to learn to forgive and forget othrs the bond falls apart

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Freethinker112

@Freethinker112

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Not everything can be forgiven and forgotten. It's true that I love my family but many times some of them have said or done things which I can never forget or forgive. I don't let it come out so much and am living happily. But, those things tings. I used to quarrel but not anymore. i have found ignoring better. I just don't speak and go away. I am waiting to move out for college and then my own home. I don't want to live here anymore, because they have said some hurtful things. I know family is close and they care and all, but there are some things you don't say or do. Sure you will have a "bond" with family but there will be no love there, just a sense of duty.

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tina

@tina59

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

Financial matters is the most important thing in family dispute thats why its very very important to keep that completely separate from anything. No favours or expectations from family reg that will save and have ahealthy relationship

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