Can love happen again for EVERYONE?

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Janaki

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Posted: 13 years ago

Seeing today's episode made me wonder...everyone keeps telling Yash that he will fall in love again, but in real life, can that happen? I know many people do fall in love again after losing spouses, but many also don't even when they try.

So realistically, does love come only once for us, or does it come over and over again? Is it dependant on a person or can everyone love again, regardless of how much they loved their previous spouse?

For example, let's say Yash does fall in love with Aarti and then she dies too (I know, that's so depressing!). A few years later, can he fall in love with yet another woman? Exactly where is the limit to how big a person's heart can become? Should Aarti die, Yash will bear the pain of losing both Arpita and Aarti, so is it even possible for him to fall in love a third time?

Also, are there degrees of love? Can a man love two women equally or will he always love one more than the other? Can he ever love Aarti equal to the love he shared with Arpita?

I'm curious to know your opinion on this.

Edited by JanakiRaghunath - 13 years ago

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 13 years ago

Sometimes love happens unknowingly as Neelam stated in yesterdays episode...the way Aarti fell for Yash. But many a times one has to search for love, make things happen...Like Yash's case were he can't forget his first wife... there needs to be a conscious effort on the part of the griever to let go if the past, that past which keeps popping up when anything remotely resembling love or liking enters the grievers life...the past which keeps sucking him towards it... I know it is difficult to forget a past life lead with a loved one that was perfect but heck why can't another love be perfect again? 😊

Love is not just the heart, its the mind too... if your mind is willing then the heart can dare to love again! Cheers!! 😊

P.S. If Aarti were to die too, it would be downright creepy!! love her too much to think about her like that!! Cheers!! 😊

Edited by Loveforlife - 13 years ago

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-DeathEater-

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Posted: 13 years ago

Well in my opinion, true love happens only once. And even if you fall in love again after losing your partner, it won't be at the same as your first true love. As they say, "You can never forget your first love." This is what I think would happen to me if I was in this situation.

But for Yash and aarti's case, I think Yash can definitely fall in love again. At first both Yash and Aarti didn't want anything to do with actually fulfilling their marriage...they just married for the kids. But now that we have seen Aarti fall in love again, I'm guessing it can also happen with Yash. Just like how love didn't knock but just entered in Aarti's heart, the same can happen with Yash. Offcourse Yash won't give aarti the place arpita once had but aarti will definitely be able to make a separate place for herself in Yash's heart which no one would be able to take.

I guess in the real world, it actually depends on each individual and their choices. Some choose to drown in their partner's memories while some choose to move forward.

Edited by chandani756 - 13 years ago

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 13 years ago

@chandani756

But how can one be so sure that first love was true love!! the second one might be true love...but then if second love is not given a chance one would never know!! 😊

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Anusha

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Posted: 13 years ago

love can happen again.
It varies for person to person.
It depends on the past with their loosed ones.
Aarti has a painful past which she want to forget and she fell in love with yash.
Yash has a colorful past which he dont want to forget.it is easy to say forget the past.but it will take some time to fall in love in another one if that one is a right one like aarti for yash.
If aarti dies,i cant imagine that.i am not able to think about it

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mary78613

@mary78613

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Posted: 13 years ago

Nice post..

Well I personally think love can happen anytime it has no boundaries, no time limit..

To answer your question about yash...

Well love can happen twice for him by I doubt for a third time. Because losing your spouse is a very painful thing especially for unrelenting people like yash

As for other people who are more flexible, and willing to accept the reality, have the ability to love again and again. Because you won't decide whether to love someone or not, your heart will...😃

Edited by mary78613 - 13 years ago

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lulujjjj

@lulujjjj

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Posted: 13 years ago

love happens again but it might take some time no doubt in it.

we don't know how love happens it could be physical attraction,or the character anything could be even by looking at just the very finger tip too you might fall in love.

mans physical needs and love go hand in hand you cant separate these too from each other.unless you fall in love you will go to next step.sometimes vice versa it happens dwelling into PR and then starting to fall in love.

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leenarana42

@leenarana42

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Posted: 13 years ago

Awesome post.

To me I think love can knock anybody's heart anytime, anywhere, & it can

cross any boundary. Yash will definitely fall in love with Aarti again becoz of Aarti's aura Yash soon will start missing her whenever she is not there and that's the begining of new love.

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dudeUrock

@dudeUrock

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Posted: 13 years ago

Yes in real life love happen again if u get someone right, caring & loving!!

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lulujjjj

@lulujjjj

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Posted: 13 years ago

#10

as age pass by mans view on love keeps on changing we cannot regret it.
it varies from each other views.

living alone or living in the past doesn't heel the heart and cant be free from own desires as well than committing a sin its better to get remarried and fall in love with the partner that brings ample goodness to heart and body.

my policy if you don't get what you desired for then be-happy with what you have.

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