is 25 d right age for nidhi to be a mom? - Page 2

25 is ideal age to become mom.

Here even if Nidhi is not ready then too she needs to think from Ashu's perspective...AshNi having 18 years age gap and If one think from Ashu's POV its correct time for baby.

Originally posted by: radhika72

Voted for Yes. Biologically 25 is an ideal age to get a child. Yet the individuals mental maturity and attitude, inclination to take responsibility is more important. Here Nidhi has married a man in his 40s. so she must consider his dilemma as well. This is a small penalty she has to pay for her decision to marry a much older person..If she is smart both baby and career can go parallel. After all she is not a teen girl to say she is too young for a baby.

hi deep nice poll

i voted for no kyunki first both couple should be mentally & physically ready to this commitment

kyunki yeh ek bahot bada faisla hai jo dimaag thanda rakh kar lena chahiye bacho ko dekh kar hame khushi hoti hai yeh bacche hume pasand hai toh hume baby ke palaning karni chahiye aisa nahi hai

you know what mere shaadi ko 5 years hogaya phir bhi hume baby nahi chahiye mere hubby bolte hai ki let us enjoy our life first ,we both are not ready to be mom & dad its a big responsibility

we will get many people like db who always pressure for baby mujhe mere in laws ke ghar par toh every day taunt milta i m not allowd to attent any childerns function i feel bad little but hubby is their to support me

sonali

It depends actually...personally i think 25 is too early to be a mother...so voted for No.

Deepa, nidhi is of Matured age & shaadi shuda aurat.. Her being nt so serious of career earlier hs nothing to do with her responsibilty.. A person might nt be responsible or careless abt their career bt that doesn't mean that they Can't or aren't responsible of other things in life.. Plss dnt compare education & being responsible.. They r 2 diff things all together..

It is perfectly ok to have a baby for Nidhi. I feel she can complete internship during pregnancy. After that she can take 1 year break while she can take care of her child as well as can prepare for MD entrance. When she was not married she was not at all serious abt completing internship. If it is normal age gap marriage she can wait for some years. But as she married a man who is already 42 then she has to make some compromise.For her, profession can wait for 2/3 years but it will not be a wise decision to say no to baby. When you take some decision you must be ready for its consequences. Ashu's wish is very logical. Nidhi has people who can give 24/7 support to her. This marriage is a special case and if you love your spouse then you must understand his POV also. So, women now a days do everything while managing family & baby. So, this time I am with Ashu.

Me, married at 22 after completing my CA(inter) and at 24 I become mother. I cleared CA(final) when I was 7 months pregnant and appeared for the exam I was 4months pregnant. So if there is a will there is a way. Very importantly in young age handling baby and profession together is much more easier.